Here's A Ridiculous Thing We Teach Girls That Ends Up Ruining Their Relationships

Nobody is telling us to raise evil little girls or that it's a bad thing to be a good person. It's just that "nice, good, sweet" can't be the threshold. If we're going to make note of when a girl is nice, then maybe we can also talk about when she's not nice — and how that's OK and normal because she's a person with real emotions.