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All photos courtesy of Dalton Ross, used with permission.

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Dalton Ross wanted to make sure his family didn't miss him too badly while he was studying abroad in London.

To help them cope, the 22-year-old Tennessee native did what any selfless college student would do...


He sent his mom a life-size cutout of himself.

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The life-size cutout of Dalton Ross.

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"I thought maybe they'd put it in the living room corner until I got back to remember I exist," he explained about the cutout, which came with a short note: "You're welcome.”

But like any clever mom, Susan Talley couldn't just stash this amazing piece of work away when it arrived about two months ago.

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Guess who’s coming to dinner.

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No, no — she had better plans in mind.

Talley decided the cardboard version of her son could be a great companion "while the real one is in Europe." So she brought him along with her to events, like basketball games ...

Can you spot cardboard Dalton in the stands?

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Defense! Defense!

All photos courtesy of Dalton Ross, used with permission.

... trips to the doctor's office ...

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Hello doc.

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... and sub sandwich runs.

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One meatball sub please.

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Fake Dalton celebrated Valentine's Day with a fellow inanimate object.

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The strange and uncomfortable.

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He enjoyed playing with a furry, four-legged friend in the sunshine.

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Some complicated fetching.

All photos courtesy of Dalton Ross, used with permission.

And he appreciated a good bedtime story, just like the rest of us.

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Reading Dr. Seuss, “Oh, the Places You’ll Go!"

All photos courtesy of Dalton Ross, used with permission.

The photos of fake Dalton are spreading like wildfire.

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Out and about for lunch.

All photos courtesy of Dalton Ross, used with permission.

Without showing her son the photos first, Talley went ahead and uploaded them to Facebook. And after Dalton shared them on Imgur — explaining his mom "seems to be entertaining herself" while he's gone — the story sent the Internet into a buzzy frenzy.

"The attention is crazy," Ross told Upworthy, noting the story has gained so much traction that a restaurant featured in one of the photos, O'Charley's, sent the family a gift card.

"I hope my mom's holding up all right," he said. "It's awesome though.”

Fake Dalton has been hitting the batting cages...

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Batter up.

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... taking in some nightlife...

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Out on the town.

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... and celebrated Easter with his family.

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Easter with the Ross family.

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Although the viral reaction to the photos has been a bit nuts, Ross isn't all that surprised his mom was up for a good laugh.

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Out and about.

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"Oh yeah, my mom is very funny," he explained to Upworthy. And it's a good thing, too: Laughter can be a great tool in improving the quality of family dynamics and boosting a loved one's emotional health. (A student studying abroad should especially keep that in mind, considering being away from loved ones and familiarity can be tough.)

"We're a big family of jokesters."

Bravo, mom, for setting the bar very high ahead of April Fools' Day.

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Let’s clean it up.

All photos courtesy of Dalton Ross, used with permission.

This article originally appeared on 03.30.16

When researcher Raoul Schwing went up to the valley, a bird tried to take apart his car.

Photo from iStock.

That bird, a kea, was precisely the reason he was there. Keas are large parrots that live in the mountainous areas of New Zealand's South Island. They're wicked smart and armed with a beak like a Swiss army knife, which makes them great at dismantling puzzles (and Schwing's poor car).


They're also highly social and love to play with each other, chasing their bird peers in complex aerial dogfights or hopping across the ground and making a huge variety of whoops and calls. It was those play calls that Schwing was really interested in, a kind of squeaky "bwa-ha-haaaa."

It sounded — well, it sounded a lot like laughter.

Was it laughter Schwing was hearing? That raises a weird question: Can animals even laugh?

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Laughter is a difficult concept to study. There are plenty of animals that sound like they’re laughing. Kookaburras, for instance, or hyenas. But a kookaburra’s laugh is territorial, not gleeful, and a hyena’s cackling seems to be the equivalent of a nervous wail, not it enjoying a particularly hilarious joke.

True laughter is as much as message as it is a noise. In humans, it's a way to communicate playfulness or relaxation and a way to infect others with that mood as well. We might laugh at our dates' corny jokes not because they're the next Tig Notaro, but to show we're having a good time. We giggle when we're nervous to let off steam, and we add laugh tracks under sitcoms to invite the audience into the joke.

In this emotional messaging capacity, most animals aren't part of the evolutionary comedy club. But there are some. It turns out that rats enjoy a good tickle. There's tentative evidence dogs might laugh. Great apes, like chimps or orangutans, seem to laugh too. None of them sounds like human laughter — rats giggle at frequencies too high for humans to hear and chimps sound like they're panting — but they seem to carry that oh-so-important emotional messaging.

But do keas deserve entry into this group? Maybe, says Schwing.

Photo from Raoul Schwing.

When Schwing went to the research sites, he brought with him a specially designed, kea-proof speaker system (no taking apart this one). From a distance, he could use a remote control to play a variety of recorded calls at the kea.

Most didn't seem to have any specific effect, but the play call — that bwa-ha-ha noise — did. When he played it, nearby kea often would turn to each other and begin hopping and playfully chasing each other around. Even solitary birds got into the act, playing with objects or doing aerial acrobatics. In short, the play call definitely seemed to fit the emotional contagion category.

So while it may be going a bit far to label this as laughter as we humans know it, it could at least be a cousin of it.

Schwing and his team published their findings in the journal Current Biology.

These kinds of studies can have a lot of interesting results, but maybe most of all, they remind us how complex animals can be.

Some researchers have used it to study how our brains organize emotion or create a mood; there's even a potential antidepressant currently being tested that got its start from studying laughter in rats. Others have used laughter in the great apes to speculate about our own human roots.

For Schwing and his colleagues, studying the kea's play call gave them a window into the animal's social life. They're planning to continue to study the role of play in the kea's lives.

If nothing else, it's something to think about. "If animals can laugh," said Schwing, "we are not so different from them."

Being a new parent is exciting, but it’s also scary. Unfortunately, little ones don’t come with a manual.

Most new parents have a ton of questions (such as, how do you hold babies without breaking them?).

How to hold a baby. GIF via How to Dad/YouTube.


That’s why one New Zealand dad, Jordan Watson, decided to make a video for his buddy, a soon-to-be-dad, called “How to Hold a Baby,” showing 17 different ways to do it.‌‌

“I thought he would find it funny,” Watson said, “and it ended up going viral.”

People all over the world just couldn’t get enough of his video: It was informative, relatable, and above all, funny.

So Watson decided to make more videos that give advice on — and poke fun at — some of the everyday adventures and challenges of being a parent.

Making a new “How to Dad” video has become a fun family weekend tradition for Watson, his wife, and his two little girls.  Not only is it a great way to unwind after the long workweek, but it is also a way to laugh at everyday parenting issues, from changing a dirty diaper (or “nappy” as they call them in New Zealand) to traveling abroad with a baby.

“It’s those times when you are squashed in the lounge with the whole family, and there are two kids running around, that an idea for a video will come to you,” Watson said. “It’s when you are knee-deep in it.”

While these videos are not necessarily going to teach you how to be the “perfect” parent, they are welcome comedic relief for parents all around the world who see a bit of Watson in themselves and relate to him as he tackles parenting moments big and little.

“Parenting is a very stressful job, it’s not easygoing,” Watson said, “so to be able to just give someone that little smile, that chuckle, in their day of cleaning dirty nappies, that’s pretty awesome.”

‌This is the "cool baby" way to show off to other dads while holding a baby. Gif via How to Dad

Making his viewers laugh is why some of Watson's videos such as “How to get a Dad Bod” or, better yet, “How to get a baby to clean the house,” are especially silly.

Above all, Watson's funny videos are a reminder of how important it is for parents to stop overthinking how to be a good parent and just jump in and spend time with their kids.

“I think too many parents stress out a bit,” Watson said, “I like to think you have to take it easy a bit and have a bit of fun with them. They’re not going to just sit there and blow up all of a sudden.”

‌How to change a nappy. GIF via How to Dad.

“Life is loud, kids are loud, so laugh louder — that’s kinda the motto of ‘How to Dad,’” he said. “You sometimes have to take a step back from parenting and have a little giggle. So, you know, when your kid is throwing poop down the hallway or at the walls, you can be angry for a second, but then, have a laugh.”

When the world seems like it's going to hell in a hand basket, as it so often does these days, what's a person to do?

The world recently. Artist's rendering. GIF via NinersNation/Giphy.


Basically, you've got three options.

You can hide under the covers.

Who can judge? Photo via iStock.

You can move to a desert island.

Until the desert island is swallowed up by climate change and you're forced to move back. Photo by Timo Newton-Syms/Flickr.

Or ... you can take a page from Candace Payne's playbook, put on a talking Chewbacca mask, and laugh your ass off.

Witness her epic reaction when she dons the birthday present she bought herself, realizes that Wookiee sounds come out every time she opens her mouth, and proceeds to explode in a fireball of joyous laughter.

Let's count the ways in which this woman is awesome, shall we?

Photo by Candace Payne/Facebook.

Way #1. She bought the mask for herself, not for her kids.

Photo by Candace Payne/Facebook.

Sure, she acknowledges (and accepts) that they'll most likely steal it at some point in the future, but for now, it's mom's time in the Chewbacca mask, and no one can take that away from her.

No. One.

Way #2. She is endlessly delighted by the Wookiee sounds coming out of the mask. Endlessly.

GIF via Candace Payne/Facebook.

As she should be, as a mask that makes Wookiee sounds is the most delightful invention in the history of mankind (sorry, water slides!)

Way #3. She isn't afraid to laugh as long and as loud as humanly possible.

GIF via Candace Payne/Facebook.

You ever have one of those moments where something so funny happens that you feel like you're never going to stop laughing? That's her.

Thankfully, she's got the appropriate amount of shame about it, which is none.

It can be easy to get down about the state of the world.

War. Poverty. Famine. Plane crashes. Terrorism. Climate change. Racism. Sexism. Homophobia. The Minnesota Twins this season.

The bad things can feel overwhelming sometimes.

But hey, if it ain't happening right now to you, that's a victory.

That's why when the good stuff happens — like randomly finding the world's best Chewbacca mask — you gotta embrace it.

GIF Candace Payne/Facebook.

Happy weekend!