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She’s ‘Legally Obligated’ To Let You Know You’ll Be A Lesbian After Hearing Her. I Like This Woman.

Sabrina Jalees can serve up clever punchlines and hilarious impressions, but the fact that she has a great point to make is probably why they gave her a TED Talk. (Good call on that one, TED!)

She’s ‘Legally Obligated’ To Let You Know You’ll Be A Lesbian After Hearing Her. I Like This Woman.

Sabrina covers so much ground in her talk, but what she had to say about coming out of the closet is worth sharing:

"So the next step was that I wanted to come out to my extended Muslim family, but my dad was always like: 'Shh, keep it a secret. Secrets are cool, man.'

And I was like, 'Dad, I'm married now. What's your five-year plan with this secret? I keep on showing up to family things with, like, my wife best friend? She loves Ramadan. Pretty soon we've got, like, a little kid best friend? Found him in a well.'

So I finally got my father's permission to come out to them. I decided to do it in an email, and it landed in 28 inboxes and got zero replies.

[...] Coming out can be like cliff jumping. You know, you look over the edge of the cliff, you just hope the water's deep enough. And what I've learned is in the relationships that matter, eventually the water's there. Today, a year later, I am proud to say I have a relationship with a lot of the family members that initially rejected me. So this is my Oprah moment. Imagine a helicopter comes down and I get in it.

No, this is my low-budget Oprah moment. It's just to urge you to be proud of the things that make you different. To live with an open mind, and other people's minds will follow. We're all different and we're all the same. People don't want to hate, they want to love."
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Davina Agudelo was born in Miami, Florida, but she grew up in Medellín, Colombia.

"I am so grateful for my upbringing in Colombia, surrounded by mountains and mango trees, and for my Colombian family," Agudelo says. "Colombia is the place where I learned what's truly essential in life." It's also where she found her passion for the arts.

While she was growing up, Colombia was going through a violent drug war, and Agudelo turned to literature, theater, singing, and creative writing as a refuge. "Journaling became a sacred practice, where I could leave on the page my dreams & longings as well as my joy and sadness," she says. "During those years, poetry came to me naturally. My grandfather was a poet and though I never met him, maybe there is a little bit of his love for poetry within me."

In 1998, when she left her home and everyone she loved and moved to California, the arts continued to be her solace and comfort. She got her bachelor's degree in theater arts before getting certified in journalism at UCLA. It was there she realized the need to create a media platform that highlighted the positive contributions of LatinX in the US.

"I know the power that storytelling and writing our own stories have and how creative writing can aid us in our own transformation."

In 2012, she started Alegría Magazine and it was a great success. Later, she refurbished a van into a mobile bookstore to celebrate Latin American and LatinX indie authors and poets, while also encouraging children's reading and writing in low-income communities across Southern California.

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Everyone has heard stories of the strange and intense food cravings women get when pregnant. There's the pregnant woman who had to have dill pickles dipped in ice cream or the one who couldn't make it through the night without a bucket of a specific type of fried chicken.

Researchers have yet to lock down the exact reason why pregnant women have these seemingly unnatural cravings, but there are a few reasons that are often cited. Women who are pregnant experience heightened senses of smell and taste that can have a direct effect on their appetites.

Some researchers believe their bodies may be craving specific nutrients they need for a healthy pregnancy. Others have suggested that dietary requests at odd hours may be a way for a pregnant person to develop a supportive bond with their partner before the baby arrives.

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