Meet Ash Beckham. She has some really smart and hilarious things to help you out the next time you are thinking about using the word "gay." At 0:43, she makes the point I've been trying to make for years. At 2:10, I start feeling like I'm in an awesome church. And at 4:30, she gets to the point. Listen to her.
I wrote to Ash to ask her how I could help, and she said she'd really appreciate it if you would take the time to Like The Gay, Lesbian & Straight Education Network (GLSEN) on Facebook. Also, sharing this would help bunches as well. And you could totally Like Ash on Facebook if you like funny people. Totally your call though.