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How a group of 'badass' nuns became the heart and soul of a beloved Los Angeles film festival

"Film is the great connector."

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Nuns from the The Sisters of the Immaculate Heart of Mary march in a 1960s protest

On July 16th, 2025, the 29th annual LA Shorts International Film Festival opened in Downtown Los Angeles at the Regal LA Live Theater. An Oscar- and BAFTA-qualifying event, opening night of the two week festival featured a red carpet, a slate of four acclaimed short films, and pulled in a crowd of over one thousand attendees.

Four hundred seventy films will be showcased between July 16-28, including only one feature film in the sea of shorts: Rebel Hearts, a 2021 documentary directed by Pedro Kos, screened for free on Saturday, July 19th.

The Rebel Hearts film website shares:


"In 1960s Los Angeles, a trailblazing group of nuns, The Sisters of the Immaculate Heart of Mary, bravely stood up to the patriarchy of the Catholic Church fighting for equality, their livelihoods, and their own freedom against an all-powerful Cardinal who sought to keep them in their place. Their bold acts of faith, defiance and activism turned the Church upside down, helping to reshape our society in ways that continue to resonate today. From marching in Selma in 1965 to the Women’s March in 2018, they challenged the notion of what a nun and a woman were supposed to be.

Anita Caspary, Helen Kelley, Pat Reif, and iconic pop artist Corita Kent were devoted to a life of service, not only to other but to themselves—forming a community that empowered each sister to live up to her fullest potential. Their desire to bring the church into modern life was met with forceful opposition at every turn. As each of them discovered their own talents and voices, they full stepped into their roles as leaders in a movement that is still making waves.

The Sisters of the Immaculate Heart of Mary became the Immaculate Heart Community (ICH), an inclusive ecumenical community based in Los Angeles that has sponsored opening night of the LA Shorts Film Festival for the last three years.

I attended both opening night and the July 19th screening of Rebel Hearts courtesy of IHC and was moved by the film that was artful, informative, and filled with grace as it followed the sisters who merely wanted two things: to serve Christ and to live their lives as their authentic selves.

"We may seem like strange bedfellows," said Sherry L. Purcell, IHM, Ph.D., president of Immaculate Heart Community, as she addressed the crowd on opening night. "What do a bunch of nuns have to do with a film festival?"

Today, however, Immaculate Heart is no longer a community of nuns. "We are a community without walls," says Purcell. One that welcomes women and men, gay, straight, and all LGBTQ, and all religions and faith practices to fight injustice against immigrants, the environment, women, BIPOC, and the unhoused. "We are anti-racist. We strive to strategically impede practices that disrupt human development. We are for diversity, equity, and inclusion," Purcell continued to warm applause.

Founded in 1997 by Robert Arentz, the LA Shorts International Film Festival is one of the largest, most prestigious, and longest-running short film festivals in the world. It's connection with IHC, however, began just a few years ago thanks to Pam Hope, Immaculate Heart's director of mission advancement. A longtime friend of Arentz, Hope told Upworthy she reached out to him in hopes of helping IHC become "more relevant" with young people in Los Angeles.

"Pam got us connected with the film festival my first year as president and I thought, 'Oh, this is kind of a leap,'" Purcell told Upworthy. "But then I could see it. I could see what we needed to do to open people's hearts through stories."

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"On opening night they select and show justice films," Hope noted. "Films that speak to current issues and raise awareness for what's going on in the world and our community." This year, opening night featured four shorts:

  • Como si la tierra se las hubiera tragado, an animated short on femicide and gender-based violence in Mexico directed by Natalia León that won the jury award at the Sundance Film Festival.
  • The Letter, a documentary from German director Oliver Würffell that tells the story of his how his great-grandfather was executed by Nazis for refusing military service.
  • Classroom 4, a documentary directed by Eden Wurmfield on the prison system that won Best Documentary at Aspen Shortsfest.
  • Walud, a German-Syrian film directed by Daood Alabdulaa and Louise Zenker about Amuna, a woman whose husband, an ISIS fighter, takes a young second wife.

Rebel Hearts fits right in as it tells a story of fighting for social justice, human rights, and progressivism in spiritual communities.

Under the control of Cardinal McIntyre, who served as archbishop of Los Angeles from 1948 to 1970, the sisters were told when they could talk, when and how they could pray, and how they could dress. They were also used as free labor for the various grade schools Cardinal McIntyre holds a legacy for building across LA County, often forced to teach bloated classroom sizes with little to no training (save for the college degrees they worked on simultaneously to carry out their teaching jobs).

The film focuses heavily on four key women who also narrate the events through a series of interviews: the late Anita Caspary, Ph.D. (Sister Mary Humiliata), who was the Mother General of the Immaculate Heart of Mary Sisters, the late Helen Kelley, Ph.D., (Sister William), who was the president of Immaculate Heart College, the late Pat Reif, Ph.D., a professor at Immaculate Heart College, and the late Corita Kent (Sister Mary Corita), famed pop artist who began as a sister and educator and gained the most attention and pushback from the Cardinal.

Though righteous and progressive in the face of archaic tradition, the efforts of these women and hundreds of other sisters were met with extreme resistance from the powers in charge during the 1960s. In a 2021 review of the film, Variety noted that though some victories such as the "groundbreaking outcomes" of the Second Vatican Council (1962-1965) which "sought to modernize certain Church traditions for a 20th century public" were won, the film shows how their resistance ultimately led to some 300 sisters asking to be released from their vows, thus leading them to found the "secular" Immaculate Heart Community in 1970.

Fifty-five years later, the community is thriving with 40 original members. One member, 94-year old Lenore Dowling (who attended the festival's opening night and whom Hope dubs "a badass"), is just as active in the community as ever. She can be seen in the film's opening scene marching with sign in hand at the 2018 Women's March in Los Angeles and most recently demonstrated with other community members during a No Kings March in June 2025.

After the film screening, I sat down with Sherry L. Purcell, Pam Hope, and Mary Kirchen (a current member of the IHC who just missed joining the Sisters in the late 60s) to talk more about the community, the legacy of Rebel Hearts, and the future of Immaculate Heart Community.

Upworthy: Given today’s political climate, how do you see what IHC went through in the 60s and 70s in comparison to what we’re facing today, specifically in America?

Sherry L. Purcell: I’ve been president of the community for two and a half years and I really do feel that what they did, the work they did in the 1970s, was very prophetic for our times. We are a “community without walls.” We’re not nuns, we don’t live in convents, we’re inclusive—we have men, women, gay straight, everyone—and our faith-based practices are inclusive of everybody. We also have a very active justice and social justice orientation in our work, so we commission justice for women, for the environment, for immigrants and indigenous people, the unhoused. We even have a commission called 'Anti-racism and Spiritual Transformation,' so our members are very active in those movements and with other organizations doing similar work.

[In the film] Anita Caspary was asked, “What do you think the impact would be on the Roman Catholic Church what we’re doing? Is this going to be a problem further in the church? Her response was that this actually might be the solution to bring life back into the church, which is the way we see our “community without walls.” We are founded in Christianity, but we honor all faith traditions and much of the practices we do in our prayer life reflect that. In terms of today, there are a lot of people who have turned away from organized religion and are looking for spiritual life and growth in a community of believers and people. People are also oriented around social justice. That’s who we are and I think we have something to offer people. When we come together as a community, we come together with that commonality of love and wanting to do good in the world.

Mary Kirchen: There’s something that touched me when I was watching again: There're several snippets that stand out. (Helen) Kelley talked about “rocking the boat” and being in a boat that “desperately needed to be rocked.” It’s interesting because in church architecture, churches themselves are built like boats, and the word “ecumenism” has to do with that symbolism, and so we’re in a boat together, right? Just like Jesus was on a boat in Galilee…and so that symbolism was interesting because the boat needed to be rocked and the boat still needs to be rocked.

I think one of the boundaries is being rooted in Jesus. We talk about Christianity, but I think there’s a slight difference in being rooted in Jesus and what’s happening in Christianity right now. Corita was asked how she felt about what happened [to the Sisters], and she said she didn’t want to talk about it, but she was the one who asked [the Cardinal and the archdiocese], “What would Jesus do?” when the Sisters were being questioned and scrutinized. In our goal statement we talk about being rooted in Jesus and united with the people of God, and that's why. It's a relationship, not a religion.

Upworthy: [Sherry] referred to the IHC and the film festival as sort of “strange bedfellows” at opening night. You’ve sponsored opening night of the festival for the last three years, so do you feel this is a chance to connect with a more secular space and crowd without being overtly spiritual? How do you view the connections you’ve made and what do you hope to see from it?

Pam Hope: In the Immaculate Heart community, the values in the work are ever present. We want to reach out to people who aren’t affiliated or who don’t feel they have a spiritual home, and many have that yearning (for spiritual community) and art is a really great connector. The secular nature of this short film festival is actually a great place because a lot of the films have deeper meaning, speak to social justice and highlight that—and we have that in common.

Mary Kirchen: As a human being, I am in relationship with creation and I get to do that. And in a sense of thinking about that relationship, there’s something bigger...and I call that something God. The relationship here opens dialogues about our identities and who we are, makes way for deeper conversations. It’s an opening to an opportunity, and film is an opportunity.

Sherry L. Purcell: I think the creativity that comes through these films ultimately will have so much power to speak to the love we’re trying to bring forward. Look at Rebel Hearts…we couldn’t tell that story that same way if not through film, if not on the screen.

Mary Kirchen: It's the power of films. Film is the great connector. One of the gifts of having experienced change—because change is our partner—is to be a convener. Our relationship in the traditional education fashion has changed: we don’t have teachers in schools much anymore, but we create a different model and we’re still convening people and asking them, what is the root of why you’re coming together? Art and film allows us to do that.

Upworthy: Though the women of Rebel Hearts fought so hard for their rights, they still ended up leaving the Catholic church in the end. Some could look at that as a failure, but then this community came out of it, so was it a failure? Was it a victory?

Sherry L. Purcell: Well that speaks to the prophetic nature of the community. They were bucking the male hierarchy saying women can’t be involved, women have to essentially be enslaved in the church structure, and these women said, “Hell no! We’re going to do something different” and we’re still here 55 years later and we have something valuable to offer to people, to the world turning away from the traditional church. In fact, just last year, Nellie Scott, the director of the Corita Arts Center in the Arts District of downtown Los Angeles, called me and said the center had been invited to the Vatican and they wanted to do an exhibit of Corita’s art at the Venice Biennale. It was held in a women’s prison and they showed Corita’s artwork there and the imprisoned women were able to act as docents. Nellie got to meet Pope Francis, who recognized the power of Corita’s artwork...so even though [Corita's] gone, she's not really. She’s alive and kicking too.

Mary Kirchen: It's also about the importance of being joyful. Yes, there’s tough things happening, there are injustices people experience, and that causes confusion of spiritual identity: Why are we doing this? Why does it matter? If you don’t witness with integrity, why the hell are you doing it? At one point in the film, priests from the Vatican tell the Sisters to just pretend they're following the rules to avoid the wrath of Cardinal McIntyre, but not actually do what they say they're doing. But they had integrity. The decision was made, and every person who made that choice signed not only the document saying she wanted to be released from her vows, but the documents that claimed the identity of what was going to happen going forward. Unfortunately I didn’t get to sign that because I wasn’t a nun then, but I remember.

Pam Hope: I know so many other sisterhoods and religious groups point to us as being pioneers. Without Immaculate Heart, others said they would have “stayed in their habits,” stayed “cloistered,” and wouldn’t have had such a social justice bent. The impact has definitely been seen in modern religious activities, especially in the Catholic church.

Mary Kirchen: One of the affirming things is for us to understand how we are seen [by the world]. That’s what helps us. Again, it's a relationship with God and with God's people.

Sherry L. Purcell: The work we’re doing today stands on the shoulders of the women who formed the organization in the 70s. They were rebels and I think we aspire to be rebels.

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Today, Immaculate Heart Community still has many irons in the fire. They currently host a Lunch and Learn Lecture series that invites local leaders of social justice initiatives to their building in Echo Park to speak about issues and efforts for change in Los Angeles and beyond. They are also soon launching a "Power Up with Prayer" initiative that invites people of all faith traditions to pause at noon every day and pray for the country.

As for the LA Shorts International Film Festival, IHC plans to continue sponsoring the event's opening night and making connections within the industry. "Moving forward, we hope that our involvement with the film festival will be a year-long presence rather than a keystone moment of the festival itself," Hope noted.

"Last year, we gave awards to five short films that Bob [Arentz] flagged as really highlighting social justice," added Purcell. "This year, we want to do the same thing but expand it even after the festival. We're going to invite filmmakers who have received awards to join with us and talk about their films, showcase related films, and start a dialogue about the issues they tackle."

Learn more about becoming a friend of the Immaculate Heart Community on their website and Instagram, and stream Rebel Hearts on HBO Max.

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UPS driver invited to family's cookout.

UPS drivers are always on the grind delivering packages around the clock—even on holidays. And one family took notice of the hard-working UPS driver in their neighborhood who had his nose to the grindstone as they enjoyed a cookout together. Rather than simply let him pass by, they decided to flag him down and extend an invite to join them in a move that proved community and hospitality are still alive and well.

TikToker @1fanto shared a touching video with his followers from Easter weekend where his family invited a UPS driver making rounds in their neighborhood to come to their cookout and 'make a plate.'


"Everybody family around here 😭," he captioned the video. "Everybody invited to the cookout.😂"

@1fanto

Everybody family around here 😭 #easter #cookout #wherethefunction

In the video, the UPS driver is seen standing in the family's driveway, and a group of cookout attendees warmly welcome him to join them. The uncle of @1fanto says to the driver, "You've been working hard all day man, you can go on in there!" He calls out for a woman named Stephanie to "take care of him!"

The UPS driver walks up the driveway, and they encourage him to go inside and get his fill as he enters the garage. After securing a plate of food and a drink, the driver walks back outside to mingle with guests, shaking hands with the uncle who invited him.

"You good?" the uncle asks, and the driver responds, "Yeah I'm good. They hooked me up. Thank you so much. Appreciate y'all for inviting me out." On his way back to his truck, the uncle encourages the driver to invite other workers to stop by as well.

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In a follow up video, @1fanto explained more about how the invite went down. He shares that the UPS driver was driving by the family's house on the Saturday before Easter, and at the time the family was enjoying a big fish fry cookout together. His uncle flagged the driver down, and he pulled over.

He shares that his uncle told the driver, "Go inside and get you a plate!" The driver asked him, "Are you sure?" But he reassured him, adding that the family made sure to ask the driver what he wanted and didn't want on his plate to "make sure he was good and got everything he needed".

"I saw it had a positive impact. That's what my family do. That's not something that we just do for social media," @1fanto shared. "That's something that we do on a regular basis that doesn't just happen when the camera's on. It happens when the camera's off, too. We're all equal. We all bleed the same."

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Viewers had lots of positive things to say in the comment section.

"I am a UPS driver and that makes our day. People showing love to us"

"Your family represents the best of America🫶🏼 Your uncle is now all of our uncle."

"Working the holidays suck. But they made that man’s entire day. Love it."

"I love when people are nice for no reason. You’re so real ♥️thank you for being so kind."

"Being a delivery driver is grueling, often thankless work. It's awesome to see a family that remembers those hardworking folks are essential parts of our communities."

This article appeared last year. It has been updated.

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David Letterman and Cher.

Cher had accomplished a laundry list of amazing feats by the time the 1980s rolled around. She'd hit number one on the Billboard Hot 100, had international number-one hits, starred on television and on Broadway, and established herself as an acclaimed actress. In 1988, she even won an Oscar for Best Actress for her role in Moonstruck.

But as of 1986, there was still one major thing she hadn't done: appear on Late Night with David Letterman.


It wasn't for lack of trying on Letterman's part. He'd been trying to get Cher on his show for years and, with the help of a hefty appearance fee, sealed the deal in 1986. The audience was excited. Letterman was excited. But when Cher finally walked out onstage, things didn't get off to the smoothest start.


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After Letterman complimented how she smelled, Cher crossed her arms and deadpanned, "Is this as good as it gets?"

Letterman and the audience laughed it off, but the vibe was clearly tense from the get-go.

"I know you didn't want to come on here, so why, finally... did you decide to come on?" he asked

Cher laughed and joked that she only came on so she could pay an expensive hotel bill. "No, I don't know, because I thought that I would never want to do this show with you," she added.

"Why?" Letterman asked. "Because you thought I was a..."

"An a**hole," Cher bluntly said.

After Letterman riffed briefly on the audience reaction, Cher elaborated: "It was frightening because I see how you deal with your guests and sometimes it's really great and you seem to like them, but if you don't like them, you might as well take a picnic lunch."

From there, Letterman pivoted: "You look great... How many tattoos do you have?"

The interaction has since become an iconic moment, rewatched again and again over the past several decades. The official YouTube clip of the interview currently has more than three million views.

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Though beloved by his male fans, Letterman hasn't always had the greatest reputation for his treatment of guests, women in particular. This was a pattern that played out for years. Letterman was known to tease, and at times outright bully, certain guests more than others.

In a 1988 interview, he mocked Shirley MacLaine for her belief in past lives. During a 1986 sit-down with Farrah Fawcett, who appeared nervous and a bit loopy, Letterman had little trouble getting laughs at her expense. Even years later, interviews with Lindsay Lohan, Paris Hilton, and Jennifer Aniston were widely criticized as mean-spirited or gross. And in 1994, an interview with Madonna turned openly contentious, with both sides trading barbs.

But it wasn't just Letterman. The cruelty of late-night television reached something of a peak in the early 2000s, when hosts routinely mocked female stars like Britney Spears, who was struggling through a highly public mental health crisis. One notable exception was host Craig Ferguson, whose 2007 monologue stood out for its striking empathy in sharp contrast to many of his peers:

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Even today, women who appear on late-night shows often find themselves either the butt of the joke or an object of desire.

Research published in The Critical Review of Social Sciences Studies asserts, "Female guests often appear as spectacles for male hosts' humor rather than as authoritative contributors to public discourse. ... The quick-witted, often satirical male hosts discuss political and public affairs in ways that pose hegemonic challenges for female participants, limiting their discursive power."

It’s no wonder that Cher didn't exactly see the Letterman set as a safe space to let her guard down. And in typical Cher fashion, she made her feelings about Letterman clear right from the start. The exchange is an unforgettable moment that works as both a public call-out and an icebreaker. That night in 1986, Cher and Letterman ultimately went on to have a nice (if playfully combative) interview.

For his part, Letterman has since expressed regret about many aspects of his time hosting Late Night, including what he has described as a "toxic work environment" marked by "sexual favoritism" and scandals. It's hard not to wonder whether Cher picked up on those bad vibes at the time and chose to call them out in the only way she knew how, which is exactly why people still love her.

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Likable people say these things during conversations to build better relationships.

Making friends and developing deeper, stronger relationships starts with good conversation. Sometimes that means small talk at work, while other times it's the kind of conversation that really takes off at a party.

Some people are naturals when it comes to easy, flowing conversation—especially highly likable people, who tend to attract others and often hold the key to mastering genuine conversation. From their gestures to the way they articulate questions, there's a lot others can learn from them.


Communication experts who spoke to Upworthy say there are 10 things highly likable people do during conversations to build stronger relationships.

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1. They listen without distraction

Listeners often make the best conversationalists.

"That means not looking at your phone or scanning around the room to see who you want to talk to next," says Kerri Garbis, CEO and founder of Ovation Communication. "Focus on the person in front of you only. Make eye contact. This fosters a relationship because when you are fully present, it signals respect, interest, and helps others feel valued versus like they are competing for your attention."

2. They collect data

Being inquisitive about what people need during conversations is key to building stronger relationships.

"If you take a moment to ask your colleague or even friend, 'What are you worried about? What's the biggest concern facing you right now?' you can get great data on how you can help them - in a way that taps into something urgent and top of mind for them," says Kate Mason, PhD, an executive communications coach and author of Powerfully Likeable: A Woman's Guide to Effective Communication. "They'll remember your thoughtfulness and the actions you took."

3. They balance the conversation

Highly likable people never make it all about themselves.

"Sometimes conversations can be 'lopsided' where it's more about the other person than about you," says Rob Volpe, a communication expert and author of Tell Me More About That: Solving the Empathy Crisis One Conversation at a Time. "While that can be okay, you aren't there to be their therapist. Sometimes the context and topic may make it off balance, but if it continues and you aren't feeling seen yourself, feel free to say something like 'I'd love to share my thoughts on this' or 'May I share something I'm dealing with at the moment?'"

4. They mirror their conversation partner

Taking cues from body language can foster deeper relationships.

"It's a subtle way to make someone comfortable because they recognize themself in your actions," says Jennifer Anderson, a communication expert who works with entrepreneurs. "Your energy should match the energy of your counterpart. Think relaxing-in-lounge-chair energy vs. about-to-deliver-a-presentation energy. Those are two very different conversations. If you paired them up, there's definitely about to be some awkwardness."

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5. They skip pre-planned questions

While coming to conversations prepared with questions may help you feel less anxious, highly likable people usually don't use them.

"Often people have questions in their back pocket, like about the weather or sports, but the most likeable people in the room are those who can be present in conversations and ask follow-ups based on what someone is talking about," Garbis says. "This builds a relationship by making conversations feel relational and not transactional."

6. They are self-aware

Highly likable people are masters of self-awareness, especially during conversations.

"Self-awareness of your judgment is key to building relationships," Volpe says. "We all carry biases which can block our view of the person standing in front of us. When you catch yourself being judgmental, have some grace with yourself and get curious about the other person as well as where your judgment is coming from. This clears one of the biggest obstacles to having empathy with others."

7. They respond with affirmation

Highly likable people make others feel seen and heard.

"No matter what is coming out of the person's mouth, make it clear that you're not judging or competing with them," Garbis notes. "If they say: 'I went skiing this weekend,' don't jump in and say that you also went skiing. Say something like, 'Wow, that sounds exciting, tell me more about that.' You can respond with validating statements like: 'That makes sense, or I can see why you're so good at that, or I can see why that matters to you.' This reduces defensiveness and nervousness, and it makes people feel safe to be themselves and creates relationships faster."

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8. They remain calm

Bringing a sense of calm rather than chaos to a conversation can put everyone at ease.

"Calm is the most powerful communication flex you can do," Mason says. "If you can stay calm, especially in a heated conversation, you actually end up looking trustworthy, reliable and unruffled - all very powerful things to be remembered for."

9. They remember names

Highly likable people personalize conversations by using the other person's name.

"Never ever tell people you are terrible at remembering names," Garbis explains. "This will tank the conversation because it signals you don't matter, nothing you say matters, and that you aren't worth remembering. It makes a person mentally check out of the conversation. Use good tricks like repeating a person's name at the beginning and again at the end. If you forgot by the end, say something like, 'It was so fun to hear about your skiing adventure. By the way, I'm Kerri, it was so nice to meet you, and can you remind me of your name? I don't want to forget it?' They'll be so grateful you repeated your name too!"

10. They use humor where they can

Finally, highly likable people make sure to infuse conversations with laughter.

"It's a great connector," Anderson notes. "Don't try to be a standup comic, just find the lighthearted observations and details that you can share in conversations. Humor is never a weapon; judgy and mean-spirited comments convey weakness, not confidence. You'll risk alienating your conversation partner if you come in with a full roast of your friends or coworkers. If all else fails, everyone loves a Dad Joke."

Culture

Why intergenerational 'culture buddies' could be the antidote to loneliness everywhere

Inside the program reconnecting Hamburg's students and seniors.

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Kulturisten Hoch Zwei provides the link between seniors and high school students.

Picture yourself at eighty-five. You live alone in a fourth-floor apartment in a busy city. You loved the theater in your youth, savoring the thrill as the lights dimmed and the crowd fell to a hush. Now, money is tight, sitting for hours is hard on your body, and perhaps most heartbreaking of all, you have no one to go with.

For millions of older adults around the world, this scenario is more than hypothetical; it's everyday life. Loneliness has become an increasingly widespread issue, affecting physical health as much as smoking or obesity. But in Hamburg, Germany, a remarkable social initiative is offering a different kind of remedy for loneliness among the elderly.


seniors, loneliness, germany, elders, students A high school volunteer with her senior "tandem." Photo credit: Kulturisten Hoch Zwei

This approach, often referred to as "social medicine," drives KULTURISTENHOCH2 (Culture to the Power of Two), a non-profit redefining aging, youth, and the transformative power of human connection.

Unpacking KULTURISTENHOCH2

At its heart, KULTURISTENHOCH2 (also known as KH2) is a "culture buddies" program with a simple, beautiful mission. The project pairs high school students with older neighbors living on low incomes to forge meaningful intergenerational connections.

The project was founded in 2016 by Christine Worth, a former marketing executive inspired by her family history. She remembers watching her father's world grow smaller due to dementia, aging, and isolation, and realized that getting older is an unaddressed social problem. Worth found that for many seniors, not having someone to share the day with was the biggest barrier to leaving the house.

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Through KH2, seniors are given a "VIP pass" to an unbelievable, culturally rich city. Paired with a local teenager, these elders enjoy free tickets to concerts, plays, and art exhibits, proving that a shared cultural experience can bridge even the largest age gaps.

How the program works

KH2 is designed to remove every barrier that might keep an older person at home, creating a safe, comfortable, and dignified experience from start to finish.

The pairing process

The initiative starts in local schools, where students sixteen and older volunteer to join KH2. These "young buddies" are paired with seniors ages 63 and older—many of whom are living on low incomes or with physical disabilities—within their district, allowing them to attend a wide range of cultural events free of charge.

Seniors are identified and registered as participants if they meet age and income requirements and express an interest in cultural participation.

seniors, loneliness, germany, elders, students Many "culture buddies" stay in contact after the program ends. Photo credit: Kulturisten Hoch Zwei

After matching, the student will contact the senior, coordinate logistics, and accompany them to selected events. Over time, many connections evolve into lasting relationships, with approximately 20% of "generational tandems" reportedly maintaining regular contact beyond the official program.

Door-to-door companionship

Tickets are provided free of charge by KultureLebe Hamburg e.V., a partner program that champions the belief that "culture is not a luxury, culture is food" and arranges free cultural experiences for people on low incomes.

The student arranges a meeting time and place, often picking the senior up from their home and, if requested, accompanying them door-to-door. Travel typically takes place via public transportation, with the student offering practical assistance along the way, such as navigating stairs, reading signage, and more.

Students commit to at least three cultural outings per school year, though many choose to volunteer more often.

Walking in their shoes

One of the most impactful aspects of KH2 is how it prepares the students. Before meeting their senior partners, teens receive specialized training designed to ensure the needs of older adults are met.

Beyond discussing aging and how to navigate communication with seniors, students wear a 77-pound "aging simulation suit," which restricts movement and vision. They are given "ear defenders" to simulate hearing loss and practice using wheelchairs and walkers to experience the physical challenges of older age and its practical challenges.

Cultural experiences for all

Events include a broad range of programs, including the theater, opera, orchestral events, cinema, gallery openings, and festivals. Here, culture serves as a natural "conversation starter" between generations, as shared performances and exhibitions open the door to exchanging perspectives and life stories.

While student participants receive certificates for their volunteer work, the real reward lies in personal growth. Through engaging with seniors from a different generation, they gain a deeper understanding of history, empathy, and human connection.

Sustaining and expanding KH2

The program started with three pilot schools and 37 seniors, and expanded quickly. By the end of 2019, around 165 students and 175 seniors were active in KH2, with more than 850 pairings activated across Hamburg.

seniors, loneliness, germany, elders, students KH2 provides students with excellent life skills and lasting connections. Photo credit: Kulturisten Hoch Zwei

Keeping KH2 running requires significant support. Around 25% of its funding comes from government agencies, with the remainder provided by private foundations, corporate sponsors, and grassroots fundraising efforts.

The science behind the magic of connection

Public health experts are increasingly recognizing that health extends beyond diet and exercise. A groundbreaking 2023 report from the World Health Organization (WHO) linked participation in arts and culture to tangible health benefits, including reduced depression, improved cognitive function, and even increased life expectancy.

"For too long we have seen Science and the Arts as separate endeavors," said Sir Jeremy Farrar, chief scientist at the WHO. "But these silos were not always so. Through much of human history, the creative interface of different disciplines has been a catalyst for both innovation and healing."

In this sense, KH2 functions as more than a community program; it serves as a preventative health strategy.

Creating lasting partnerships

In a society increasingly shadowed by loneliness and isolation, KH2 is grounded in the belief that real change happens through encounter and exchange. Through its life-changing cultural tandems, older adults regain mobility, confidence, and a renewed sense of belonging as active members of society.

By connecting two groups who might otherwise never meet—teenagers just beginning their lives and seniors reflecting on theirs—KH2 creates moments in which age quietly falls away, leaving two souls moved by art.

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High schoolers playing baseball.

In December 2025, Katherine Van Dyck, a senior legal fellow at the American Economic Liberties Project, testified before the U.S. House Committee on Education and the Workforce's Subcommittee on Early Childhood, Elementary, and Secondary Education about the growing takeover of youth sports by private equity firms. This new profit-driven system is replacing once-affordable community sports organizations with pricey programs that exclude many families.

At the center of this new youth sports paradigm is the bargain these leagues offer parents: If you pay thousands upon thousands of dollars, your child will have the opportunity to earn a college scholarship and possibly make it to the pros. During her testimony, Van Dyck noted that many parents have bought into the promise.


Parents overestimate the chances their children will receive athletic scholarships

Van Dyck shared a poll showing that 49% of parents whose children participate in youth sports (ages 7-18) are "confident" their child will receive an athletic scholarship. Unfortunately, only about 7% of high school athletes go on to play college sports, and just 2% receive an athletic scholarship.

"Families are going into debt, and it's based on a lie," she said in her testimony. "Forty-nine percent of parents believe their children will get an athletic scholarship. In fact, only two percent of college applicants actually do."

@bobbyleebaseball

What was once recreational neighborhood fun has become mandatory travel sports. Families are being convinced that it is the only way for children to be competitive in the sport, and that if they aren’t giving in to the pressure then they are failing their children. It is not true. Families are spending thousands a year, and hurting their children’s health and development along the way, because they don’t realize they are being manipulated into spending. It’s a marketing scheme meant to keep registration numbers and tournament participation high, to extract as much as they can from families. And parents have been convinced that if they aren’t doing it, then their children’s are missing out. Everyone is sounding the alarm, and it has now made its way to the U.S. House Committee on Education and the Workforce Subcommittee on Early Childhood Education. #congress #baseball #youthsports #youthbaseball #children

If 49% seems like an anomaly, a 2024 study found similarly inflated expectations: 34% of parents with children ages 6 to 17 believe their kids will play college sports, and 27% think they are likely to receive a college scholarship.

Youth leagues often dangle the scholarship carrot in front of parents who face either heavy debt or foregoing college altogether. They also appear to brandish the stick, suggesting that parents who don't pay up aren't doing everything possible to help their kids succeed.

basketball, youth basketball, basketball parents, parents and children, basketball court Parents posing with their young kids on a basketball court. via Canva/Photos

"The industry has learned that the easiest way to get parents to ignore their instincts is to convince them that their instincts are selfish," said Dr. Jennifer Fraser, who studies youth sports psychology, according to Beyond the Drill. "Parents will endure almost anything if they believe it's what their child needs to succeed."

Melissa Panzer, a TikToker who focuses on the challenges of being a working mom, recently went viral with a video responding to Van Dyck's testimony and unpacking why so many parents are hedging their bets on a college scholarship. She also outlined a new way forward for parents who don't buy the story the youth leagues are selling.

@seriouslymakeitmakesense

This clip isn’t about sports. It’s about how families are being squeezed. For context: • There are roughly 8 million high school athletes in the U.S. each year • About 160,000 will receive any athletic scholarship money • Most scholarships are partial, not full rides • Meanwhile, youth sports has grown into a $30+ billion industry — almost entirely funded by families That mismatch isn’t an accident. It’s the business model. In the meantime, while the system remains broken, here are a few things that can help soften the blow: • Ask what your child actually enjoys — not what feels strategic • Set a clear family budget before the season starts • Remember that most college pathways do not run through elite youth sports • Know that opting out is not “falling behind” Parents aren’t the problem. They’re the product. 📌 Testimony from a hearing before the House Committee on Education and the Workforce Credit to Katie Van Dyck Thanks to @seasters jones. for sharing the cllip

Why parents are betting on their kids getting athletic scholarships

According to Panzer:

"So, parents start looking for any way to reduce that [college] bill later. And sports have become one of the few paths that still look merit-based. Most parents don't actually believe that their kid is the exception, but when college feels impossible to pay for, hope still creeps in. Because the alternative is debt, and that follows your kid around for decades, and that sucks. And that's why families keep paying, not because they're foolish, but because the system is designed to monetize fear and aspiration at the same time. And that's what's infuriating."

Panzer argued that if parents truly want their children to earn scholarships, they should focus on academics. "Way more students receive academic scholarships than athletic scholarships," Panzer said. "Athletic scholarships get all the hype, but they are one of the rarest forms of aid."

She closed her video by laying out several things parents should consider before spending thousands of dollars on elite youth sports teams and travel clubs:

"Ask what your child really enjoys—not what feels strategic."

"Set a clear family budget before the season starts."

"Remember that most college pathways do not lead through elite youth sports."

"Know that opting out is not 'falling behind.'"

"Parents aren't the problem, they're the product."