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Artist makes gorgeous headpieces as a way to celebrate their Filipino culture

It's so much more than a fashion statement.

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Yas queen.

Artist Mar Velicaria is giving a renaissance to Filipino culture. Their beautiful handmade golden headdresses are taking over TikTok, and not just because they are stunning to look at.

Velicaria currently has four different crown designs, all inspired by a key part of the Filipino flag: the Philippine sun. The image of the sun invokes a lot of different things for a lot of different people. But it has a particular meaning in Filipino culture.

Located in the center of the flag’s white triangle, the sun—which originally had a face on it—is meant to symbolize the “brightness of the Filipino mind,” according to The Philippines Today. Each of the sun’s eight rays represent the provinces that rebelled against Spain to defend freedom.

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In addition, it features three stars surrounding the sun, which carry two different meanings. First, they represent the three groups of islands that make up the Philippines: Luzon, Mindanao and Visayas. But each star also carries more specific context: Luzon represents diligence, Mindanao preserving nature and Visayas the importance of a happy personality.

Velicaria used their impressive skills to shine a spotlight on this rich heritage in a truly creative way and people are loving them for it.


Below is thier first design, simply called the "Reyna.”

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POV you’re just trying to live out your mom’s dream of being in a Philippine teleserya 🇵🇭🤪

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Velicaria told "Good Morning America" that the idea came to them after watching the 2018 Met Gala, which had the theme of “heavenly bodies.” What started out as a fun creative hobby soon became a meaningful way to support and celebrate their community.

“I hope my products inspire you to learn more about your family, your culture, your people and yourself,” they told GMA.

Below is a slightly different but just as beautiful crown called the "5 Ray Reyna."

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I didn’t expect this version of headpiece to be as popular as it is, but I’m happy that y’all like it 💖🥰🇵🇭

♬ T a l k i n g t o t h e P l a y D a t e - MidnightDrives

This one is my personal favorite, called the "Sunpaguita."

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POV you fall asleep during class and dream of sunny days ☀️

♬ Howl's Moving Castle - Merry-Go-Round of Life - Vitamin String Quartet

The Sampaquita is the national flower of the Philippines, though oddly enough it isn't native to the area. The flower symbolizes purity, simplicity, humility and strength.

Last but not least, there's the lovely "Maria," showing up at the very beginning of this video:

@marharlika Since so many class of 2022 grads wanna see what the headpieces looked like in a cap and gown 🎓✨🇵🇭👑 #classof2022 ♬ Get Up (feat Chamillionaire) - Ciara

Mary, aka "The Blessed Mother," is a major icon in Filipino Catholic tradition. Several days throughout the year are dedicated to honoring her, as she is seen as a living connection to the sacred.

It's not just glamorous crowns either; Velicaria offers all kinds of accessories and jewelry inspired by Filipino culture. And with every lovely trinket they create, they brings in more representation.

“There’s this saying [in Tagalog] called ‘Isang Bagsak,’ which means ‘One Down," they said to GMA. "It basically represents this idea in Philippine culture that if one of us falls, we all fall. And if one of us rises, we all rise.”

If you want to check out more of their work, or even purchase a few items, you can find their Instagram and website here and here.

Pop Culture

5 ways people are going "All In" this week

From the silly to the sentimental, here are five ways people across the internet are giving it their all.

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When you hear the words “all in,” what do you think? You might picture a color-coordinated, fairy-themed surprise proposal that took months to create, or maybe you think of a singer who went on stage and nailed the perfect high note in front of everyone (like this girl). Whatever you picture, the idea is the same: Going “all in” means doing something with total commitment—literally giving it your “all” and going completely over the top. No second guessing, no holding back—just full-throttle enthusiasm with some creativity and flair thrown in. That’s how we get those viral internet moments we can’t stop watching.

This week, we've found a handful of hilarious and heart-warming videos that perfectly capture what it's like to go "all in"—moments where passion, creativity, and commitment take center stage and something truly special happens as a result. Here are five of our favorite examples.


1. This "Sports Car" singalong

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The viral song “Sports Car” by Tate McRae has become an absolute viral hit, and it’s not hard to see why. Not only is the song super catchy, but her performance is show-stopping (you might even say she and her backup dancers go all in). Everyone is singing and dancing along—although this content creator’s rendition of the song might be the most passionate one. He gets a little too caught up, as you’ll see at the end of this video—and, well, his reenactment becomes "show stopping" in a different way. (Don't worry, though, he's totally fine.)

2. A little bit of everything, according to Reddit (but especially personal growth) 

This week, the team at All In asked Reddit users what they go “all in” on in their own lives, and the responses were entertaining and inspiring (and sometimes both). One commenter shared that they go all in on blue cheese dressing when they’re eating buffalo wings (respect), while another shared that they go all in on saving up their retirement (we love to see people reaching for big goals). Turns out you can go “all in” on everything from maintaining a healthy marriage to putting salt on your cucumbers. Our favorite responses, though, were people who went in on personal growth and learning. Click here to see what they had to say (and click here to snag a box of All In bars—for free!).

3. Pursuing a life-long dream 

@kynder.jpg that's my mom! 💙⛸️ #iceskating #followyourdreams #figureskating #lifeover50 ♬ No One - Aly & AJ

If you’ve ever caught yourself thinking you’re “too old” to follow your dreams, watch this video, because this midlife mom will prove you wrong. This video shows a woman skating in her first figure skating competition—and she’s about to turn 50. The daughter, who filmed and posted the video to TikTok, says that ice skating has always been her mother’s lifelong dream, and recently she just decided to go for it. The costume, the composition, and the passion are all first-rate, but the best part is that the commenters are going crazy for her, too. One of them wrote, “As a former competitive figure skater, nothing makes me tear up like videos of people getting into skating later in life. The ice was my first love, it was home. Welcome home.”

4. These infectious dance moves

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♬ Some Nights - Fun.

Okay, so unlike the figure skating mom, there’s nothing technically impressive about this woman dancing—as in, she’s not a professional dancer. She doesn’t use choreography or sparkly costumes—but what’s great about these videos is that her passion and enthusiasm just can’t be denied. It’s just her in her bonnet, dancing along to upbeat classics like “Some Nights,” by Fun, and somehow you can’t help but be completely mesmerized—and maybe start dancing along yourself. We watched a bunch of her videos—there are tons, and they’re all equally enthusiastic—and we couldn’t help but laugh and groove right along with her. That’s what’s great about going “all in”—it inspires other people, too.

Song re-enactments...with a surprising guest star 

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People can sometimes be “extra” when it comes to their pets (like dressing up their dog as a cowboy or a mailman for Halloween). But there’s being “extra” with your pet, and then there’s going “all in,” which this TikTok creator undoubtedly does. King Guinea Adventures (@animallover.zx123) has built a platform on staging re-enactments of popular songs, but with a twist: the star of the show is a guinea pig. These hilarious videos show the guinea pig acting out the lyrics of popular songs such as “Video Games” by Lana Del Ray and “Whiskey Lullaby” by Braid Paisley and Alison Kraus. The literalism of these videos is what makes them actually hilarious, and it shows how much thought the creator put into making them (In “Video Games,” for example, when Lana sings “Swinging in the backyard / pull up in your fast car,” you see a literal toy car appear in the swing next to him. When she gets to the lyric “video games,” you see a Nintendo Switch pop up.) It’s creative, it’s funny, it’s fun—and best of all, this creator takes their love of pop culture (and the love of her pet guinea pig) and truly goes “all in.”

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Jonah Berger explains how appealing to someone's identity makes them more likely to agree to a request.

Human psychology really isn't that complicated, if you think about it. Everybody wants to see themselves in a positive light. That’s the key to understanding Jonah Berger’s simple tactic that makes people 30% more likely to do what you ask. Berger is a marketing professor at the Wharton School of the University of Pennsylvania and the bestselling author of “Magic Words: What to Say to Get Your Way.”

Berger explained the technique using a Stanford University study involving preschoolers. The researchers messed up a classroom and made two similar requests to groups of 5-year-olds to help clean up.


One group was asked, "Can you help clean?" The other was asked, “Can you be a helper and clean up?" The kids who were asked if they wanted to be a “helper” were 30% more likely to want to clean the classroom. The children weren’t interested in cleaning but wanted to be known as “helpers.”

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Berger calls the reframing of the question as turning actions into identities.

"It comes down to the difference between actions and identities. We all want to see ourselves as smart and competent and intelligent in a variety of different things,” Berger told Big Think. “But rather than describing someone as hardworking, describing them as a hard worker will make that trait seem more persistent and more likely to last. Rather than asking people to lead more, tell them, 'Can you be a leader?' Rather than asking them to innovate, can you ask them to 'Be an innovator'? By turning actions into identities, you can make people a lot more likely to engage in those desired actions.”

Berger says that learning to reframe requests to appeal to people’s identities will make you more persuasive.

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“Framing actions as opportunities to claim desired identities will make people more likely to do them,” Berger tells CNBC Make It. “If voting becomes an opportunity to show myself and others that I am a voter, I’m more likely to do it.”

This technique doesn’t just work because people want to see themselves in a positive light. It also works for the opposite. People also want to avoid seeing themselves being portrayed negatively.

“Cheating is bad, but being a cheater is worse. Losing is bad, being a loser is worse,” Berger says.

The same tactic can also be used to persuade ourselves to change our self-concept. Saying you like to cook is one thing, but calling yourself a chef is an identity. “I’m a runner. I’m a straight-A student. We tell little kids, ‘You don’t just read, you’re a reader,’” Berger says. “You do these things because that’s the identity you hold.”

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Berger’s work shows how important it is to hone our communication skills. By simply changing one word, we can get people to comply with our requests more effectively. But, as Berger says, words are magic and we have to use them skillfully. “We think individual words don’t really matter that much. That’s a mistake,” says Berger. “You could have excellent ideas, but excellent ideas aren’t necessarily going to get people to listen to you.”

This article originally appeared last year. It has since been updated.

Culture

Why Millennials have single-handedly saved the greeting card business from going under

"It’s always nice when you can tell someone knows you and picked out a card that is your vibe. Makes you feel seen and valued."

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Greeting card.

There's something special about receiving a physical, handwritten greeting card. Whether sent by snail mail or attached to a sweet gift, greeting cards are still alive and well in the digital age of communication.

According to the Greeting Card Association (GCA), 6.5 billion greeting cards are purchased annually in the United States. And one generation is to thank for saving the industry: Millennials.


"The millennial generation is now the largest buyers of greeting cards from a dollar standpoint," said George White, Founder of Up with Paper, a pop-up greeting card company, and Past President of GCA, per the U.S. Chamber of Commerce.

"[Millenials] saved our industry."

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Carlos Llanso, Director of Strategic Initiatives in The Greeting Card Association, added that Millennials and Gen Z are both strong greeting card consumers. "They have friends they will text or post happy birthday to, but then they have those who are 'card-worthy,'" he added.

The deeper significance of greeting cards

Sending messages and communicating online is constant, immediate, and often fleeting," Dr. Pamela Walters, MD, consultant psychiatrist at Eulas Clinics, tells Upworthy. "Messages can be sent and deleted within seconds. Cards can feel slower and more deliberate which is why many people keep cards for years."

And they can help us connect on a deeper level. "As human beings we attach meaning not just to words but also to the medium through which those words are delivered. A physical card represents time, effort, and thoughtfulness to a lot of people," adds Dr. Walter. "It signals that the sender has slowed down to acknowledge you personally. For millennials (who, let's not forget, came of age during the shift to digital communication), the tangible nature of a card can feel more special. Psychologically, these little things that show care can definitely strengthen bonds."

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Of course, greeting cards also bring an air of nostalgia. "There is also a bit of a nostalgic element. They experienced writing thank you notes as children but also grew up texting and on social media," says Dr. Walter. "That duality means they appreciate the novelty/intimacy of something older fashioned."

Millennials are pumped that they "finally saved something." One explained, "It’s exciting to get something personal in the mail. Plus it’s always nice when you can tell someone knows you and picked out a card that is your vibe. Makes you feel seen and valued. I’ll slap them on the fridge for a bit."

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Another commented, "I keep almost every card I get/have ever gotten. Someone took the time to think about the perfect card to give me, and then also wrote a personalized note inside." Another shared, "I love getting cards, especially when someone writes a message. I keep mine. If they're holiday cards, I display them annually."

Other Millennials shared where they like to buy their greeting cards. "I buy them from the dollar store because they’re not worth $7-$10," one wrote. This one added, "Trader Joe’s sells greeting cards for $1." Another wrote, "Aldi sometimes sells bulk blank cards for $5. I have a ton. Also, check for bulk cards if a child family/friend is having a school fundraiser. Sometimes the ones with wrapping paper have bulk blank cards." Another spilled, "Marshall’s has some really cute fancy ones for under five dollars too." And another added, "I grab them from Homegoods when they put them on clearance at the end of a season."

Pop Culture

Real women trying on 'micro shorts' is the comedy gold we didn't know we needed

Proof we don't need to force ourselves to fit into trends…unless we're needing a good laugh.

Women are trying Free People's 'micro shorts' with hilarious commentary

With every season, comes a new trendy fashion item that retailers push as the must-have piece. But as we know, no trend is universally flattering.

Case and point, last year, when Free People, a specialty lifestyle brand for bohemian styled fashion, released its "micro shorts," which, as you can probably guess, are teeny tiny. They might check off all the requirements for a pair of shorts...except, they appear to be about the length of underwear.


If you're thinking "there's no way those would look good," you're not wrong! And to prove that point, a couple of women bought some to try on so you don't have to. The videos are not only honest but hilarious.

In one video Nicole Walters, a New York Times best selling author and mom to three girls, decided to order the shorts to see how they looked on someone with, "thigh meat." She wears a size 12 and often jokes about being a curvier on the bottom. When she pulled the shorts out, it looked as if she was going to have to perform a magic trick to get them on. They looked to be the size a small child would wear, but they seemed to have gone on easily even though they looked extremely uncomfortable. She looked uncomfortable. The viewers likely looked uncomfortable.

"Oh wow. They're in there and by in there I mean everywhere. There's a lot of thigh meat happening right now in the, this region," Walters says as she gestures at her upper thighs. "There's some thigh meat, um...uh...I feel like they're definitely in some places that I didn't know I had."

Walter's review of the shorts has people in stitches as she jokes about her Christianity falling out of the shorts.

"It’s the Barbie walk for me lol!!! Thank you for your service," one person says.

"The way you warn us that you’re going to turn around almost made me scream with laughter," someone writes.

"I'm just going to go ahead and dial 911 for help bc looks like you may need the jaws of life to come out them shorts...lol!! Your commentary had me dying laughing..lol," another commenter jokes.

In another Free People "micro shorts" try on video, Nicole Story Dent braved the itty bitty shorts to show her audience the summer trend they can look forward to seeing. The first pair of shorts has multiple flaps that appear to be large pockets which inspires Dent to pretend to fly in them before the discomfort sinks in.

"It's kinda giving waitress...if they ever want to make a Waffle House-Hooters hybrid, we have their uniform, "she said. "We have been asking for more pockets so they delivered. Speaking of delivered, you could deliver a baby without having to take these shorts off."

Dent guessed that the shorts would be more like "jundies" or "janties" than jorts, the shorthand term for jean shorts. Commenters couldn't stop laughing at her description of the shorts while others provided her with words of wisdom.

"Do NOT drop it low in these jundies, that kind of contact with the club floor is NOT hygienic," someone wrote.

"'There is nothing vegan about these. There is absolutely a cat being harmed!' I’m cackling! You really should win something from Free People for this! @freepeople we found your next model," another person joked.

"This is the kind of content the internet was made for, it’s just so good. However my thighs started getting chafed just watching this," added a third.

If you're brave enough to give these micro shorts a try, go ahead and stock up on some baby powder for all the chaffing. However, it's all about long Bermuda shorts this year. And since no one can keep up with fashion's rapid pace anyway, why not just stick with what feels good?

This article originally appeared last year.

Culture

Gen Xers laugh about the 'elderly shizz' they do now on their aging journeys

"I have a damn daily pill holder. You know, with the days of the week?"

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Gen X shares the funny signs they're getting old.

It's no secret that Generation X is getting older. In 2025, Gen X (born between 1965 and 1980) are now between 45-60 years old. And, according to a 2024 study published in The Journals of Gerontology, Gen Xers are living longer than Boomers.

To find humor in their journeys, one aging Gen Xer posed a funny question to his fellow Gen Xers: "What downright elderly shizz you been getting into????"


She went on to explain, "I’ll start. I’ve had to limit alcohol to weekends this last year because there’s no telling how my body will punish me for it…. I might not sleep all night, I might experience heartburn on a level that I might barf, it might be nothing.. in any case I can’t risk it on a weekday. So I decide to get some Valarian root tea and have that as my nightcap. I’ve never liked tea, ever. Like ew no thank you to your tepid lawn water 👎🏻 But valerian is very nice in flavor."

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She noted she now has a whole collection of teas in various flavors, before quipping, "I’m GenX Meemaw. It has happened. I’m rocking it of course, but damn."

Her vulnerable and relatable post inspired fellow Gen Xers to share the amusing things that make them feel "elderly." These are the funniest things Gen Xers said that will make you chuckle.

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"I have a damn daily pill holder. You know, with the days of the week? 🙄" - Lesterkitty13

"My dad reads all day and hardly leaves the house he’s been like this for many years and he is happy. A year ago I started reading all day I already barely left the house but now I’m finishing books in one to two days. I’m physically disabled and it’s gotten harder to be active. I’ve turned into my father." - mjh8212

"From City Slickers, 1991: 'The music starts to get too loud and one of your old girlfriends from high school becomes a grandmother. Your fifties you have a minor surgery. You'll call it a procedure, but it's a surgery. Your sixties you have a major surgery, the music is still loud but it doesn't matter because you can't hear it anyway. Seventies, you and the wife retire to Fort Lauderdale, you start eating dinner at two, lunch around ten, breakfast the night before. And you spend most of your time wandering around malls looking for the ultimate in soft yogurt and muttering 'how come the kids don't call?' By your eighties, you've had a major stroke, and you end up babbling to some Jamaican nurse who your wife can't stand but who you call mama.' Any questions?" - these-things-happen

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"I wake up between 5-5:30 AM & quietly drink my coffee as I contemplate, the topic varies. I love this time of morning because it’s mostly quiet, depending on the time of year, the birds might start stirring & chirping, it almost feels like it’s just me in the world. Also depending on the time of year, I’ll meander around my outdoor plants & check on them. If I’m not able to do my morning ritual, it fucks with my mood for the rest of the day." - SierraStar7

"I just started drinking tea also and I’m kind of digging it. I stare out my backdoor and look at the grass/ plants a lot more than I should. I have identified individual squirrels. I’ve contemplated the music at my funeral. Written a book in my head. I get annoyed by people my age looking so old." - Consistent-Change386

"I love being in my 50s. No more monthly curse. Kids are grown and flown and I get to focus on me for the first time in a quarter century. But also, yes, I’m doing some elderly stuff. Birds! They’re fascinating. CRS. Seriously. I forget anything that isn’t written down AND in my phone. Can’t tolerate alcohol much at all anymore, but THC beverages are great and they’re low/no calorie. Bonus for the menopausal metabolism. I wear a floppy straw hat on the beach and when walking the neighborhood, because skin cancer is real. I rarely, if ever, exceed the speed limit. I always prioritize comfort over style." - No-Ship-6214

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"Just this week, my husband (52) was given an extra carry out container at a restaurant. He said, 'Here, take it home. This is a really good box.' We started laughing so hard." - Happy_Armadillo_553

"I don’t care how warm it is outside. When I sit down to watch TV, I’m gonna throw a blanket over my lap." - creepyoldlurker

"52M. I’m suddenly way into WWII documentaries!!! Such an old man thing!" - Vivid_Surprise_1353

"My dad, 75, has been complaining about feeling like he’s stuck at home, doing nothing. I was in town last weekend, so I bribed him with breakfast and we went to check out the local senior activity center. We got a tour and it was super nice. They have a billiards room, lunch, tons of seating, classes, movie nights … And I asked what the requirements were and she said you had to be 50 years old. I’m 52. I could hang out there now." - jenorama_CA

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"We sold our couch and bought matching La-Z-Boy recliners! 😂😂" - pagesinthesun

"Recently started taking water aerobics. Makes me feel like I’m in Cocoon." - Leelabot

"I like jigsaw puzzles. I found a name brand one at Walgreens and on clearance and I got very excited. I showed my wife and told her it was on super sale; as excited as my son would have for a video game. I asked the cashier to make sure it was on sale before I bought it. I made sure to use my discount card." - len43

Tupac Shakur, a bungee jumper and a guy playing Street Fighter 2.

Gen Xers (1965 to 1980) are often called the forgotten generation because they are wedged between the much larger and culturally significant Baby Boomer and Millennial generations. Gen Xers are frequently overlooked because they were known as a nihilistic, sarcastic generation that was very skeptical of fame and power, and their youths were overshadowed by Boomer nostalgia. There's no greater proof of the generations' apathetic younger years than the fact that Gen Xers have yet to have a person from their generation elected president.

Even though Gen X may not be as discussed as Baby Boomers or Millennials (and they may not mind), we mustn’t forget that a lot of the culture and technology that we enjoy today was a gift given to the world by Gen X. Yes, they may be known as slackers. Still, they did change the world in their own DIY (do-it-yourself) way.



Here are 11 gifts that Gen X gave to the world

1. Reality TV

This one is a mixed bag because over the past 30-plus years, a lot of reality TV hasn’t exactly been at the pinnacle of American culture. But, initially, in 1992, MTV debuted The Real World, featuring a group of Gen Xers living in an apartment together in New York City. It was a powerful statement on whether or not a group of young Americans from different ethnic groups, regions, and sexualities could live together under the same roof. Eventually, the show became all about people hooking up, losing its cultural relevance.

2. Golden Age of hip-hop

The first rappers who picked up microphones in the South Bronx in the late '70s were most likely Baby Boomers, but the Golden Age of hip-hop, from the mid-’80s to mid-'90s, was created by Gen Xers. In this time, we had gangster rappers such as N.W.A. and Snoop Dogg, as well as political activists like Public Enemy and KRS-One. Artists who brought rap to the front pages, including Notorious B.I.G. and Tupac Shakur. Wordsmiths who drew inspiration from jazz, such as De La Soul and A Tribe Called Quest, and the boom-bap artists who made rap mainstream, including L.L. Cool J, RUN DMC, and Beastie Boys.


3. Extreme sports

In the 1990s, one of the most overused buzzwords was “Extreme.” The soft drinks were extreme. The games on your Game Boy were extreme. Even on Wayne’s World, the close-ups were extreme as all get-out. But the most extreme that one could get was in the world of sports, where in the ‘90s people were always tempting the reaper while bungee jumping, mountain biking, skateboarding, base jumping, paragliding, or anything that Dan Cortese could cram into MTV Sports.

4. Blogs

Before social media and online articles existed, bloggers were the first to share their thoughts and feelings on the Internet, a space then known as the World Wide Web or Cyberspace. Early bloggers used platforms such as LiveJournal and Open Diary, while some wrote their own code. These personal musings serve as a touchpoint for early Internet culture and formed the framework for many of the online platforms we use today.


5. Music festivals

Yes, Boomers, we know that Woodstock first happened in 1969. Gen Xers heard about it every day of their lives growing up. However, the modern music festival really took off after 1991’s Lollapalooza, curated by Perry Farrell of Jane’s Addiction. Lollapalooza was the culmination of ‘90s alternative culture, priding itself on bringing together top bands in alternative rock and hip-hop with legacy acts, cult bands, and extreme sideshows.

6. Grunge music

Even if you don’t like grunge rock, you have to thank the genre for wiping the airwaves of the scourge of hair metal that dominated in the late ‘80s. Grunge rock was born in the late ‘80s in Seattle and was a confluence of the slow, heavy sounds of early metal, such as Black Sabbath, and the do-it-yourself, anti-establishment punk scene that started in the late ‘70s. Grunge was gritty, thumbed its nose at rock star excess, and brought thrift-store fashion to the forefront of youth culture.


7. The Indie film movement

While Boomers can lay claim to the early indie film movement sparked by 1969’s Easy Rider, that was squashed by the blockbuster era of the ‘80s. The rise of independent film festivals and award shows, video stores and the era’s DIY attitude created a new crop of filmmakers armed with, as filmmaker Kevin Smith would call it, “A credit card and a dream,” and led to a new generation of filmmakers including Smith (Clerks, Chasing Amy), Quentin Tarrantino (Pulp Fiction, Reservoir Dogs), Richard Linklater (Slacker, Dazed and Confused), and Stephen Soderberg (Sex, Lies, and Videotape, Oceans 11).

8. Coffee house culture

Kids of today often lament that there aren’t any third spaces, after home and work, to meet up with friends and just hang out. In the time before the great Starbucks takeover, coffee shops were a place in the ‘90s where young people, especially teenagers and adults too young for the bar scene, hung out and spent long hours on shabby, thrift-store decor, arguing over who killed Laura Palmer on Twin Peaks.

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9. A healthy dose of skepticism

Of course, skepticism has been around since the dawn of man, but Gen Xers brought it to an art form. It’s hard to imagine in 2025 that from the late ‘80s until 2001, young people in America didn’t really care that much about politics. They had very low voter turnout and were skeptical about people in power. Gen X was more concerned with selling out than buying into the system. Some may find that level of apathy appalling, but there’s something to be said for putting politics on the back burner and focusing on things that bring more satisfaction in life than following an ugly “zero-sum” game.

10. Gaming culture

Older generations may have enjoyed Pong (1972), but authentic video game culture came alive in the early ‘80s with games like Pac-Man, Donkey Kong, and Frogger. Gen X was the first generation to play on mass-produced home game systems such as the Atari 2600 and ColecoVision. This sowed the seeds for a gaming subculture to become part of the mainstream, where video games are worth nearly $200 billion a year.

11. Social media

Gen Xers were the creators of key platforms in the development of social media, starting with Blogger (1999), which allowed people to share posts. The significant change came in 2003, when MySpace, created by Gen Xers Chris DeWolfe and Tom Anderson, became the first mainstream social network. Gen Xers would also be behind the creation of YouTube (2005) and Twitter (2006). You can say Gen X is the forgotten generation, but in a world dominated by social media, it’s impossible to say they didn’t have a massive impact on the world of today.