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Men commit suicide at a rate of 3 to 1 to women.

That's accurate for both the U.K. and the U.S., and the World Health Organization puts the global ratio around 2:1. What's up?

Comedian Josh Thomas Ward weighs in so intelligently, it's almost as if comedians are really good at telling the truth in a really concise way or something...


"I feel like part of the issue is this idea that [men] are meant to be resilient."

"This surprised me: Men commit suicide at a rate of 3:1 to women. Which is crazy, because it's better to be a dude!"

"You get paid more. You get male privilege. You've got the patriarchy on your side. You don't menstruate. It's good! It's really good!"

"Up until the age of 8 or 9, boys cry the same amount as girls. ... and then they get taught to stop. They're not allowed anymore."

Men commit suicide more than women, which is surprising. Like Josh here, we tend to think that men have it so good! But really, men are suffering. Taught to be "masculine" and to suppress emotion at a young age, they aren't asking for help when they need it most. It's a huge problem.

"And it's ridiculous! And this fear of looking weak or looking feminine or looking gay is stopping men from talking about their feelings."

According to a recent Forbes article, women report mental health issues more often then men.

Think about it, who's more likely to get the help they need? Someone who asks for it? Or someone who would literally rather die than show a sign of weakness.

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I'm sharing this for all the men who I know and love. It's time to help our bros! Real, true strength and masculinity comes from caring for yourself honestly.

That's what's up. <3

10/10. The Mayyas dance.

We can almost always expect to see amazing acts and rare skills on “America’s Got Talent.” But sometimes, we get even more than that.

The Mayyas, a Lebanese women’s dance troupe whose name means “proud walk of a lioness,” delivered a performance so mesmerizing that judge Simon Cowell called it the “best dance act” the show has ever seen, winning them an almost instant golden buzzer.

Perhaps this victory comes as no surprise, considering that the Mayyas had previously won “Arab’s Got Talent” in 2019 and competed on “Britain’s Got Talent: The Champions.” But truly, it’s what motivates them to take to the stage that’s remarkable.

“Lebanon is a very beautiful country, but we live a daily struggle," one of the dancers said to the judges just moments before their audition. Another explained, “being a dancer as a female Arab is not fully supported yet.”

Nadim Cherfan, the team’s choreographer, added that “Lebanon is not considered a place where you can build a career out of dancing, so it’s really hard, and harder for women.”

Still, Cherfan shared that it was a previous “AGT” star who inspired the Mayyas to defy the odds and audition anyway. Nightbirde, a breakout singer who also earned a golden buzzer before tragically passing away in February 2021 due to cancer, had told the audience, “You can't wait until life isn't hard anymore before you decide to be happy.” The dance team took the advice to heart.

For the Mayyas, coming onto the “AGT” stage became more than an audition opportunity. Getting emotional, one of the dancers declared that it was “our only chance to prove to the world what Arab women can do, the art we can create, the fights we fight.”

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Three people engaged in conversation at a party.

There are some people who live under the illusion that everything they say is deeply interesting and have no problem wasting your time by rambling on and on without a sign of stopping. They’re the relative, neighbor or co-worker who can’t take a hint that the conversation is over.

Of all these people, the co-worker who can’t stop talking may be the most challenging because you see them every day in a professional setting that requires politeness.

There are many reasons that some people talk excessively. Therapist F. Diane Barth writes in Psychology Today that some people talk excessively because they don’t have the ability to process complex auditory signals, so they ramble on without recognizing the subtle cues others are sending.

It may also be a case of someone who thinks they’re the most interesting person in the conversation.

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