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  • A wallaby lost her mother. So this woman carried her in a pouch for a year.
    Photo credit: @lindsays_animal_school/Instagram, used with permissionBaby Blossom enjoying her DIY pouch

    Like most marsupials, wallaby joeys typically remain inside their mother‘s pouch for up to nine months to grow, nurse, and stay warm. At around six to seven months, they begin emerging to explore, but will continue returning to the pouch for security. 

    A baby in need

    But when Blossom, a baby albino wallaby, showed up at Lindsay Clarity’s UK-based animal rescue center, Animal School, she was far too young to manage without that safe, enclosed space.

    Unfortunately, Blossom’s mom was nowhere to be found, and every other resident wallaby at the rescue already had a joey tucked into their pouch. There was no natural substitute available.

    Clarity, who had years of experience caring for vulnerable animals (particularly rearing babies), stepped in with a creative solution. She placed a soft pink pillowcase inside a backpack and turned it into a portable pouch. The setup gave Blossom the warmth and closeness she needed to feel secure.

    A year of dedication

    Clarity carried Blossom in that improvised pouch for an entire year. She compared the experience to “walking around like a pregnant lady,” sharing with GeoBeats Animals that it became part of her daily routine.

    Feeding Blossom required extra effort. Specialized milk and a particular bottle had to be shipped from Australia so the joey could develop properly. Every detail mattered, and Clarity stayed committed through it all.

    Growing strong

    The care paid off. Blossom did indeed “blossom,” eventually outgrowing her pouch and exploring the world on her own terms. Today, she’s developed a distinct personality, described as “more catlike than doglike,” and even showed a fondness for soft, calming sounds, which Clarity plays herself. 

    Not to mention, she has a loyal fanbase invested in the daily adventures of her life. What began as an emergency rescue turned into a journey that many people feel connected to.

    As for Clarity, she credits Blossom with changing her life, saying, “Caring for her is one of the most rewarding things I have ever done.”

    Fascinating wallaby facts

    Blossom’s story also highlights how remarkably adaptable wallabies are: able to live in forests, rocky areas, or open grasslands. They are known to be opportunistic feeders, grazing at dawn and dusk to avoid midday heat. ​​They also have the ability to pause pregnancy, which aids survival in uncertain environmental conditions.

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    A young wallaby Photo credit: Canva

    Albino wallabies like Blossom are especially rare. Their lack of pigmentation gives them their striking pale appearance, though it can also make them more vulnerable in the wild due to reduced camouflage.

    Life at Animal School

    However, Blossom is, of course,  just one of the many happy animals at Animal School. For Clarity, inspiring others to learn about animals has been a lifelong passion. And when she’s not running animal therapy sessions, “Creative Creatures” art classes, or various other onsite activities, she loves using social media to offer glimpses into the continuously fascinating animal kingdom. 

    To stay up to date with Blossom and the other Animal School residents, be sure to head over to Instagram and give a follow

  • New small talk study reveals why you should never fear a boring conversation
    Photo credit: CanvaA barista makes small talk with a customer.

    “Job treating you alright?” “Looks like this weekend is gonna be a real scorcher.” “That Cowboys game was outrageous.” These are some conversational snippets one might hear that could lead to immediate panic—that insufferable “small talk” lies ahead. But new research published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology claims that people actually like, and often benefit from, these kinds of conversations.

    Researchers discovered that even though people reported not looking forward to “boring” conversations, a majority found them quite fun.

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    Even “boring” topics were fun

    The team mixed and matched respondents to cover all bases. In one experiment, they observed conversations in which “one person finds the topic boring.” In another experiment, they created a situation where both participants “find the topic boring.” They also tested groups based on whether the participants were strangers or friends.

    In a piece published by the American Psychological Association (APA), researchers reported that, after studying 1,800 participants, “people consistently underestimated how interesting and enjoyable conversations about boring topics would be.”

    Some might question what topics are considered (potentially) “boring” in the first place:

    “Topics were many and varied, including World Wars I and II, nonfiction books, the stock market, cats, and vegan diets. In some cases, participants were asked to suggest a topic they found boring (responses included such topics as math, onions and Pokemon).”

    Elizabeth Trinh, a doctoral student at the University of Michigan and lead author of the study, said she was excited about the results.

    “We were both surprised and excited by how robust the effect was,” she said. “People consistently expected conversations about seemingly boring topics to be less interesting than they turned out to be.”

    “Serves a real purpose”

    Upworthy spoke with licensed therapist Rebecca Tenzer, owner of Astute Counseling and Wellness Center. She explained why many of us feel anxious about so-called small talk, only to find it entertaining.

    “While it gets dismissed a lot, small talk actually serves a real purpose when it comes to mental health,” Tenzer said. “These smaller, everyday interactions help people feel connected, acknowledged, important, and can even build self-esteem. Even if the conversation is simple or surface-level, there are meaningful impacts and a lot of gain.”

    Tenzer also supported the idea that these micro-conversations, no matter the topic, have significant benefits.

    “We’re seeing more evidence that even brief social exchanges can improve mood, teach social norms, and reduce feelings of loneliness,” she said. “Along with those interactions are often positive body language exchanges, smiles, and even laughter, all of which are happiness chemical hacks needed to boost mood.”

    “Small talk acts as a low-pressure way to engage with others, which can help regulate the nervous system and make social interaction feel easier over time,” Tenzer added. “Not every conversation needs to be deep to have value. It’s nice to force yourself to slow down, take a minute to chit-chat, be in the moment, and stay present. It’s not a huge time commitment and often has lasting benefits throughout the day.”

    “Predictable, consistent, and not threatening”

    Lisa Chen, a licensed psychotherapist, concurred, telling Upworthy that these types of conversations can help put people at ease, even if they might not expect it.

    “As a psychotherapist who works with high-achieving, often socially guarded clients, I see how ‘low-stakes’ interactions create a sense of safety in the body,” she said. “Even brief exchanges like saying ‘hello’ to the barista making your coffee or making casual conversation at work help remind our nervous system that the world is predictable, consistent, and not threatening.”

    Chen says small talk can help lower anxiety.

    “It lowers social anxiety over time, builds relational confidence, and gently reinforces that we belong in shared spaces,” she said. “But small talk isn’t just for those who struggle with social anxiety. It’s for everyone. Small talk strengthens our sense of belonging, improves our mood, and keeps us from becoming too transactional or isolated from others. It also softens intensity and creates moments of ease that prevent stress and burnout.”

  • Want a team that performs well under pressure? Include a ‘clown,’ says NASA.
    Photo credit: CanvaEvery team needs a clown.

    We know that collectively performing under pressure requires some special qualities, but what are they? That’s the question NASA seeks to answer as it looks ahead to sending humans to Mars. When it comes to team dynamics, a small crew on a 10-day stint around the moon is one thing. A team stuck on a spaceship for months and living together on a planet two million miles from home is another.

    NASA’s Human Research Program studies human behavior in teams to analyze the implications of long-duration space missions. After observing team dynamics and roles in groups in various studies, one delightful conclusion can be drawn.

    Every team needs a clown.

    According to NASA, astronauts have returned from stints on the International Space Station and reported that humor played a critical role in diffusing tension between people working on the I.S.S. The same finding has come from research studies in analog environments. (Analogs are places like Antarctica, where the desolate and extreme environment somewhat mimics a place like Mars.)

    “You need a clown on the team,” said Noshir Contractor, Ph.D., professor of behavioral sciences at Northwestern University. In other words, you need someone who can make their teammates laugh.

    Contractor is conducting a study titled Crew Recommender for Effective Work in Space (CREWS). Using research data from an analog study, her team is developing a computer model to help select the best individuals to form a crew.

    “We don’t have a perception that we’re going to tell them who to send on a mission,” Contractor said, according to NASA. “But if they have a collection of people, it will work like a weather forecast model. It’s a predictive model that says if you choose this particular crew, here is what you are likely to see in terms of team dynamics. And, if problems arise, here is how to intervene to ease those problems.”

    Easing problems is one place where the clown plays an important role. Research shows that positive humor can increase communication and social support and create a pleasant environment. Most of us have experienced how a well-timed joke or witty response can stop tension in its tracks.

    Tension often manifests physically. We feel it in our bodies when emotional stress is high. According to the Mayo Clinic, laughter can stimulate circulation and help muscles relax, easing some of the physical symptoms of stress. Laughter also releases endorphins that make us feel good and promote social bonding.

    What about teams that aren’t in as extreme circumstances as going on a mission to Mars or wintering in Antarctica? Dr. Adil Dalal of the Forbes Coaches Council says humor has a “transformative power” that unlocks the ability to do serious work well in the professional world.

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    Photo credit: CanvaLaughing with your colleagues may help improve team performance.

    “When we laugh, cortisol, the stress hormone that can narrow thinking and trigger defensive behavior, drops significantly,” writes Dalal. “Laughter also causes the release of dopamine, oxytocin and endorphins, which are associated with motivation and learning. In the workplace, this means that laughter can encourage new behaviors and insights. It can also strengthen trust, which is essential for psychological safety and sustained high performance among employees.”

    So if you’re leading a team or part of a team that appears to be struggling, perhaps some clowning around is in order. As Dr. Dalal writes, “Fun is not the opposite of seriousness—it is the pathway to sustainable excellence.”

    If NASA touts the vital role humor plays in teamwork and success, perhaps we all ought to give it a little more weight in our own teams.

  • Hospice worker passionately debunks the myth that childfree people will ‘die alone’
    Photo credit: CanvaDo childless people die alone? A hospice worker says "no."
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    Hospice worker passionately debunks the myth that childfree people will ‘die alone’

    It’s all about the relationships you build, family or otherwise.

    The decision to have, or not have, children is complex and deeply personal. There are countless factors to consider, including finances, lifestyle, and your individual values.

    Many people who’ve weighed all the options find themselves pretty certain they don’t want to have children. But one stubborn societal myth sticks in their craw and gives some of them pause: the idea that people without children will inevitably die alone.

    It’s dark, heavy, and a little difficult to think about. It also happens to be completely false—at least, according to someone who works with death up close every single day.

    Viral post resurfaces

    A viral Reddit post on the topic was recently resurfaced by popular childfree influencer and organizer Zoë Noble, who shared it on Instagram.

    “For two decades I have been a professional who works with older adults. People in their 60s, 70s, 80s, 90s, even over 100,” Noble reads from the post.

    The original poster, a senior living and hospice care worker, wrote about how narcissistic parents who are estranged from their children are often alone in their dying days. But the post also piqued the curiosity—and fears—of the childfree community.

    “Multiple times in this post, child free adults have expressed their fear that this is their future: dying alone because they have no children,” Noble reads. “Speaking from two decades of caring for older adults, I have worked with many child free adults who spent the final years, months, and days of their life surrounded by a loving and caring community. … Having a loving community around you who cares about you is more important than whether you have kids or not.”

    “I’ve served many child free people who were doted on by a number of significant people in their life,” Noble continues. “They received excellent care and had devoted advocates. They were doing better than folks down the hall who did have children, 5 or 6 kids even. I promise.”

    “No one way to live a happy and fulfilled life”

    The post’s message is both a powerful myth-buster and a source of comfort for many.

    Contrary to popular belief, most people who choose not to have children of their own free will do not come to regret it later in life.

    “The takeaway from all this isn’t that having kids is good or bad–it’s that there is no one way to live a happy and fulfilled life,” The Guardian‘s Arwa Mahdawi writes of these research findings. “Parenthood isn’t for everyone and it should always be a choice.”

    “Cold regret”

    People without children are more likely to experience what Noble calls a fleeting feeling of “cold regret.”

    “They might sometimes fantasise about how their life would have turned out if they’d had children, and the special moments they’re missing out on – while still knowing they made the right choice for themselves and their life,” she writes.

    Some may be sure of their decision but still have a gnawing fear in the back of their minds about their final days. More commonly, “you’ll die alone” is used as a threat or warning to childfree people about remorse that rarely comes.

    Commenters weigh in

    The social media post received nearly one million views, and Noble runs a large community of childfree adults who were eager to weigh in.

    “I am a death doula and hospice volunteer and have seen first hand that having children does NOT guarantee having people around when you die. The absolute most important thing is the community that someone has built around them. … Family relationships are a bit more complicated and fraught with complex issues that don’t always guarantee presence.”

    “I am a hospice nurse and I second this 100%! Some people I’ve cared for that didn’t have children had a more loving and supportive group of people around them toward end of life than people with kids. Community and friendship matters.”

    The message even resonated with parents—a reminder that a lifelong, loving relationship with our children is far from guaranteed if we’re not willing to put in the effort.

    “Beautifully said. I do have children, and I still couldn’t agree more with your sentiments. It’s all about investing in your relationships and your community. Sadly, many people are disconnected from their own children.. due to not investing in a relationship with them.”

    Crucially, a tight-knit, loving community that will show up for you in your final days is not something people—childfree or otherwise—stumble into. It has to be intentionally built over time.

    “The difference is not whether you have children. The difference is whether you have a community of people who care about you and will show up for you,” Noble reads from the Reddit post. “The way to build this community is to show up for them, consistently, for the next few years and as long as you are able. Invest in people and relationships. Grow bonds of companionship and trust. It doesn’t matter who; only that you like and trust each other.”

    It’s good advice for anyone who may be afraid of dying alone, whether you have no children or a whole gaggle of them. It’s also the kind of reassuring embrace some people need to make the decision they know in their hearts is right for them.

  • Video footage captures a hero surfer saving a 6-year-old girl caught in a riptide
    Photo credit: CanvaA surfer on the beach (left) and a swimmer (right).
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    Video footage captures a hero surfer saving a 6-year-old girl caught in a riptide

    Surfers are the unsung heroes of the ocean, and this video shows why.

    Chris Greene recently found himself living every parent’s nightmare. While visiting Oceanside Harbor Beach in California, his 6-year-old daughter was playing in shallow water when she was suddenly swept out to sea by a powerful riptide.

    Greene had warned her just minutes earlier about the current, telling her not to get too close to the nearby jetty. Riptides are often more powerful, persistent, and unpredictable near structures like piers and jetties. Greene knew that, yet he still found himself in a life-or-death situation. As soon as Greene’s daughter, Coco, was pulled out by the current, he jumped in after her. But by the time he reached her, he was completely exhausted from fighting the current himself, according to FOX 5 San Diego.

    Harrowing video footage captured by a bystander on a nearby jetty shows Coco screaming and her father struggling to keep them both afloat.

    That’s when a stranger, surfer Lucas Taub, sprang into action. Coaching a competition on the jetty, the surf instructor didn’t hesitate to jump in after the pair. The entire rescue was caught on camera.

    “You’re our hero”

    Taub is being hailed as a hero. People who know him say they aren’t surprised in the least that he stepped in when needed.

    “Coach Lu….we love you!!! You’re our hero…always have been, always will be!! . Thank you for being such an amazing human!” one commenter wrote on Instagram.

    “Lucas is an all around good human. He’s my son’s coach at Westcliff. This does not surprise me that he did this,” added another.

    But just as many people were quick to give Greene credit for battling through exhaustion to stay with his daughter long enough for help to arrive.

    “Poor dad was exhausted. It’s amazing how you can hang in there when your child’s life is in your hands,” one person wrote.

    “Hero indeed, Dad doing everything he had and dealing with that moment with everything he had,” another added.

    Taub is taking all the newfound attention in stride.

    “There wasn’t a second that went through my mind that I wasn’t gonna jump in that water,” Taub told FOX 5 San Diego. “I knew it was a matter of seconds between life or death, and I knew that was my calling right there … God put me on that jetty at that moment to be that person to serve. And be that person … to help, you know?”

    Surfers save many people from drowning in the ocean

    According to SurferToday, surfers (in this case, surf instructors) are often the first on the scene when someone is in trouble. Already positioned in deeper water with strong visibility, they can often reach struggling swimmers before lifeguards even realize there’s an emergency.

    They cite a recent survey of surfers that found some staggering results: On average, respondents helped someone struggling in the water at least once every 100 outings.

    On a busy beach, that adds up to tens of thousands of saves, assists, and first-aid applications per year.

    We always knew surfers were cool, but most of us had no idea just how cool. Hang ten, dude!

  • Did 1950s families really ‘summer’ away from home à la ‘Dirty Dancing’? Yes, and not just the rich.
    Photo credit: Wikimedia Commons & FlickrPeople reflect on what it was like to “summer” away from home in the 1950s.
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    Did 1950s families really ‘summer’ away from home à la ‘Dirty Dancing’? Yes, and not just the rich.

    People are sharing how getting away for weeks at a time was financially feasible.

    The golden age of “summering,” or spending most if not all of a summer away from home on extended vacation, brings certain images to mind: lavish beach houses, European isles, luxurious cottages, and a service staff that caters to your every need. You know, wealthy person stuff.

    The truth is surprisingly commonplace. In the early 1900s, normal working-class to upper-middle-class families would often “summer” away from home for weeks at a time. Believe it or not, these extended stays were often affordable, practical, and offered an incredible sense of community.

    For people who grew up in the 1950s and surrounding years, these summers remain some of the most magical and nostalgic of their lives.

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    The pool at Grossinger’s resort in Liberty, New York. Photo credit: John Margolies/Wikimedia Commons

    Costs and common summering destinations in the 1950s

    If you’ve ever seen Dirty Dancing or The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel, you’ll be familiar with the scenes.

    In Dirty Dancing, which is based on the screenwriter’s own childhood, the majority of the plot takes place at a resort in the Borscht Belt, near the Catskill Mountains in New York. Several episodes of The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel also take place at a similar Jewish resort in the Catskills. The 1999 film A Walk on the Moon features a similar plotline, also set in the Catskills.

    To be fair, these family resorts make a great location for a movie. But the inspiration for these films and TV shows is very much drawn from real life.

    In the 1950s and preceding decades, families in the Northeast, especially in New York City, were drawn to these getaways for a number of reasons. The most pressing reason was the heat. Families living in busy cities in the pre-air-conditioning era often needed to escape the suffocating smog.

    Air travel was also new and not widely accessible to the working class at the time. As a result, families often drove to find fresh air and a good place to vacation. The Catskills, Poconos, Adirondacks, Berkshires, and Jersey Shore were all popular destinations.

    The Catskills, in particular, were heavily associated with the Jewish community. However, many different ethnic groups—who were sometimes not welcome at resorts in other parts of the country—carved out their own niches. Finding community was part of the appeal of these vacations.

    Wealthy families would either own or rent prestigious houses in places like the Hamptons.

    But family-style resorts, like those found in the Catskills, became incredibly popular among middle-class families. They might stay for one or two weeks or even the entire summer, particularly if the family’s primary breadwinner was able to commute back to the office during the week and join them on weekends.

    It’s hard to say exactly how much these all-inclusive family resorts cost, but TravelPulse estimates the average hotel rate in the 1950s at just $5.91 per night. That is equivalent to about $160 today.

    Accounting for inflation, family travel was at least half as expensive as it is today. That explains why normal families were sometimes able to spend multiple weeks in upstate New York.

    What were these 1950s summer family resorts really like?

    Days were simple. Kids would attend day camp, where counselors ran a variety of activities, from horseback riding and canoeing to time at the pool. Afterward, they were mostly free to roam and play with one another while the adults socialized and enjoyed the spa, sports facilities, the pool, and more.

    At night, there was entertainment, including singers, comedians, and variety shows—sometimes even performances by legendary entertainers such as Louis Armstrong, Tony Bennett, and Sammy Davis Jr.

    “My family went to Grossingers in the Catskills and Wild Echo in Canada when I was younger,” a Reddit user wrote. “Those memories are my favorite from when I was a kid. Shuffleboard tournaments, fishing derbys, baseball, campfires, talent shows, so many crazy weeks sleeping in mini cabins. Really cheap family vacations for middle class folks. Sadly they tore all those cabins down and built condos.”

    “I spent a summer with an also middle class Jewish family in the Catskills this way,” another added. “Basically an Au Pair. Dad would come up on weekends while mom would socialize and play cards with the other moms til dinner time. It was 2 kids, very well behaved around ages 5 and 8. The other girls ( every family had one of us ) and I would hang out in the pool with the kids all day … The family was awesome to me. Just had to keep the kids out of mom’s hair while she did her thing and again, the kids were really well behaved, so no issues. It was also a great way to get out of the city for the summer.”

    One person wrote that their family continued the tradition into the 1980s and 1990s: “My family was lower-middle to middle-middle and we did the summer in upstate New York while my dad worked during the week coming up on weekends … every other summer through the 80s and early 90s. On the odd years we stayed in the city. I much preferred the upstate summers.”

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    Tennis at Grossinger’s resort. Photo credit: John Margolies/Wikimedia Commons

    Another wrote, “My grandparents were far from wealthy. They lived in a small apartment in the South Bronx. But every summer they would rent a bungalow in the Catskill, with friends & relatives renting their own in the same community (or colony), and my grandfather would stay in the city during the week for work. Towards the end of the summer my grandfather would take his vacation time and stay with them.”

    One woman told Next Avenue of her childhood summers in the Catskills: “I remember all the activities — ice skating, horseback riding, swimming in the pool … I went to the day camp when I was little, but as I got older, I found other kids to play with. … I had total freedom to roam the property. My parents were never worried about me. It was a simpler time.”

    “I wish these types of resorts hasn’t gone out of style,” a Redditor wrote. “It’s basically summer camp for families. I know they have similar resorts in Mexico etc but I’d love to go to a place in the US where each family has their own cabin, lots of activities and a dining hall.”

    Why summering went away… mostly

    Several major changes occurred in America during the 1970s and 1980s.

    For starters, air conditioning became more ubiquitous, and it was no longer mandatory for families to escape the city heat in the summer. Air travel also became more commonplace, allowing families access to a far greater selection of vacation destinations. Old favorites like the Catskills and Poconos became less popular over time.

    Travel also became more expensive. Multi-week, all-inclusive vacations today are out of reach for most families.

    However, some families still seek out this same kind of nostalgic experience, although they usually cannot afford to do it for as long. All-inclusive resorts and cruises are places where families can settle in for a week or so and enjoy built-in activities, food that requires no thought or planning, no cleaning, plenty of friends to meet, and, most of all, childcare.

    Family vacations look a lot different today than they did in the 1950s. Even though the costs and methods have changed, many families are still looking for that perfect combination of adult social time, free-roaming kids, and pure relaxation.

  • Street vendor filmed money getting stolen from his tip jar. Then the thief’s mom stepped up with kindness.
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    Street vendor filmed money getting stolen from his tip jar. Then the thief’s mom stepped up with kindness.

    “My son had no right to go in and take anything from him. He deserved to be made whole.”

    Late one evening in Baltimore, Twitch streamer-slash-food truck owner Muhsin Sarac was doing what he always does: grilling and chatting with viewers during a livestream. Known online as @Musa_usa, Sarac often shares the rhythm of his workday with a growing audience. 

    On March 27, that routine was interrupted by something both frustrating and all too familiar for small business owners.

    As reported by The Baltimore Sun, a customer approached Sarac’s truck, placed an order, and lingered for a moment. With Sarac’s back turned, the man reached into the tip jar and took cash. The act was subtle…but not invisible. Viewers watching the stream quickly realized what had happened. And Sarac, trying to piece it together in real time, asked aloud whether the money had actually been taken.

    Unfortunately, by the time Sarac turned around, the man was already walking away, claiming he was heading to his car for payment. He never returned.

    A disappointing moment, shared in real time

    The incident left Sarac shaken. Around $30 was missing, and the situation felt both brazen and disheartening. Police were called, and when officers arrived, they reportedly recognized the suspect. Sarac couldn’t hide his confusion, wondering why someone who seemed polite would make that choice.

    For viewers, it was another example of how quickly trust can be broken, especially for people working long hours to serve their communities.

    But the story didn’t end there.

    A mother steps forward

    Four days later, something remarkable happened: a woman approached Sarac’s truck and introduced herself in a way he never expected.

    “A little while ago, a young man came to your stand and took money out of your tip jar. I’m his mother,” she said.

    The woman, later identified as Pastor Tonya Gray, asked how much her son had taken. When Sarac told her it was about $30, she immediately reached into her purse.

    “No, I want to pay, because my son wasn’t raised like that,” she said. “My son drinks, and when he drinks, he does stupid stuff. I want to pay you back because you don’t deserve to be stolen from.”

    She placed the money back into the tip jar, making it clear that accountability mattered just as much as compassion.

    Accountability rooted in love

    Gray later explained that holding her son responsible didn’t mean turning her back on him. In fact, it meant the opposite. She shared that she had placed him in treatment and was focused on helping him heal while still addressing his actions.

    “My son had no right to go in and take anything from him,” she told WJZ News.  “He deserved to be made whole.”

    Her message to other parents was direct and rooted in care. She encouraged them to face difficult moments head-on and support their children without ignoring harmful behavior.

    “We have to care about them enough to check them,” she said. “No matter what he did, at the end of the day, that’s my son.”

    A moment of grace that resonated

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    Twitch streamer and street vendor Muhsin sarac is robbed live on stream. Later, the robber’s mother comes to pay him back. 🎥: musa_usa1981 on Instagram

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    Sarac was deeply moved by the interaction. After accepting the money, he stepped out of his truck and embraced Gray. The exchange struck a chord far beyond that street corner.

    “She almost made me cry,” he later said to WJZ.

    As the video spread online, viewers responded to more than just the act of repayment. They connected with a mother willing to step forward, a business owner open to forgiveness, and a moment where responsibility met compassion in a very human way.

    It goes to show that a little accountability, honesty, and empathy can turn even the most disheartening moments into hopeful ones. 

  • Chicago’s simple program that gives every child a library card should be the model for every city
    Photo credit: CanvaA girl reading a book in the library.
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    Chicago’s simple program that gives every child a library card should be the model for every city

    Club 81 has inspired thousands of kids to visit their local library.

    It may seem like the public library is one of the most accessible places for people across the socioeconomic spectrum. However, people in underserved communities often face barriers to accessing the incredible benefits of the public library.

    Those who weren’t raised as regular library-goers may misunderstand library policies or be afraid of incurring fees for late book returns. They may also be uncomfortable filling out the necessary paperwork or lack the digital literacy to navigate the system. That’s why a new program by the Chicago Public Library and Chicago Public Schools is so groundbreaking: it allows school children to use their school identification cards to double as library cards.

    What is Chicago’s 81 Club?

    The 81 Club (a nod to the city’s 81 public libraries) began in 2022 as a pilot program that allowed any child with a school ID to pick up a library card by showing up to a library in person. It led to a 63% increase in library access among economically disadvantaged students and 81% among English language learners.

    After its success, the city made the program even easier by allowing students to use their IDs as cards instead of obtaining a library card, thereby eliminating major barriers to entry. The program essentially grants immediate library access to its 316,000 students. 

    “This partnership demonstrates my administration’s commitment to build a more equitable and thriving city by bringing all of government together to invest in our young people,” Mayor Brandon Johnson said in a statement. “By removing barriers and connecting young people to learning opportunities in every neighborhood, we are helping to ensure that students have access to the resources they need in school and beyond.”  

    The 81 Club gives students access to countless resources

    As members of the 81 Club, Chicago students can access the system’s 6-million-item collection, digital media, online databases, and one-on-one tutoring. 

    “At Chicago Public Library, the library is the city’s most accessible out-of-school learning space,” CPL Commissioner Chris Brown said in a statement. “The 81 Club moves us beyond access; it ensures every CPS student can step into opportunity, with the freedom to explore their interests, the joy of choosing their own path, and an abundance of books in every neighborhood. This is how we connect schools and libraries to strengthen Chicago’s neighborhoods and support young people and their families.” 

    One of the major goals of the program is to improve library access to those who face the toughest barriers, such as foster youth, undocumented students, and the unhoused. 

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    Children reading in the library. Credit: Canva

    Since the original program launched four years ago, the number of students using the Chicago Public Library system has increased. A report found that 3,000 students from 390 different CPS schools activated their 81 Club accounts. Administrators hope that the expanded program will raise those numbers higher.

    “The 81 Club shows what is possible when we invest in ideas that scale access and impact,” Board Chair of the Chicago Public Library Foundation Michael Fassnacht said in a statement. “This is about ensuring that every young person in Chicago can connect to opportunity, regardless of circumstance.” 

    America’s public library system is cherished as one of the few places where people can enrich themselves without being expected to pay. Society can only benefit by making it easier for everyone, especially our youth, to access the joy and growth that comes with having a library card.

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