13 patriarchy-busting reasons to feel proud AND optimistic on International Women's Day.

March 8 is International Women's Day: one day in 365 where we celebrate the achievements and aspirations of the gender that makes up half of the human population of our planet.

The patriarchy is hilarious! Image via iStock.


We also get a hashtag.

This year, when it seems like every second headline is filled with bad news for women, it is easy to dismiss International Women's Day as meaningless. After all, we've been celebrating a form of it since at least 1909, and we're still justifying why women should be allowed to bust ghosts. If we can't even get that sorted, how far have we come?


The power of Patty compelled me to share this. Image via "Ghostbusters."

Women have come really far. No, seriously. Really, super far.

Any way you look at it — in education, health, politics, and culture — women are making big leaps forward. Here's how:

More women are getting an education than ever before.

1. U.S. women are serious about higher learning.

Image via iStock. Fact source: Census.

2. STEM isn't a boy's club anymore.

STEM (short for science, technology, engineering, and mathematics) used to be the most male-dominated career field. Not anymore. Image va iStock. Fact source: Census.

3. Call it the Malala effect: Pakistani schoolgirls are getting easier access to education.

Image via iStock.

Female politicians aren't a rarity any more.

4. After decades of activism, political progress is happening in India.

Image via iStock.

5. Canada has a new government that's serious about gender parity.

Image via iStock.

6. Female politicians are breaking the highest glass ceilings all over the world.

Fact source: Pew Research Center.

We've made huge leaps forward in female health care and in protecting newborn babies.

7. Having beautiful, healthy babies is safer than ever before.


Image via iStock. Fact source: World Health Organization.

8. Birth control is here for women who want it.

Image via iStock. Fact source: United Nations.

Female entertainers are making more and doing more.

9. A once-in-a-generation female voice is breaking 15-year-old sales records.

Adele sold 8.08 million albums in just six weeks in 2015. Fact source: Billboard.

10. Local libraries are stocked with female authors.

Female authors also wrote three of 2015's top five best-selling nonfiction books. Image via Lukas.Bo/Flickr. Fact source: Publishers Weekly.

Women are fighting big battles — and winning them.

11. Laggard governments are taking action on violence against women.

Image via Joachim Huber/Flickr. Fact source: UNFPA.

12. New laws will let little girls stay kids as long as they want.

Image via Erik Torner/Flickr. Fact source: The Guardian.

And women in America are turning up when it really matters.

13. American women are serious about democracy.

Image via iStock. Fact source: Census.

All of these figures are encouraging, but they're definitely not a sign that women need to step back and take a break.

Because, when it comes down to it, who run the world?


I know, SPOILER ALERT, but it's still generally dudes, and they're still generally white. Image via "Lip Sync Battle."

Even with great leaps forward, there are so, so many more ways women are still unequal: We still make, on average, 78 cents for every dollar a man makes. We are less likely to become CEOs. We are, in some U.S. states, rapidly seeing male politicians restrict our ability to make our own reproductive health choices. We need politicians and law enforcement to get serious about justice for victims of violence and rape, and we need to be ready to stand in our power and replace them if they won't stand up for us.

And, let's be really real — white feminists like me are only just starting to recognize the ways fighting for feminist equality can marginalize women of color, and we're not doing nearly enough to address it. Women deserve more than a day, a week, or even a month of recognition for us to collectively get closer to where we should rightfully be.

But all that said, I'm still celebrating International Women's Day today. Because the way I see it, making a big-ass deal out of the one day we do get is just another way to remind everyone that we deserve so much more.

Albert Einstein

One of the strangest things about being human is that people of lesser intelligence tend to overestimate how smart they are and people who are highly intelligent tend to underestimate how smart they are.

This is called the Dunning-Kruger effect and it’s proven every time you log onto Facebook and see someone from high school who thinks they know more about vaccines than a doctor.

The interesting thing is that even though people are poor judges of their own smarts, we’ve evolved to be pretty good at judging the intelligence of others.

“Such findings imply that, in order to be adaptive, first impressions of personality or social characteristics should be accurate,” a study published in the journal Intelligence says. “There is accumulating evidence that this is indeed the case—at least to some extent—for traits such as intelligence extraversion, conscientiousness, openness, and narcissism, and even for characteristics such as sexual orientation, political ideology, or antigay prejudice.”

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