"Your butt looks like it belongs south of the border.""You're such an exotic person!"These are real things that people have said to me after discovering I am a Colombian-born Latina. But this phenomenon goes on in way, way, way more ethnic groups than just Latinas, as some women — and men! — will tell you.If you know anyone who has used the lines "What a spicy Latina," "Ni hao!" or "You're so pretty for a black girl" on you (or on your friends), here's a little something you can send them.