These tongue-in-cheek 'teenager pro tips' are hilariously and painfully spot on

Anyone who has raised a human being to (or near) adulthood knows that the teens years are all kinds of special. On the one hand, teens can be funny, smart, thoughtful, and caring. On the other hand, they also do things that make you scratch your head or bang it against the wall, depending on how bafflingly boneheaded they are.

There's a reason that legal adulthood doesn't start before 18. When research confirms the human brain isn't fully developed until age 25, the only appropriate, informed response is, "Yeah, that tracks." Because as delightful and fun as they can be, teens do things that simply don't make sense.

What's weird, though, is that enough teens do the same nonsensical things that it almost seems as if they're following a playbook of some sort. It feels like a big conspiracy, like every teenager in America is part of some super-secret TikTok group planning out shenanigans to annoy their parents.

That feeling is why the Facebook page Teenager Pro Tips is so. dang. funny. It shares tips for teen living that are so spot on it's spooky. Check this out:


"9pm is the proper time to request supplies for tomorrow's school project."

Or 10pm, if you're an overachiever.

"Where to put wrappers. Candy: IN the sofa. Bandaid: ON the counter."

I mean, where else would you put them?

"Find a chair that others use a lot. Put stuff on it."

It's a service. It'll save the chair wear and tear.

"After drinking water from a cup, drink more water from a different cup."

Again, the wear and tear thing. And someone's going to clean all those glasses anyway, so who cares, right?

"When the ice cube tray is empty store it in the freezer."

It's an ice cube tray. That's where it goes. Duh.

"Beg for a box of expensive protein bars. At the first bite decide you hate them."

And definitely leave the once-bitten bar on the counter as a warning to others.

"Leave a half swallow of milk in the container. Put it back in the fridge. Say, 'It's not empty.'"

I mean, that's technically and literally true. Teens are truth tellers.

"When asked to go get a sibling, don't go. Instead, stand next to the person who asked and scream your sibling's name."

Just doing what they're told.

"Tidy your room by putting clean clothes in the wash."

When the clean clothes get thrown on the floor, are they still clean? These are the philosophical questions that keep teens up at night.

"Prepare socks for the laundry by rolling them up tightly. Occasionally add sand."

Where oh where does all the sand come from? We don't even live near a beach.

"When the dishwasher is empty put your dirty dishes in the sink."

You mean there's not a dish fairy that magically transfers the dishes from the sink into the dishwasher? Whuh?

"Load ice cubes in your hydro flask with 60% accuracy."

And make sure you leave the 40% you missed to melt on the floor. Speaking of which...

"The water you accidentally spilled makes the floor slippery. Quickly exit to safety."

Safety first! Always!

"If you scrunch up a towel correctly you can make it stay wet f.o.r.e.v.e.r."

Forever and ever and evvverrrrrr.

"The proper way to hang a towel is not to."

Just reiterating the f.o.r.e.v.e.r part.

"Set many early morning alarms 5 minutes apart. Get up some time after the last one."

It's all about waking up gradually, you see.

"Moments before it's time to go yell WHERE'S MY SHIRT!"

It's all about not getting ready gradually, you see.

"When reminded to do something say 'I did' until proven otherwise.

A claim without evidence is merely an opinion, Mom.

"Your bathroom counter should look like a chemistry lab."

Including the aftermath of many experiments.

"Leave 2 squares of toilet paper so you don't have to change the roll."

Can't change it if it's not empty. Them's the rules.

"Sparkling water drinks are like chores. They should never be finished."

#HalfEmptyDrinks4Life

"When the trash is full, put more trash on it."

Doesn't count as full until you can't balance anything on top anymore. Duh.

Clearly whoever runs this page has or has had teenagers of their own because every single one of these is on the nose. (Follow Teenager Pro Tips on Facebook for more hilarity and solidarity.)


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When Sue Hoppin was in college, she met the man she was going to marry. "I was attending the University of Denver, and he was at the Air Force Academy," she says. "My dad had also attended the University of Denver and warned me not to date those flyboys from the Springs."

"He didn't say anything about marrying one of them," she says. And so began her life as a military spouse.

The life brings some real advantages, like opportunities to live abroad — her family got to live all around the US, Japan, and Germany — but it also comes with some downsides, like having to put your spouse's career over your own goals.

"Though we choose to marry someone in the military, we had career goals before we got married, and those didn't just disappear."

Career aspirations become more difficult to achieve, and progress comes with lots of starts and stops. After experiencing these unique challenges firsthand, Sue founded an organization to help other military spouses in similar situations.

Sue had gotten a degree in international relations because she wanted to pursue a career in diplomacy, but for fourteen years she wasn't able to make any headway — not until they moved back to the DC area. "Eighteen months later, many rejections later, it became apparent that this was going to be more challenging than I could ever imagine," she says.

Eighteen months is halfway through a typical assignment, and by then, most spouses are looking for their next assignment. "If I couldn't find a job in my own 'hometown' with multiple degrees and a great network, this didn't bode well for other military spouses," she says.

She's not wrong. Military spouses spend most of their lives moving with their partners, which means they're often far from family and other support networks. When they do find a job, they often make less than their civilian counterparts — and they're more likely to experience underemployment or unemployment. In fact, on some deployments, spouses are not even allowed to work.

Before the pandemic, military spouse unemployment was 22%. Since the pandemic, it's expected to rise to 35%.

Sue eventually found a job working at a military-focused nonprofit, and it helped her get the experience she needed to create her own dedicated military spouse program. She wrote a book and started saving up enough money to start the National Military Spouse Network (NMSN), which she founded in 2010 as the first organization of its kind.

"I founded the NMSN to help professional military spouses develop flexible careers they could perform from any location."

"Over the years, the program has expanded to include a free digital magazine, professional development events, drafting annual White Papers and organizing national and local advocacy to address the issues of most concern to the professional military spouse community," she says.

Not only was NMSN's mission important to Sue on a personal level she also saw it as part of something bigger than herself.

"Gone are the days when families can thrive on one salary. Like everyone else, most military families rely on two salaries to make ends meet. If a military spouse wants or needs to work, they should be able to," she says.

"When less than one percent of our population serves in the military," she continues, "we need to be able to not only recruit the best and the brightest but also retain them."

"We lose out as a nation when service members leave the force because their spouse is unable to find employment. We see it as a national security issue."

"The NMSN team has worked tirelessly to jumpstart the discussion and keep the challenges affecting military spouses top of mind. We have elevated the conversation to Congress and the White House," she continues. "I'm so proud of the fact that corporations, the government, and the general public are increasingly interested in the issues affecting military spouses and recognizing the employment roadblocks they unfairly have faced."

"We have collectively made other people care, and in doing so, we elevated the issues of military spouse unemployment to a national and global level," she adds. "In the process, we've also empowered military spouses to advocate for themselves and our community so that military spouse employment issues can continue to remain at the forefront."

Not only has NMSN become a sought-after leader in the military spouse employment space, but Sue has also seen the career she dreamed of materializing for herself. She was recently invited to participate in the public re-launch of Joining Forces, a White House initiative supporting military and veteran families, with First Lady Dr. Jill Biden.

She has also had two of her recommendations for practical solutions introduced into legislation just this year. She was the first in the Air Force community to show leadership the power of social media to reach both their airmen and their military families.

That is why Sue is one of Tory Burch's "Empowered Women" this year. The $5,000 donation will be going to The Madeira School, a school that Sue herself attended when she was in high school because, she says, "the lessons I learned there as a student pretty much set the tone for my personal and professional life. It's so meaningful to know that the donation will go towards making a Madeira education more accessible to those who may not otherwise be able to afford it and providing them with a life-changing opportunity."

Most military children will move one to three times during high school so having a continuous four-year experience at one high school can be an important gift. After traveling for much of her formative years, Sue attended Madeira and found herself "in an environment that fostered confidence and empowerment. As young women, we were expected to have a voice and advocate not just for ourselves, but for those around us."

To learn more about Tory Burch and Upworthy's Empowered Women program visit https://www.toryburch.com/empoweredwomen/. Nominate an inspiring woman in your community today!

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