
A few days ago, Marcus Vance asked a great question on Twitter and it's gone viral because of the hilarious and infuriating responses: "What's the biggest problem you have with your name?
What's the biggest problem you have with your name?
My biggest problem?
Me: "Hi, I'm Marcus. Nice to meet you."
Business people: "Hi, Marcus. Do you go by Mark?"
Me: "No. If I did then don't you think I'd introduce myself as that?"
— Marcus Vance (@MarcusCVance) January 9, 2020
I can totally relate to anyone who is annoyed with their name because I'm Tod with one D. This means that I have to constantly answer the question, "Where did the other D go?" It also leads to not receiving emails and tweets because someone spelled my name wrong.
My dad thought it'd be cool to name me Tod with one D because Abraham Lincoln once told his wife, Mary Todd Lincoln, "If there's one D in God there should be one D in Todd."
It has also led to a subversive nickname some friends call me that makes some uncomfortable: "God."
I once walked into a crowded elevator and the operator, who I knew, greeted me with an enthusiastic "Hey God!" and everyone looked at me like I had two heads.
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Enough with my tale of woe. Here are some of the best responses to the question: "What's the biggest problem you have with your name?"
Going through life “Cathy with a C".. once registered for a conference by phone - said “Cathy with a C".. got to conference..all my paperwork and badge were for Kathy Withacee
— Cathy A. Salazar (@LvlyWords) January 10, 2020
"Hi, my name is Tori--"
"Hi Victoria!"
"No it's just Tori."
"Oh okay. I know a Victoria and she goes by Vicky."
"No I mean It's JUST Tori literally not short for anything."
"Wait...so...your name isn't Victoria?"
Like girl what did I just say... pic.twitter.com/g4tbYgA5v1
— hp lovecraft named his cat... (@mystorimachinee) January 10, 2020
My name is Nicki.
Short for Nicole?
No, I'm just Nicki. 🤷♀️ my mom was a hippie!
*people still call me Nicole
— Mrs. N Stiger (@MrsNStiger) January 11, 2020
A lot of people think I'm one of the guys who made South Park.
... I'm actually both of those guys.
— Trey Stone (@TreyStoneAuthor) January 9, 2020
"What's your name?"
Dee.
"Dean? Hi Dean."
Dee.
"Deena."
No, Dee.
"Deanna."
Just Dee.
"Dana."
There's no N.
"Dia."
Dee.
"I don't know what you're saying."
What comes after C?
"D?"
Yes!
"Your name is just one letter?"
With two E's.
"Oh, Edie!"
— Dee Hanson (@DeeHansonTweets) January 9, 2020
"Can I have your name?'
"Yeah, it's Miguel." pic.twitter.com/NIpMV0Rylp
— MDragmire (@MDragmire) January 10, 2020
Everyone used to ask me what Clyde was 'short for'. Eventually after many refutations I relented and said 'Clyde-O'Scope'. So my nickname became Scope, which made me sound like Byron's rakish mate, Scrope Davies.
— Clyde 'Scope' Davies (@deadlyvices) January 10, 2020
It's hard to be taken seriously with a first name like Tiffany. That's why I'm TJ as a writer.
— TJ Fier - Prepping for another semester (@iamfierless) January 9, 2020
Hi, my name's Joé.
“Hi, Joe."
No, Joé.
“Joey?"
Jo-é.
“Jo-eh?"
… Close enough.
“And your family name is …"
McKen.
“McCain? Meck-Kun?"
Why, mom & dad, why. https://t.co/wDPlUXvbtk
— Joé McKen (@joemcken) January 12, 2020
My biggest problem is people like to make jokes with my name. I've also been called dime, nickel, and quarter on multiple occasions.
— Penny Layne (@PennysLayne1) January 10, 2020
The first white person I spoke to in over a week said my name is "too difficult" and she'll just call me W.
BITCH YOU'RE IN KENYA
— Wagatwe Wanjuki 🇰🇪 🇧🇸 (@wagatwe) December 31, 2019
Me: Hi, I am Joyce.
Q: What's your real name?
Me: Joyce
Q: What's your name in your language?
Me: Joyce pic.twitter.com/1rM6XavBu2
— Joyce Belfort (@JoyceBelfort) January 9, 2020
My name is Edward, but I go by Ted or Teddy. No one knows that Teddy is a nickname for Edward. Everyone's response is, “There's no T in Edward".
Then everyone comes up with the same thing at that exact moment.
Tedward. pic.twitter.com/sraJ4e5ITW
— Teddy (@SquirlMastr) January 10, 2020
As an Astra, I get people calling me Astro, Astrid, Esther, Ashley etc
— Astra Crompton (@ulzaorith) January 9, 2020
Me: Hi, I'm Alvin
Everyone: Oh, like the chip— pic.twitter.com/bLax7SWtID
— Alvin Kathembe (@SofaPhilosopher) January 11, 2020
My last name sounds like a prostitute.
— Tom Hoare (@HoareTom) January 12, 2020
Are you people kidding me? These are your name problems?#AustanGoolsbee
— Austan Goolsbee (@Austan_Goolsbee) January 12, 2020
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There's a reason why some people can perfectly copy accents, and others can't
Turns out, there's a neurodivergent link.
A woman in black long sleeve shirt stands in front of mirror.
Have you ever had that friend who goes on vacation for four days to London and comes back with a full-on Queen's English posh accent? "Oooh I left my brolly in the loo," they say, and you respond, "But you're from Colorado!" Well, there are reasons they (and many of us) do that, and usually it's on a pretty subconscious level.
It's called "accent mirroring," and it's actually quite common with people who are neurodivergent, particularly those with ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder). According Neurolaunch, the self-described "Free Mental Health Library," "Accent mirroring, also known as accent adaptation or phonetic convergence, is the tendency to unconsciously adopt the accent or speech patterns of those around us. This linguistic chameleon effect is not unique to individuals with ADHD, but it appears to be more pronounced and frequent in this population."
Essentially, when people have conversations, we're constantly "scanning" for information—not just the words we're absorbing, but the inflection and tone. "When we hear an accent, our brains automatically analyze and categorize the phonetic features, prosody, and intonation patterns," writes Neurolaunch. For most, this does result in copying the accent of the person with whom we're speaking. But those with ADHD might be more sensitive to auditory cues. This, "coupled with a reduced ability to filter out or inhibit the impulse to mimic…could potentially explain the increased tendency for accent mirroring."
While the article explains further research is needed, they distinctly state that, "Accent mirroring in individuals with ADHD often manifests as an unconscious mimicry of accents in social situations. This can range from subtle shifts in pronunciation to more noticeable changes in intonation and speech rhythm. For example, a person with ADHD might find themselves unconsciously adopting a Southern drawl when conversing with someone from Texas, even if they’ve never lived in the South themselves."
People are having their say online. On the subreddit r/ADHDWomen, a thread began: "Taking on accents is an ADHD thing?" The OP shares, "My whole life, I've picked up accents. I, myself, never noticed, but everyone around me would be like, 'Why are you talking like that??' It could be after I watched a show or movie with an accent or after I've traveled somewhere with a different accent than my 'normal.'
They continue, "Apparently, I pick it up fast, but it fades out slowly. Today... I'm scrolling Instagram, I watch a reel from a comedian couple (Darcy and Jeremy. IYKYK) about how Darcy (ADHD) picks up accents everywhere they go. It's called ADHD Mirroring??? And it's another way of masking."
(The OP is referring to Darcy Michaels and his husband Jeremy Baer, who are both touring comedians based in Canada.)
Hundreds of people on the Reddit thread alone seem to relate. One comments, "Omfg I've done this my whole life; I'll even pick up on the pauses/spaces when I'm talking to someone who is ESL—but English is my first language lol."
Sometimes, it can be a real issue for those around the chameleon. "I accidentally mimicked a waitress's weird laugh one time. As soon as she was out of earshot, my family started to reprimand me, but I was already like 'oh my god I don’t know why I did that, I feel so bad.'"
Many commenters on TikTok were shocked to find out this can be a sign of ADHD. One jokes, "Omg, yes, at a store the cashier was talking to me and she was French. She's like 'Oh are you French too? No, I'm not lol. I'm very east coast Canada."
And some people just embrace it and make it work for them. "I mirror their words or phrase! I’m 30. I realized I start calling everyone sweetie cause my manager does & I work at coffee shop."