It’s hard when people think they know you because they saw someone who "looked just like you" on TV. Then, you’ve got to go through the trouble of re-introducing yourself, so they can unlearn what they’ve seen. Just because that black lady turned over a table and threw a glass of champagne in her friend’s face doesn’t mean I will. I mean, really, can’t we all just get along?This video tries to explain that. At 2:58, she sheds light on a little term that’s hurting lots of women.