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Reasons why you should take candid photos and videos of your family doing absolutely nothing

"These little slices of life are the things people treasure years later."

pictures, memories, mementos, photography, love

Take pics of your kids just playing. You won't regret it.

Do you have a treasured picture or video of a loved one during a candid moment? No posing, no big event, just them being them?

We often ask loved ones to pose for a photo on their birthday or record moments like a friend getting married or a child singing in the school choir—milestone events we want to remember. However, many folks end up revisiting pictures or videos of their parents, kids, friends, or pets just being themselves.


"Some of the most precious footage I’ve ever captured as a cinematographer has never been the perfectly posed moments, it’s the quiet ones," cinematographer Jason Saracoglu told Upworthy. "The way a dad hums while making coffee, the way a nan folds a jumper with absolute precision, the way siblings chat away about nothing in particular at a family gathering. These little slices of life are the things people treasure years later."

@pinboardbored

love when ppl do this 📷🎹💽🏞️ #aesthetic #targetaudience #pinterest #girlhood

Many regular folks agree with Saracoglu and went on Reddit to share some of their treasured "boring" or quiet moments they've caught on camera—and why it’s just as important to preserve those as the classic "set up and say cheese" shots:

"I did this with my kids, and as much times I would get goofy smiles or pouty frowns, nothing tops just them playing with their Hot Wheels for me. Just something about that pocket of memory for me makes the bad days turn bright."

"Those little unposed moments end up carrying so much weight later. It’s like capturing their whole personality without them even realizing it."

“The best ones are when they don't even know I'm recording. Got a video of my mom singing along to the radio while washing dishes last week.”

“I've got a 30-second clip of my grandma staring out the window doing absolutely nothing and it hits harder than any posed photo.”

“I used to think this kind of stuff was hokey, but my dad made me and my brother DVDs with some old home videos for Christmas a few years ago, and I heard my grandad’s voice for the first time in over 20 years and immediately burst into tears. I really didn’t think it would affect me so much, but I loved it.”

“My cat just passed away and I recently took a video of her snoring while she was sleeping. That video means everything to me now.”

“Oh man, we had The Cousin We All Hated, because her camcorder was attached to her shoulder at every single family gathering. She's still horribly annoying, but years down the road, hearing my grandfather's voice again, seeing my great grandmother, hearing silly family arguments over stuffing or slapping someone away from the bacon on the turkey is all the feels wrapped up in a tiny bundle.”

“This hits hard. Someday those casual, unplanned clips become the closest thing to reliving a moment you didn’t know would matter so much.”

Whether it's capturing a child's personality and voice or preserving the presence of a grandparent, unstaged, real moments often become the most treasured memories of the people or pets we love at that point in time. They either become true reminders of a person that's no longer with us or a time capsule to revisit youth gone by.

If you haven't been recording or photographing slice of life moments and want to start, you might be wondering about the best ways to capture them. Fortunately, Upworthy talked to professional photographers, documentarians, and cinematographers to get some tips on how to capture those candid, slice-of-life moments.

Pick recording a video or a taking photo based on what you want to capture

"Choose your medium based on what piqued your interest in the first place. If it's my kids' laughter that drew me, I'm likely going to shoot a video rather than still photos because it's those magical chirpy sounds that I want to remember," said wedding photographer Jocelyn Voo.

Don’t worry if you don’t have a good camera, just a phone will do

"The equipment that you need is what you have in your pocket or purse: your phone," said photographer/videographer Bob Mackowski. "Phones take fantastic photos and videos, and they're less cumbersome than toting around a camera or camcorder."

"You don't need fancy equipment; your phone will do just fine if these photos are just for you," said elopement and wedding photographer Angela Tyler.

"[Phones are] also less conspicuous because people are used to seeing a phone glued in front of their faces," added Mackowski. "People are somewhat less likely to turn and pose when you use a phone versus when you use a camera."

"A pro camera app can also help if you’re feeling adventurous. It lets you lock focus and exposure so the clip doesn’t keep shifting every time someone moves," added Saracoglu. "But honestly, the heart of a good candid video isn’t expensive gear. It’s timing. Don’t wait for perfection. Just press record."

@taytrudeau

Lifechanging really #iphonetricks #iphonehack #candid

Just keep taking pictures, the more of them, the better

"Don’t be afraid, get trigger-happy," said documentary filmmaker Cole Robinson. "Real moments shift quickly. Even if a couple of the shots feel forced and inauthentic, there are often frames surrounding them that will have the candid feel you’re going for. Also, the more photos you take, the quicker you’ll learn."

"The more often you have your camera in your hands, the more chances you'll have, and the more comfortable people will be around you while holding a camera, since they'll become so used to it and be more likely to start ignoring the camera altogether," said photographer/videographer Kaitlyn Holeman of Skyewater Photo + Film.

"Keep your camera on standby and look for the little moments and the things that precede them—the subtle glance between friends, the moment your grandmother reaches for her husband's hand, things like that," said Tyler. "The more you pay attention, the easier these things are to spot."

"Identify an opportunity," said Voo. "Maybe you hear your toddlers giggling, or your parents are making their regular Sunday roast, or your friends are shooting hoops together. Investigate from a distance without inserting yourself into the situation."

"Whether that's having your child complete a puzzle with their grandparent, asking your family to roast marshmallows around a bonfire, or having all the siblings play a game outside, a good distraction prevents them from stopping to pose for the camera," said Holeman.

@zaaaqqi

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"Remember, at first your friends and loved ones may be a little awkward and shy," said Robinson. "But after a while, once they get used to you taking photos, having a camera on you regularly, it’ll become a lot easier to catch them in their best moments, and the real, authentic versions of the people you love will start to show up in your photos."

"You can't take too many pictures. The thousands of photos I have of my dog prove this," concluded Tyler. "I recently lost my grandmother, and the number of times I've reached for a photo of her sitting at the kitchen table mid-laugh surprised even me. But in the end, it's those everyday moments you miss most when they're gone."

It might be worth being that annoying "Cousin We All Hated" that takes pictures or records video all of the time. You never know which small "nothing" memory will become a treasured one.

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UCI doctoral candidate Mya Le Thai has developed a nanowire-based technology that allows lithium-ion batteries to be recharged hundreds of thousands of times.

A quote widely attributed to the Roman philosopher Seneca says, "Luck happens when preparation meets opportunity." In 2016, a doctoral candidate at the University of California Irvine proved that this is indeed the truth.

Nine years ago, Mya Le Thai, PhD was playing around in the lab when she made a colossal discovery that could lead to a rechargeable battery—that could last up to 400 years. That means longer-lasting appliances, laptops, smartphones, cars and so much more, plus fewer lithium ion batteries piling up in landfills.


A team of researchers at UCI had been experimenting with nanowires for potential use in batteries, but found that, over time, the thin fragile wires would break down and crack after too many charging cycles. A charge cycle is when a battery goes from completely full to completely empty and back to full again.

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But one day on a whim, Thai coated a set of gold nanowires in manganese dioxide and a Plexiglas-like electrolyte gel.

"She started to cycle these gel capacitors, and that's when we got the surprise," said Reginald Penner, chair of the university's chemistry department. "She said, 'this thing has been cycling 10,000 cycles and it's still going.' She came back a few days later and said 'it's been cycling for 30,000 cycles.' That kept going on for a month."

This discovery is mind-blowing because the average laptop battery lasts 300 to 500 charge cycles. The nanobattery developed at UCI made it though 200,000 cycles in three months. That would extend the life of the average laptop battery by about 400 years. The rest of the device would have probably gone kaput decades before the battery, but the implications for a battery that lasts hundreds of years are pretty startling.

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“Mya was playing around, and she coated this whole thing with a very thin gel layer and started to cycle it,” Penner added. “She discovered that just by using this gel, she could cycle it hundreds of thousands of times without losing any capacity.”

“That was crazy,” he added, “because these things typically die in dramatic fashion after 5,000 or 6,000 or 7,000 cycles at most. ”"The big picture is that there may be a very simple way to stabilize nanowires of the type that we studied. If this turns out to be generally true, it would be a great advance for the community."

Not bad for just fooling around in the laboratory!

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Since her discovery, Mya Le Thai earned her PhD and has gone on to a successful career as the Principal Scientist with the Enevate Corporation, a company set "to develop innovative battery technologies that accelerate adoption of electrified mobility," according to their website.

She has also filed patents for her various inventions, the most recent of which being "Cells with blocking devices for delayed heat propagation" in July 2025. Her full list of patents can be found on Justia.

This article originally appeared eight years ago. It has been updated.

Family

Reasons why you should take candid photos and videos of your family doing absolutely nothing

"These little slices of life are the things people treasure years later."

pictures, memories, mementos, photography, love

Take pics of your kids just playing. You won't regret it.

Do you have a treasured picture or video of a loved one during a candid moment? No posing, no big event, just them being them?

We often ask loved ones to pose for a photo on their birthday or record moments like a friend getting married or a child singing in the school choir—milestone events we want to remember. However, many folks end up revisiting pictures or videos of their parents, kids, friends, or pets just being themselves.


"Some of the most precious footage I’ve ever captured as a cinematographer has never been the perfectly posed moments, it’s the quiet ones," cinematographer Jason Saracoglu told Upworthy. "The way a dad hums while making coffee, the way a nan folds a jumper with absolute precision, the way siblings chat away about nothing in particular at a family gathering. These little slices of life are the things people treasure years later."

@pinboardbored

love when ppl do this 📷🎹💽🏞️ #aesthetic #targetaudience #pinterest #girlhood

Many regular folks agree with Saracoglu and went on Reddit to share some of their treasured "boring" or quiet moments they've caught on camera—and why it’s just as important to preserve those as the classic "set up and say cheese" shots:

"I did this with my kids, and as much times I would get goofy smiles or pouty frowns, nothing tops just them playing with their Hot Wheels for me. Just something about that pocket of memory for me makes the bad days turn bright."

"Those little unposed moments end up carrying so much weight later. It’s like capturing their whole personality without them even realizing it."

“The best ones are when they don't even know I'm recording. Got a video of my mom singing along to the radio while washing dishes last week.”

“I've got a 30-second clip of my grandma staring out the window doing absolutely nothing and it hits harder than any posed photo.”

“I used to think this kind of stuff was hokey, but my dad made me and my brother DVDs with some old home videos for Christmas a few years ago, and I heard my grandad’s voice for the first time in over 20 years and immediately burst into tears. I really didn’t think it would affect me so much, but I loved it.”

“My cat just passed away and I recently took a video of her snoring while she was sleeping. That video means everything to me now.”

“Oh man, we had The Cousin We All Hated, because her camcorder was attached to her shoulder at every single family gathering. She's still horribly annoying, but years down the road, hearing my grandfather's voice again, seeing my great grandmother, hearing silly family arguments over stuffing or slapping someone away from the bacon on the turkey is all the feels wrapped up in a tiny bundle.”

“This hits hard. Someday those casual, unplanned clips become the closest thing to reliving a moment you didn’t know would matter so much.”

Whether it's capturing a child's personality and voice or preserving the presence of a grandparent, unstaged, real moments often become the most treasured memories of the people or pets we love at that point in time. They either become true reminders of a person that's no longer with us or a time capsule to revisit youth gone by.

If you haven't been recording or photographing slice of life moments and want to start, you might be wondering about the best ways to capture them. Fortunately, Upworthy talked to professional photographers, documentarians, and cinematographers to get some tips on how to capture those candid, slice-of-life moments.

Pick recording a video or a taking photo based on what you want to capture

"Choose your medium based on what piqued your interest in the first place. If it's my kids' laughter that drew me, I'm likely going to shoot a video rather than still photos because it's those magical chirpy sounds that I want to remember," said wedding photographer Jocelyn Voo.

Don’t worry if you don’t have a good camera, just a phone will do

"The equipment that you need is what you have in your pocket or purse: your phone," said photographer/videographer Bob Mackowski. "Phones take fantastic photos and videos, and they're less cumbersome than toting around a camera or camcorder."

"You don't need fancy equipment; your phone will do just fine if these photos are just for you," said elopement and wedding photographer Angela Tyler.

"[Phones are] also less conspicuous because people are used to seeing a phone glued in front of their faces," added Mackowski. "People are somewhat less likely to turn and pose when you use a phone versus when you use a camera."

"A pro camera app can also help if you’re feeling adventurous. It lets you lock focus and exposure so the clip doesn’t keep shifting every time someone moves," added Saracoglu. "But honestly, the heart of a good candid video isn’t expensive gear. It’s timing. Don’t wait for perfection. Just press record."

@taytrudeau

Lifechanging really #iphonetricks #iphonehack #candid

Just keep taking pictures, the more of them, the better

"Don’t be afraid, get trigger-happy," said documentary filmmaker Cole Robinson. "Real moments shift quickly. Even if a couple of the shots feel forced and inauthentic, there are often frames surrounding them that will have the candid feel you’re going for. Also, the more photos you take, the quicker you’ll learn."

"The more often you have your camera in your hands, the more chances you'll have, and the more comfortable people will be around you while holding a camera, since they'll become so used to it and be more likely to start ignoring the camera altogether," said photographer/videographer Kaitlyn Holeman of Skyewater Photo + Film.

"Keep your camera on standby and look for the little moments and the things that precede them—the subtle glance between friends, the moment your grandmother reaches for her husband's hand, things like that," said Tyler. "The more you pay attention, the easier these things are to spot."

"Identify an opportunity," said Voo. "Maybe you hear your toddlers giggling, or your parents are making their regular Sunday roast, or your friends are shooting hoops together. Investigate from a distance without inserting yourself into the situation."

"Whether that's having your child complete a puzzle with their grandparent, asking your family to roast marshmallows around a bonfire, or having all the siblings play a game outside, a good distraction prevents them from stopping to pose for the camera," said Holeman.

@zaaaqqi

☹️

"Remember, at first your friends and loved ones may be a little awkward and shy," said Robinson. "But after a while, once they get used to you taking photos, having a camera on you regularly, it’ll become a lot easier to catch them in their best moments, and the real, authentic versions of the people you love will start to show up in your photos."

"You can't take too many pictures. The thousands of photos I have of my dog prove this," concluded Tyler. "I recently lost my grandmother, and the number of times I've reached for a photo of her sitting at the kitchen table mid-laugh surprised even me. But in the end, it's those everyday moments you miss most when they're gone."

It might be worth being that annoying "Cousin We All Hated" that takes pictures or records video all of the time. You never know which small "nothing" memory will become a treasured one.

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Classic SNL Christmas sketch has people rethinking the holiday dynamics in their family.

Five years ago, one of the most iconic Christmas sketches ever aired on Saturday Night Live. It's called simply, "Christmas Robe," and it depicts an average American family excitedly waking up on Christmas morning, running to the tree, and opening their presents. In song form, each member of the family takes turns rapping about their own gift haul: A hat, a drone, a pinball machine...

Except for poor mom, played perfectly by Kristen Wiig, who only got a robe—that was 40% off. Things only get worse for Mom as she discovers that her stocking is also empty and she must now go make the family breakfast while everyone plays with their new gifts.


If you haven't seen it, here it is. It's well worth watching in its entirety:


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The sketch got a lot of laughs and resonated deeply with people—especially moms—who watched it.

It's no big secret that moms are the primary makers of Christmas magic in most Western families. While they get joy out of making the holidays special for their families, it's a lot of exhausting work, made worse when it goes unnoticed and unappreciated. It's implied, of course, that Kristen Wiig's character bought everyone their presents while no one in the family bothered to think of her at all.

Jessica Cushman Johnston writes for Motherly: "[Making Christmas magic] is not something my husband or my kids put on me, it’s my own deal. It’s also a tinsel-covered baton handed down from generation to generation of women. As a kid, I just thought the warm fuzzy feelings I felt on Christmas morning 'happened.' Now I know that the magic happens because someone is working hard, and now that someone is me."

Kristin Wiig's character beautifully says it all with the dead-inside expression as she feigns excitement over her lonely robe. In just two and a half minutes, the cast and writers managed to capture a frustrating feeling that millions of women relate to.

The sketch spawned discussions, think pieces, and even parodies when it aired in 2020. Real moms took to social media to "show off" their own robes in an act of solidarity. The sketch had, one could say, a moment. And then, quietly, it retired and took its place in the SNL holiday hall of fame, destined to be re-watched for years to come.

And then something funny happened. People kept tuning in. The skit continued to reach new viewers, and somewhere along the line, a few people actually learned something from the extremely silly sketch.

Saturday Night Live's YouTube and social media are full of comments from viewers who say the sketch opened their eyes in a very real way. And even better, that they're changing their behavior because of it:

"As a retail worker, I actually heard multiple people reference this sketch while buying presents for their wife/mom this year. Thanks SNL!"

"This skit changed Christmas in our house. The year it aired my husband made sure I didn’t get a robe and since this aired (okay, two Christmases have gone by) it’s a joy to see boxes under the tree and a full stocking- now in our house when I’m forgotten my husband says, “you got a robe” and adjusts the situation. Never thought a skit could change my life."

"I just saw this first time. I'm definitely going to buy better present next Christmas to my mom."

"A few years ago, I got a robe. This year, I got a new iPad plus all the accessories. SNL doing all the moms a solid."

"As a grown man, this skit is the first time I've realized how true this is. And now I feel so damn awful :( Gonna bombard moms with the presents this year"

"Seriously! I got a bunch more stuff for my mom after seeing this! It's so accurate. No more robes for mom!"

"I was laughing at this, then realized my mom's stocking was empty and ran out and bought her a truckload of stuff. Love you Mom!"

"Thanks, SNL. After watching this with the family, I had the most bountiful Christmas ever!! And the gifts were wrapped instead of left in the bags the came in."

"This video did more to stimulate spending on Moms this year than almost anything else, guaranteed. Look at SNL actually making a difference with their humor"

The comments go on and on, with the video now reaching over 12 million views. Some moms changed their behavior, too, after seeing the sketch:

"This is spot on, and exactly why I now buy myself Christmas presents, without feeling guilty about it."

The trouble of moms unfairly shouldering too much labor around the holidays (and, well, most other times of the year) is not a new problem. Not by a long shot. So why has this skit reached people when other forms of messaging has failed to sway them?

Marie Nicola, a pop culture historian and cultural analyst, says that no amount of deeply serious essays or shrugged off "mom is complaining again" can fix what satire easily addresses. That's the power of comedy at its best:

"It allows the audience see what was historically unseen or ignored, and it validates the labour as visible and concrete, without being accusatory because it wraps the whole thing up in camp comedy and exaggeration. The skit makes it safe to laugh. This is what psychologists call benign violation," she says. "SNL is showing viewers that something is wrong but they have made it safe enough that people can laugh at it instead of feeling attacked. Once the defenses drop, then recognition can flow through that opening."

The Humor Research Lab writes that humor occurs when an accepted "norm" is violated in a benign way—that's the benign violation Nicola's referring to. "Jokes ... fail to be funny when either they are too tame or too risqué."

The best pieces of satire—the ones that reach the highest levels of cultural relevance—thread that needle perfectly. The norm, in this case, according to Nicola, is that it is "a privilege to curate the perfect holiday experience for the family, the gift is the joy in the moment and their memories for years to come." We're not allowed to talk about the dejection and exhaustion that come from all that hard work. This sketch gave a lot of people permission for the first time to do so.

It’s not the first time that SNL’s comedy and satire have had a palpable effect on how we view the world.


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Once SNL performed the "More Cowbell" sketch, none of us could look at the bizarrely overproduced "Don't Fear the Reaper" the same way again. An old Eddie Murphy sketch got a lot of laughs out of the idea of "white privilege" long before it became a commonly known concept. And people had a hard time taking Sarah Palin seriously after Tina Fey's spot-on yet over-the-top impersonation, with studies later investigating the "Tina Fey Effect's" impact on the election.

And now, the more than 12 million people who have seen "Christmas Robe" are going to have a hard time looking at Mom’s empty stocking without being reminded of Kristen Wiig’s pitch-perfect performance.

Of course, "Christmas Robe" continues to land and connect with viewers today in part because it has not solved the problem of household inequities. The phenomenon continues to exist in spades. But the fact that it’s made even a small dent is pretty remarkable for a two-and-a-half-minute parody rap song.

Family

Reasons why you should take candid photos and videos of your family doing absolutely nothing

"These little slices of life are the things people treasure years later."

pictures, memories, mementos, photography, love

Take pics of your kids just playing. You won't regret it.

Do you have a treasured picture or video of a loved one during a candid moment? No posing, no big event, just them being them?

We often ask loved ones to pose for a photo on their birthday or record moments like a friend getting married or a child singing in the school choir—milestone events we want to remember. However, many folks end up revisiting pictures or videos of their parents, kids, friends, or pets just being themselves.


"Some of the most precious footage I’ve ever captured as a cinematographer has never been the perfectly posed moments, it’s the quiet ones," cinematographer Jason Saracoglu told Upworthy. "The way a dad hums while making coffee, the way a nan folds a jumper with absolute precision, the way siblings chat away about nothing in particular at a family gathering. These little slices of life are the things people treasure years later."

@pinboardbored

love when ppl do this 📷🎹💽🏞️ #aesthetic #targetaudience #pinterest #girlhood

Many regular folks agree with Saracoglu and went on Reddit to share some of their treasured "boring" or quiet moments they've caught on camera—and why it’s just as important to preserve those as the classic "set up and say cheese" shots:

"I did this with my kids, and as much times I would get goofy smiles or pouty frowns, nothing tops just them playing with their Hot Wheels for me. Just something about that pocket of memory for me makes the bad days turn bright."

"Those little unposed moments end up carrying so much weight later. It’s like capturing their whole personality without them even realizing it."

“The best ones are when they don't even know I'm recording. Got a video of my mom singing along to the radio while washing dishes last week.”

“I've got a 30-second clip of my grandma staring out the window doing absolutely nothing and it hits harder than any posed photo.”

“I used to think this kind of stuff was hokey, but my dad made me and my brother DVDs with some old home videos for Christmas a few years ago, and I heard my grandad’s voice for the first time in over 20 years and immediately burst into tears. I really didn’t think it would affect me so much, but I loved it.”

“My cat just passed away and I recently took a video of her snoring while she was sleeping. That video means everything to me now.”

“Oh man, we had The Cousin We All Hated, because her camcorder was attached to her shoulder at every single family gathering. She's still horribly annoying, but years down the road, hearing my grandfather's voice again, seeing my great grandmother, hearing silly family arguments over stuffing or slapping someone away from the bacon on the turkey is all the feels wrapped up in a tiny bundle.”

“This hits hard. Someday those casual, unplanned clips become the closest thing to reliving a moment you didn’t know would matter so much.”

Whether it's capturing a child's personality and voice or preserving the presence of a grandparent, unstaged, real moments often become the most treasured memories of the people or pets we love at that point in time. They either become true reminders of a person that's no longer with us or a time capsule to revisit youth gone by.

If you haven't been recording or photographing slice of life moments and want to start, you might be wondering about the best ways to capture them. Fortunately, Upworthy talked to professional photographers, documentarians, and cinematographers to get some tips on how to capture those candid, slice-of-life moments.

Pick recording a video or a taking photo based on what you want to capture

"Choose your medium based on what piqued your interest in the first place. If it's my kids' laughter that drew me, I'm likely going to shoot a video rather than still photos because it's those magical chirpy sounds that I want to remember," said wedding photographer Jocelyn Voo.

Don’t worry if you don’t have a good camera, just a phone will do

"The equipment that you need is what you have in your pocket or purse: your phone," said photographer/videographer Bob Mackowski. "Phones take fantastic photos and videos, and they're less cumbersome than toting around a camera or camcorder."

"You don't need fancy equipment; your phone will do just fine if these photos are just for you," said elopement and wedding photographer Angela Tyler.

"[Phones are] also less conspicuous because people are used to seeing a phone glued in front of their faces," added Mackowski. "People are somewhat less likely to turn and pose when you use a phone versus when you use a camera."

"A pro camera app can also help if you’re feeling adventurous. It lets you lock focus and exposure so the clip doesn’t keep shifting every time someone moves," added Saracoglu. "But honestly, the heart of a good candid video isn’t expensive gear. It’s timing. Don’t wait for perfection. Just press record."

@taytrudeau

Lifechanging really #iphonetricks #iphonehack #candid

Just keep taking pictures, the more of them, the better

"Don’t be afraid, get trigger-happy," said documentary filmmaker Cole Robinson. "Real moments shift quickly. Even if a couple of the shots feel forced and inauthentic, there are often frames surrounding them that will have the candid feel you’re going for. Also, the more photos you take, the quicker you’ll learn."

"The more often you have your camera in your hands, the more chances you'll have, and the more comfortable people will be around you while holding a camera, since they'll become so used to it and be more likely to start ignoring the camera altogether," said photographer/videographer Kaitlyn Holeman of Skyewater Photo + Film.

"Keep your camera on standby and look for the little moments and the things that precede them—the subtle glance between friends, the moment your grandmother reaches for her husband's hand, things like that," said Tyler. "The more you pay attention, the easier these things are to spot."

"Identify an opportunity," said Voo. "Maybe you hear your toddlers giggling, or your parents are making their regular Sunday roast, or your friends are shooting hoops together. Investigate from a distance without inserting yourself into the situation."

"Whether that's having your child complete a puzzle with their grandparent, asking your family to roast marshmallows around a bonfire, or having all the siblings play a game outside, a good distraction prevents them from stopping to pose for the camera," said Holeman.

@zaaaqqi

☹️

"Remember, at first your friends and loved ones may be a little awkward and shy," said Robinson. "But after a while, once they get used to you taking photos, having a camera on you regularly, it’ll become a lot easier to catch them in their best moments, and the real, authentic versions of the people you love will start to show up in your photos."

"You can't take too many pictures. The thousands of photos I have of my dog prove this," concluded Tyler. "I recently lost my grandmother, and the number of times I've reached for a photo of her sitting at the kitchen table mid-laugh surprised even me. But in the end, it's those everyday moments you miss most when they're gone."

It might be worth being that annoying "Cousin We All Hated" that takes pictures or records video all of the time. You never know which small "nothing" memory will become a treasured one.

Culture

Former HR employee reveals the 23 subtle signs your company is preparing for layoffs

”People who prepared for layoffs early say it changes everything.”

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In an uncertain and fluctuating economy, job security is one of the many worries facing people today. Getting laid off can be emotionally exhausting, and the situation sometimes is downright scary.

In an important r/careeradvice Reddit thread titled, "Former HR here - subtle signs your company is preparing for layoffs," a former HR employee offered some excellent career advice about navigating potential layoffs. The OP outlined the different cues that can suggest inevitable layoffs coming in the future for your company.


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Early warning Signs for potential layoffs

The warning signs that signal future layoffs usually appear pretty early. Clues to potential layoffs beginning in as few as three to six months might be:

  • Discretionary spending freezes
  • Training and development budgets disappear
  • Frozen merit and bonus plans
  • The culture and messaging switch to more family and team-based due to tanking morale
  • Office consolidation
  • A general feeling that leadership is trying to control the narrative

A 2025 article in U.S. News and World Report offered valuable clues like top executives leaving the company, employees who leave the company not being replaced, and meetings feeling more somber.

Medium-term signs for potential layoffs

These things might begin to appear when layoffs are only a few months away:

  • Managers act weird during one-to-ones—avoiding eye contact, vague about future planning, not fighting for resources, seeming stressed or even checked out
  • Cross-functional projects are disorganized—multiple team projects are canceled or lose steam, combining and shuffling teams in weird and unproductive ways
  • Senior people leave or aren't replaced—VPs get taken off the project or their role gets absorbed, "executives often see the writing on the wall and decide to jump ship"
  • HR schedules random meetings—random employee check-ins, increased focus on documentation, anonymous surveys about role clarity and organizational effectiveness
  • Desperate financial moves—the company takes on debt or seeks additional funding, selling assets to raise cash, delaying payments to vendors, or making late payments on bills
A 2023 article by CNBC suggested looking for warning signals in your sector of employment. If your particular industry is experiencing increased layoffs, your company may soon follow. Suzy Welch, a career advisor, was quoted as saying, "Your boss is a human being. A boss will share that information with members of the team that they really trust."

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Immediate red flags to potential layoffs

With potential layoffs beginning as soon as two to four weeks, these warning signs should put you on high alert:

  • Expectations to document things in detail
  • Managers having mysterious meetings not scheduled on the calendar
  • HR blocks calendar time as private (that's a layoff day)
  • IT asks questions about access and notice permissions
  • Conference rooms are blocked
  • The parking lot is full earlier than usual, suggesting leadership arrives early to prepare and coordinate

A 2025 article in Times & Careers suggested increased workload, job redistribution, unusual behavior from management, leadership changes, budget cuts, and overall poor company performance as strong indicators for impending layoffs.

The final 48 hours

In the last days before layoffs, it should probably be pretty clear that things have not been going well. Clues that it's beginning can be:

  • Executives all in the office on the same day, even when they're usually remote
  • Coworkers disappearing into conference rooms
  • Email access is acting weird
  • VPN connections are dropping
  • Badge access is not working
  • Your manager asks for a quick calendar invite without context

A 2024 article in The Customer Success Café newsletter shared that glaring clues for a layoff can be hiring freezes, program eliminations, company restructuring, investments without details, and leadership changes.

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A call for action to best protect yourself

These signs of potential layoffs are only signs. All these things occurring in your workplace don't mean you're about to get laid off. However, protecting yourself and giving yourself the best advantages during a very challenging time is, of course, in your best interest. A 2025 article in AARP suggests 10 valuable steps to preparing for a potential layoff:
  1. Reality check—Even when a company plans layoffs, not everybody is getting terminated. Is this your own anxiety and insecurity, or is there a real basis for concern?
  2. Examine your personal finances—Review income and spending patterns, consider canceling subscriptions, and start eating at home and dining out less.
  3. Emergency fund—Do you have one, and can you add to it? Start lowering payments towards debts to help build a bigger cash stockpile.
  4. Employee benefits—There is federal and state assistance available. Being prepared can help you file sooner to get money quicker.
  5. Reconnect and check your network—It's time to reach out to old friends and contacts and search through your LinkedIn connections.
  6. Resume update—Start working on your resume and LinkedIn profile to make sure it's up to date and looking good.
  7. Side hustles can help—Adding new revenue streams is a plus. Consider freelance work, but first check with a financial advisor on how this side hustle money can impact unemployment benefits.
  8. Career Coach—Some therapists and coaches can help manage emotional stress and develop a plan to better navigate a layoff.
  9. Self-care—Getting laid off can be extremely stressful and the anxiety and fear surrounding it can be unpleasant emotions to navigate. Learning how to better manage these emotions is important.
  10. Be open to new possibilities—This is an opportunity to switch careers or contemplate retirement. If you're forced to make a change, try to see the situation as a moment to take advantage.
A 2025 statement shared by Fidelity suggested taking advantage of medical checkups and filling prescriptions for everyone in the family. If you have medical receipts for qualified medical expenses, start the reimbursement process with your employer. You may be able to receive compensation from your workplace after a layoff, but it will be easier with your current access to the company's websites.
This TikTok post by @corrinadunne might help you find some more comforting tools to navigate a layoff better:
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John Bisnar, an employment lawyer who represents workers in California, told Upworthy:

"In situations where there are potential layoffs, the best strategy for an employee would be the incorporation of emotional grounding and planning. First, it is important to focus on documentation and clarity. You would need to ensure that you have documentation of your performance reviews, your job description, and written communications regarding your position. This becomes essential if the termination gives rise to potential litigation regarding whether the termination was legal.

Second, assess your financial needs and support system. As an employee, one feels powerless during a potential layoff situation. Knowing your financial runway, as well as your financial support system, such as unemployment benefits, helps alleviate your fear and makes it easier to decide what to do.

Finally, keep up the professionalism and the good work. Workers who are uncertain sometimes tend to disengage, but staying involved leaves you options. In case the layoff actually occurs, the employee needs to be aware that there are some matters regarding the last paycheck that are not up for negotiation, possibly some issues relating to the WARN Act, and that they can negotiate the severance package."

You can watch this video by career and leadership coach Andrew LaCivita for some helpful tips on bouncing back from a layoff:

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What not to do

Some helpful advice offered in the Reddit thread was, "don't panic or make it obvious you're job hunting. Don’t print your resume on the company printer, don’t take recruiting calls at your desk." It's important to avoid burning bridges and to maintain professionalism. You actually might not be getting laid off, and certainly don't want to give them a reason or cause for termination.

If you survive the cut, "Start looking anyway. Companies that do one round of layoffs often do more. Plus, the culture and workload might not be sustainable. Support your laid-off colleagues. Write recommendations, make introductions, be a reference. What goes around comes around."