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You Wouldn't Think Black People Would Debunk This Urban Myth, But Here's The Brave One Who Did

You know what? For the sake of my loved ones and coworkers, I won't share my own perspective here. (If you're confused about what I mean, watch the video and then check my headshot again.)

You Wouldn't Think Black People Would Debunk This Urban Myth, But Here's The Brave One Who Did
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Sometimes the most innocuous question can give a predator all the information they need to stalk, harass, or assault a woman. That's why Instagram's "safety queen" Cathy Pedrayes has made a series of videos showing women the best times to lie to a stranger.

We've all been raised to tell the truth, but when it comes to being safe there's no reason we should feel compelled to give out personal information to a random stranger. Pedrayes' videos do a great job at not only showing women when to lie and but how to feel comfortable doing so.

Pedrayes originally started making videos about philosophy and being a "mom friend," but soon fell into making clips centered around safety because of her unique background.

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