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"You just made my day the happiest ever."

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Man hears stepdaughter call him "Dad" for the first time.

Being a parent is often a thankless job, and being a stepparent is usually even more thankless. But most parents show up and do their best to make sure their kids have what they need and feel loved. So when our kids do or say something to show appreciation, it melts our hearts—but nothing melts it faster than a stepchild calling their bonus parent "Mom" or "Dad" for the first time.

A creator named Shane posted a clip from a video showing his reaction to hearing his stepdaughter call him "Dad" for the first time. The full video was first posted in 2021, but when it was reposted as a clip recently, it pulled on everyone's heartstrings.

Shane and his wife, Liana, run the social media page Shane and Liana where they post silly videos pranking each other. But this video wasn't a prank. His stepdaughter, London, wanted to surprise him after wanting to call him "Dad" for a long time.

She can barely contain her excitement in the clip, squealing loudly when climbing into the back seat. When Shane gets in the car, London knows this is her chance.

"Hi Dad, how was your day?" she asks.

Shane turns completely around in shock as the heartwarming realization of what she just called him sets in. "Did you just call me Dad? Just made my heart melt to know she called me Dad," Shane says full of emotion.

London and Liana explain earlier in the video that Shane has raised the little girl since she was 2 years old. She didn't meet her biological father until she was 5, and he was only in her life briefly before leaving, so this was a big moment. Viewers under the newly re-uploaded clip revealed that watching the interaction made them just as emotional as Shane.

"Idk how the mom ain't crying!?! I'm crying," Mari Morales writes.

"This video hits me right in the heart and soul," Sarah Douglas writes. "My 'step' dad raised me from 7 years old. I’ve never met the sperm donor once, but my REAL dad is the one that chose to love me regardless of biology. Forever grateful for the real men that 'step' up to be there for us."

"So true the first time my oldest daughter called me dad I cried she’s not blood but she is mine no matter what," Timothy Evans says.

This article originally appeared on two years ago.

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The Bee Gees singing "How Deep is Your Love" in 1998.

Not all live performances are created equal, but when the circumstances and the talent are just right, they can far surpass studio recordings. In 1998, the Bee Gees, brothers Barry, Robin and Maurice Gibb, stopped by ITV’s “Des O'Connor Tonight” with acoustic guitars in hand to promote their recent release, “One Night Only,” an album and live concert DVD featuring many of the band’s biggest hits.

The highlight of the performance was when Barry got ready to strum his guitar for a performance of “How Deep Is Your Love,” the 1977 megahit from the “Saturday Night Fever Soundtrack,” but instead chose to sing the song a cappella.


Barry starts the song solo in his beautiful falsetto, but then, when his brothers join him, they create a wonderful harmony that only brothers can make. The show’s host, Des O’Connor, a notable singer himself, even joins in for a few bars.

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Earlier in the performance, the brothers played their version of “Islands in the Stream,” a song made famous by Dolly Parton and Kenny Rogers in 1983 that was written by the Bee Gees. In 1998, the song was enjoying a resurgence as its melody was used in the song “Ghetto Supastar” by Pras of The Fugees.

Robin Gibb later admitted that the song was initially written for Marvin Gaye to sing, but he was tragically murdered in 1984 by his father. The band also had Diana Ross in mind while composing the tune.

During the appearance, the band also sang “Guilty,” a song that the Bee Gees wrote for Barbara Streisand and Barry produced in 1980.

You can watch the entire performance here:

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The Gibb brothers started making music together when they were children, and after their first public appearance together at a local movie theater in 1956, they were hooked on performing.

“It was the feeling of standing in front of an audience that was so amazing," said Barry. "We’d never seen anything like it. We were very young, but it made an enormous impression. We didn’t want to do anything else but make music.”

After the family moved to Australia in 1958, Barry, Maurice, and Robin were "discovered" at the Redcliffe Speedway, where they had asked to perform between races. Even over the tinny PA system, their harmonies made an impression. Speedway manager Bill Goode introduced the trio to DJ Bill Gates, who set them up with a recording session.

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If you've ever wondered how the Bee Gees got their name, that was it: Bill Goode, Bill Gates, Barry Gibb, and the brothers' mother Barbara Gibb all had the initials B.G. After a strong reception on the airwaves in Brisbane, Gates forwarded the brothers' recordings to a Sydney radio station. They got a lot of airtime there as well, and the band had a run of success performing in Australia, but it wasn't until their return to England in 1967 that they became the international sensation we all know today.

Manager Robert Stigwood had received tapes from the Gibbs brothers and called them up within weeks of their arrival in the U.K.

“I loved their composing,” Stigwood told Rolling Stone in 1977. “I also loved their harmony singing. It was unique, the sound they made; I suppose it was a sound only brothers could make.”

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And, as they say, the rest is history. The award-winning 2020 HBO documentary, "The Bee Gees: How Can You Mend a Broken Heart" tells the story of the band with loads of footage from throughout their 40-year career, which includes not only their disco-era fame, but the various phases of their musical journey and the countless songs they wrote for other artists.

As one commenter wrote, "People that call the Bee Gees a 'disco group' don't have a clue. They had 10 albums out before they ventured into 'disco.' Their song catalogue is amazing and some of their very best songs were written long before Saturday Night Fever. Those 'disco' songs are classics as well. It is nice to see they are finally getting the recognition they deserve."

This article originally appeared last year. It has been updated.

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At some point, a wave goodbye is the last one.

For most people, losing a parent is one of the most heartbreaking events in a person's life. Whether you have a complicated relationship or a super solid one, saying goodbye to those who gave you life and molded you into who you are is a big deal.

After a parent's passing, it's common to look for photos of them, to remember them in various stages of their life, but photographer Deanna Dikeman–who goes by @deannadikeman on Instagram–took that idea several steps further than most. Over more than two decades, she documented her parents in a series of photographs of them waving goodbye to her in their driveway every time she left after a visit.


The photographer's project started in 1991 and continued until October 2017. Dikeman shared a post on her Instagram account featuring the series of photographs, which went on display at Réseau L U X (@reseau_lux) on 7 November 2024 in Paris under the title "Leaving and Waving."

"I started in 1991 with a quick snapshot, and I continued taking photographs with each departure," Dikeman wrote on her website. "I never set out to make this series. I just took these photographs as a way to deal with the sadness of leaving. It gradually turned into our goodbye ritual and became a story about family, aging, and the sorrow of saying goodbye."

"In 2009, there is a photograph, where my father is no longer there. He passed away a few days after his ninety-first birthday," Dikeman elaborated, per The Polygon. "My mother continued to wave goodbye to me. Her face became more forlorn with my departure. In 2017, my mother had to move to assisted living. For a few months, I photographed the goodbyes from her apartment door. In October of 2017, she passed away. When I left after her funeral, I took one more photograph of the empty driveway. For the first time in my life, no one was waving back at me."

All the photographs were compiled and reposted in order by @the.pinklemonade on Instagram. Dikeman was also invited for an interview at the Tamron Hall Show, where she shared more details about her poignant series of pictures and a message she wanted to pass on to people who have seen her photographs.

"Well, for me, I was able to go back and look at the photographs and see the love in my parents' eyes," she told Hall over a Zoom interview. "Just one look at those pictures and I saw my dad's gaze and mom's kind of crumpled face sometimes and I knew how they felt. I knew what I meant to them and I am hoping that I can show the world what they meant to me."

Meanwhile, the comment section of the post on Dikeman's page was full of people pouring out their emotions. @r.ckto wrote, "Incredible! The time is gone, and the love is forever, but those who stay on this side of life carry the suffering." @nurse.nagila shared, "This brought tears to my eyes because, as a parent, my husband and I always stand outside our home and wave goodbye to our kids and grandkids. My parents now live with us and they are in their 70s and I know that I should cherish every moment we have left." @mcchitman added, "This is amazing. I wish I could go back and do this with my mother. She blew me a kiss from the garage door every day that I left the house for 33 years. The first time leaving with no kiss goodbye was incredibly difficult."

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You can follow Deanna Dikeman (@deannadikeman) on Instagram for more photography content.

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Recipes from the Great Depression to make today.

The Great Depression, which lasted from 1929-1939, caused economic turmoil worldwide. Families struggled to feed themselves, and went to extreme lengths to stretch food and utilize all available ingredients.

Known as the Greatest Generation (those born between 1901 and 1927), their resourcefulness resulted in a number of creative (and delicious) recipes that remain relevant today. Home chefs and bakers shared their Great Depression recipes on Reddit that have been passed down and are still enjoyed today to help others get inventive and save money.


From soups and stews to cakes, these are 17 Great Depression recipes to try.

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Soups, Stews and More

Beef and Noodles

"My grandmas go to: Bag of egg noodles 1 can of creamed corn 1 can Campbells chicken noodle soup 1 lb ground beef. Salt and pepper to taste. Brown ground beef, add all other ingredients, add enough water or light chicken stock to cover noodles if needed. Bring to boil, and reduce to a simmer for about 15 minutes, take off the heat and let it rest 10 minutes before serving with buttered white bread. I still make this to this day. My kids loved it too. Basically homemade Hamburger Helper." - -__Doc__-

Hoover Stew

Ingredients

1 box noodles
A can of tomatoes
1 package of hot dogs, or 1 can of sausage or meat
A can of corn, peas or beans
2-4 cups water

Instructions

"Mix all ingredients together in a pot until boiling. Then simmer for 15-20 minutes until the noodles are tender. If you have aromatics, onion and garlic would be a great addition. If not, the recipe is great as is." - Josuaross54

Zaprezna soup

"Depression soup... make a roux, add salt pepper and caraway seeds. Add water to make a thick soup texture. Use an egg or two mixed with flour and salt pepper and mix together to make dumplings.. drop into the soup to cook.. This was called zaprezna soup or depression soup. We ate it often in the 60's after my dad abandoned us. Money was short but this soup was good." - User Unknown

Chipped Beef On Toast

Ingredients

8 oz. dried beef jerky
2 tbsp butter or oil
4 tbsp flour
4 cups milk
Salt and pepper to taste
Sliced homemade bread, for serving

Instructions

"Add jerky and oil to a pan over medium heat. Cook until the meat softens, about 3-4 minutes. Stir in your flour and cook for 1-2 minutes. Add milk and bring to a low boil. Allow sauce to thicken for up to 5 minutes. Season with salt and pepper if you have it. Serve over homemade bread, toasted if desired." - Josuaross54

Rivel Soup

"In Ohio…My mom would cook Rivel Soup when I was a kid in 80s and 90s. She still makes it. It’s milk based with flour dough balls in it. I hate it. Sometimes they would fry potatoes and put them in the soup." - Vegetable_Record_855

Potato Soup

Ingredients

4 large potatoes, peeled and sliced (or 2 cans of potatoes)
2 garlic cloves, chopped
One carrot, sliced
A can of meat, sausage, or hot dogs (optional)
3 cups water or stock
3 cups milk
Any herbs you have on-hand
Salt to taste

Instructions

"Slice all your potatoes, garlic, and carrots. Add to a soup pot with the meat, water, and milk. Bring to a boil and reduce the heat, keeping the mix at a low simmer. Then, cook for 30 minutes until all veggies are tender. Add herbs and salt, if using. Serve hot." - Josuaross54

Tuna Fish Stew

"My mother's family always made tuna fish stew. It is celery, potatoes, canned tuna fish, milk, and hard boiled eggs. Sautee the celery until half way cooked, throw in some chopped potatoes and water. Cook until the potatoes are done. Thin the stew with some milk. Throw in chopped hard boil eggs. Salt and pepper to taste Serve over stale bread. It was cheap, quick, and really filling." - RoseNoire4

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Sides

Baked Beans

Ingredients

1 package soaked dried beans, or 2 cans of beans
One tomato, chopped
1 onion, chopped
2 cloves garlic, chopped
2 tbsp lard
Two tbsp molasses
One cup water

Instructions
"Soak your beans, if using dried, overnight and drain the liquid. Prepare your veggies by chopping. Omit any vegetable that you do not have on-hand. Add lard to a stock pot and cook your vegetables until tender. Add the beans, molasses, and water. Cook all together with a lid on for 2-3 hours or until the beans have your desired consistency. Add more water if needed.

Milk Potatoes

"Milk potatoes. Fry sliced potatoes with salt, pepper and a bit of onion until almost done. Pour milk over potatoes and simmer until potatoes are cooked through." - kms811•6y ago

Ash Cakes

"Ash cakes got their name because different renditions are cooked in the hot white ash of your campfire. These are only 3 ingredients but are filling and have a great texture.

Ingredients

½ cup cornmeal
1 cup meat stock or water
2 tbsp lard or grease

Instructions
Mix both ingredients together in a bowl and allow to sit overnight to hydrate the cornmeal. Pat into a bread pan and refrigerate or add to your cool storage before allowing to set up. The next day, slice into 1-inch slices and fry in melted lard. Serve hot and crispy." - Josuaross54

Sweets

Potato Donuts

"Potato donuts 🍩 from depression era cooking with Dylan Hollis." - BainbridgeBorn

Wacky Cake

"If you have interest in baking, make a wacky cake. It’s a chocolate cake that has no milk, butter, or eggs, because those items were scarce during the Depression, but it is so good! The recipe I linked has more steps, but I’ve known a lot of people to literally just dump and mix everything in the baking dish." - gwhite81218

@bdylanhollis

The cake without butter, eggs or milk #baking #vintage #cooking #cake

Rice Pudding

Ingredients

1 cup rice
2 cups milk
2 tbsp butter
3 tbsp honey, maple syrup, or molasses
Pinch of cinnamon

"Combine all ingredients in a small saucepan and cook over low heat, about 20 minutes, stirring frequently. Taste for doneness and cook an additional 5 minutes, tasting until desired consistency. Serve warm." - Josuaross54

Tomato Soup Cake

"Tomato soup cake." - AxelCanin

Water Pie

"Water pie 😋😍." - AxelCanin

Mock Apple Pie

"There was a thing for 'apple' pie made with Ritz crackers my grandmother made some time ago (she was born 1901 so def Depression life).https://www.allrecipes.com/recipe/9545/mock-apple-pie/ That recipe looks more complicated than the one grandma made, but there are a number of recipes online for it, including one made by Ritz, on the box." - User Unknown

Hard Time Pudding

"Batter: 1 cup flour
1/2 cup white sugar
1/2 cup raisins (Optional, I hate them)
3 tsp Baking powder
1/2 cup water
Syrup: 1 1/2 cup Brown sugar
1 TBSP. butter/marg.
1 tsp vanilla
1 1/2 - 2 cup water

Mix together flour, sugar, raisins, Baking powder, and water. Pour into a baking dish. In a sauce pan combine brown sugar, butter, water bring to boil then add vanilla and pour over the batter. Bake at 300 º for 1/2 hour." - MsBean18

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Martin Sheen, right, reveals the reason he regrets changing his name.

It's not uncommon for entertainers to change their names. It can be something easily identifiable in some situations, like 50 Cent; most people would reason that his parents didn't name him after a denomination of money. But for some, it's harder to pick out, like Miley Cyrus. While her name is now legally Miley, her birth name was Destiny.

The reason entertainers change their names varies; for some, it's because it sounds cooler, or it's their nickname, but for others, it's simply because there is already someone else in the acting guild who already uses the name.


When it comes to Martin Sheen, his name was chosen for none of the above reasons, and in a recent interview, he reveals that he regrets making the change. Sheen, who's the father of two famous sons, Charlie Sheen and Emilio Estevez, wasn't born Martin. In fact, his first name isn't even remotely close to Martin. As a child born to a father from Spain, the elder Sheen was originally named Ramón Gerard Antonio Estévez.

It was his move to New York City to become an actor that had him questioning how far he would get with the name his parents gave him. In a clip from the Happy, Sad, Confused podcast hosted by Josh Horowitz, Sheen explains why he felt the need to change his name.

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"Officially, I've never changed my name," he said. "I'm still Ramón Gerard Antonio Estévez, and I love my name. I just arrived at a time, in a place where it was hard enough to get a job as an actor when I started in 1959 in New York City. To have a surname, a Hispanic surname at that time was not an advantage because, unfortunately, there was great prejudice in the city against Puerto Ricans and the Puerto Rican community."

Sheen laughs before finishing his thought, "Of course, they were American citizens by birth, they still are, but they were the 'newest immigrants' so called at the time, and they were taking the blame for all the problems in the city at that time."

He explains that though he identified with the Hispanic community, he had to step outside of his name to be more anonymous in nationality. Sheen knew that it was only his name that would identify him as Hispanic since he did not present with the more stereotypical Hispanic features many Americans associate with the ethnicity.

He further recognizes that changing his name disappointed his father. Though he never made the name change legal, the elder Sheen expresses deep regret for doing it at all. It was this deep regret that pushed him to encourage his son, Emilio, not to follow in his footsteps by assuming a more American-sounding name.

"I regret it deeply," Sheen says. "I remember when my children were starting to come into the profession and they were deciding whether or not to use the Estévez or to change it, and Emilio was on the verge of changing the last name, and just using Emilio Sheen, and then he saw it in print, and this just doesn't fit. And frankly, I begged him to keep it. I said you know, it's one of my biggest regrets that I didn't keep my name. I said, you know, we're going into a new millennium and Hispanic people in our country...particularly in the state of California, are going to be almost in the majority. So, I said that I think that the reverse is happening for you, that I had to deal with."

Sheen thought that the Hispanic population was ingrained into the community enough that his child wouldn't need to succumb to the pressure to alter the outward display of his ethnicity.

In an interview on Talk Stoop with Nessa, Emilio chats with the host about his father's name change regrets and why he didn't change his name as well.

"A lot of people, a lot of his agents were saying if you want to work in this business you've gotta have a more anglo sounding name and of course times have changed," Emilio shares before later adding his reason for keeping the original last name. "So when I began to get into this business, we had that conversation and he said don't make the same mistake I did. But I pushed back and was like 'well, you know, I don't really look Latino anyway.' He said the face of Latin America is changing, we come in all sizes and shapes, and I realize this now on a much deeper level but it was honoring the Hispanic heritage and I own that, and the Hispanic community has embraced me because of that."

Emilio continues, "And I can't tell you how many people on the street stop me on the street and say just seeing your name on a poster, just seeing your name on the screen meant so much to me, you have no idea, so that was ultimately a very important step."

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Charlie Sheen was born Carlos Estévez but adopted the nickname Charlie at age four due to his uncle also being named Carlos. When he got into acting, he decided to go with Sheen, explaining in his memoir, The Book of Sheen that he wanted to honor his father.

"Using Sheen allowed me to slam the door on the recent academic and athletic failures I felt I was connected to with Estevez,” Sheen explained. “I wasn’t ashamed of the name, but if this was gonna be a fresh start across new horizons, I wanted to sound different when spoken of."

Charlie temporarily went back to his birth name for the 2013 film Machete Kills to honor his Hispanic heritage.

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Mom who went through miscarriage shares advice on how people can comfort women dealing with pregnancy loss.

The pain of miscarriage and pregnancy loss is a reality for many women. According to the Cleveland Clinic, 10-20% of pregnancies result in miscarriage. One mom who has walked through pregnancy loss is helping others.

Annie (@seasonsofanniebakery), a mom and baker in College Station, Texas, has opened up on her grief journey following four miscarriages. These experiences led her to create resources for other women struggling with grief following pregnancy loss. She created a video series for family and friends of women going through pregnancy loss (that can also be applied to general grief) on helpful things they can both say and do to help.


She explains her first tip, which is: "Lots of people got really weird around me after my babies died," before adding: "Don't ask how they are for at least a month. They are not good."

Then she offered an additional list of 24 more helpful phrases and actions to say or do instead. These include:

  • I'm so sorry.
  • I love you.
  • I'm thinking about you.
  • Ask if they want to talk.
  • Listen to what they respond.
  • Ask what their favorite memory of the person who died is.
  • If it was a baby who died, ask about their favorite memory of their pregnancy. Annie added in the comments, "Seriously - I get asked to share about my living daughter’s birth story often, but never the others, & I have cool stories I like to remember!"
  • I'm dropping off your favorite drink and snack.
  • Drop off a care box.
  • Say you're about to order takeout from their favorite restaurant and ask what they want.
  • If you're religious tell them you're praying for them, but don't be condescending about it.
  • Don't expect to be invited in. But be available if they want you to come in.
  • If you do get invited in, let them take the lead.
  • Hug them if they like hugs.
  • Sit with them.
  • Talk to them like you always do. Don't get a weird tone.
  • The sympathy face is the worst. Obviously they're sad, and you're sad for them. But don't gaze at them in pity. Try to have a normal face.
  • Remember they are not stronger than you are. If you were forced into this reality, you would figure it out.
  • Suggest a few shows or movies you could watch together.
  • Bring over your favorite lighthearted books to distract them if they like to read.
  • Write a letter if you really can’t help yourself and need to make it about you. That way they have the option to read it or not and if they hate what you wrote, they can rip it in a billion pieces.
  • Absolutely do not tell them that God needed another angel under any circumstances. Just don't.
  • Share a memory of the person who died if you knew them.
  • Tell them you'll keep checking in on them and do it. Even if you don't always hear back. You'll need to hold up the friendship for a bit. Don't expect your friend to be a great friend while they're falling apart.
The post garnered emotional responses in the comments from many viewers.

One shared, "Such helpful tips with so many life situations. Thank you and I’m so sorry. I was told with my one and only pregnancy/ miscarriage was: 'You were barely even pregnant.' It was so hurtful. I prayed for my pregnancy, I wanted that baby. I had a special drawing made on my wall that reads; Anything worth having, is worth waiting for. I have to constantly remind myself of this. ❤️ 🫶🏼 ❤️🙌"

Another wrote, "Oh this made me cry 😭❤️ Thank you for posting this," while another shared, "You nailed it with all these tips.❤️"