Adults want vaccines to be administered the way these awesome doctors give shots to kids

Unless you’re an actual masochist, nobody likes being poked with needles. But some of us hate it a whole lot more than others. If you’re of the “Eh, no big deal—just get the quick shot and be done with it” mindset, you’re in good company. But if you’re in the “I can’t handle the idea…

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Unless you’re an actual masochist, nobody likes being poked with needles. But some of us hate it a whole lot more than others. If you’re of the “Eh, no big deal—just get the quick shot and be done with it” mindset, you’re in good company. But if you’re in the “I can’t handle the idea of a needle coming anywhere near my flesh” camp, you’re also in good company.

The fear of needles is called trypanophobia, and it’s very common. In fact, according Advent Health in Tampa, Florida, a 2012 study of 800 parents and 1,000 children found that 24 percent of the parents and 63 percent of the kids had a fear of needles. And between 7 and 8 percent of those people described needle phobia as the top reason for avoiding getting vaccinations.

Some pediatricians have developed methods for giving little kids vaccines in a way that results in the least amount of trauma. Our kids’ doctor has a flower-shaped plastic device with little bristles on it that they push onto the kid’s skin, distributing the sensation as the needle goes in, for example. But some docs takes it to a whole other level.

Like this one:

Tapping the baby with the covered needle like a game makes the needle itself seem not scary. Then, distracting them with the quick poke and then something super fun right after—the bubbles—appears to be a winning strategy.

Here’s a different baby with the same doc, same routine, and same result. You can definitely tell the babe has a “Whoa, wait a minute, what just happened?!” moment, but it’s short-lived.

Another doc takes a similar approach with a toddler. This time, as the kiddo is a little older and more aware, the “Whoa, wait a minute” reaction comes with some verbal complaint. But the doctor knows just how to handle it, and it’s incredible to see the immediate turnaround from a simple, silly tissue toss.

Adults certainly don’t want doctors to start throwing tissues in their faces after getting a vaccination shot, but there’s something to be said for trying to make the process less frightening. By the time people are adults, the pain itself isn’t so much the issue as the idea of the needle. The silly play with the needle before the injection is one example of how doctors help kids not see the needle itself as scary, and though adults might need a different approach than children, purposeful exposure is actually one of the key strategies to overcoming phobias.

Considering the fact that we’re going to need a good percentage of Americans to get the coronavirus vaccine in order to return to non-distanced, non-masked normalcy, doing everything we can to help people overcome their fears of either the vaccine itself or the needles used to give them is important.

Also, considering this dumpster fire of a year, we could all use a little extra TLC. Maybe we can all take our burned out doctors a gift card or something when we ask them to sing a song while they give us our shots. Whatever it takes to get us through this home stretch of the pandemic with as little ongoing trauma as possible.

  • Man skillfully raps Dr. Seuss rhymes over Dr. Dre beats in a must-see mashup
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    It’s entirely possible that someone has rapped Dr. Seuss stories before, but I’ve never seen it. Now that I have seen it, the rhyming children’s classics I’ve read over and over to my kids are never going to be the same—and not in a bad way.

    Filmmaker Wes Tank has taken some of Dr. Seuss’s most popular stories and rapped them over Dr. Dre beats in a mashup so perfect it’s a wonder it hadn’t been done a million times before. Check out his rap of the tongue-twisting Fox in Sox. If you’ve ever tried to read this book out loud, you know how challenging it is not to flub, especially the second half. To rap it like Tanks does is an incredibly impressive—and enjoyable—feat.

    The comments on the videos are almost as entertaining as the videos themselves. Here’s what people are saying about the Fox in Sox rap:

    “All of a sudden the coronavirus isn’t the illest thing out there.”

    “Am now convinced Dr.Seuss was some rapper’s ghost writer.”

    “I’ve listened to this maybe 7 times so far. Still not sick of it.”

    “Yo, the tweedle beetle battle bit was fire.”

    Tank also rapped the cautionary environmental tale, The Lorax.

    And people loved it.

    “I’m devastated to think that there are only a finite number of Dre beats & Seuss books. Please don’t ever stop.”

    “I didn’t think rapping dr Seuss books was something I needed in my life but now I know better.”

    “This is way better than the movie was.”

    “Omg I just told my seven-year-old there was a new Doctor Seuss rap video, and now he’s jumping up and down screaming with excitement, and begging to go to bed… Thanks?!”

    How about a little One Fish Two Fish Red Fish Blue Fish?

    And the comments keep on coming:

    “This guy just filled a niche I didn’t even know existed.”

    “Dr. Seuss’ books weren’t part of my childhood. Rap isn’t really my thing. Why do I find these videos so awesome? Because they are amazing!”

    “You are frighteningly good at this.”

    3:05 is the literal definition of how to hit a beat with ferocity.”

    So far, it looks like Tanks has six Dr. Seuss/Dr. Dre videos on his YouTube channel, which you can check out here.

    Well done, Wes Tanks. (Personal request—do The Sneetches next, please and thank you.)


    This article originally appeared five years ago.

  • Watching Scottish people try to say ‘purple burglar alarm’ is a wee bit hilarious
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    Of the various ways to speak the English language, the Scottish dialects are some of the most fascinating to listen to. I’m apparently not alone in this thinking, as TikTok has exploded with Scottish people simply sharing Scottish things with their Scottish brogue and collecting fans hand over fist.

    As an American, I don’t always understand what these TikTokers are saying, which is probably why some of them specialize in translating Scottish slang terms into non-Scottish English. But even when there’s no issue understanding, there’s something part-funny, part-sexy about the Scottish accent that gets me every time. If I could pay James McAvoy to read me a bedtime story every night, I would.

    In fact, McAvoy shared a bit about his accent in this clip with Stephen Colbert, which was the first time I’d seen a Scot explain that the word “burglary” trips them up.

    Apparently, it’s not just him. There’s a well-known phrase, “purple burglar alarm,” that is notoriously difficult for some Scots to say without tripping over their tongue. And watching some of them try is delightfully entertaining.

    It’s literally a tongue twister.

    It’s even funny without the “purple.”

    “Aw, bullocks.”


    This poor guy can’t even get past “purple.” (Language warning, if you’ve got the wee ones around.)

    The only thing better than a Scot being unable to say “purple burglar alarm” is a Scot who is able to say it because somehow it still sounds like they’re drowning.


    Nothing but love for you, Scots! Thanks for the giggles, and please don’t ever stop talking.


    This article originally appeared four years ago.

  • 98-year-old Auschwitz survivor is using TikTok to share her story with young people
    Lily Ebert was sent to Auschwitz-Birkenau when she was 20 and now shares her story on TikTok.Photo credit: Lily Ebert/TikTok
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    98-year-old Auschwitz survivor is using TikTok to share her story with young people

    We have reached a critical point in history when the opportunity to hear live, first-hand accounts of the Holocaust are quickly dwindling. Those who survived it—and remember it—are now in their 80s, 90s and 100s, and every year their number grows smaller and smaller. We’re also at a point where the reality of the Holocaust…

    We have reached a critical point in history when the opportunity to hear live, first-hand accounts of the Holocaust are quickly dwindling. Those who survived it—and remember it—are now in their 80s, 90s and 100s, and every year their number grows smaller and smaller. We’re also at a point where the reality of the Holocaust has been questioned or outright denied, and, as we near a century since the start of the tragedy, much of the values, ideals, and justice the world fought for are quickly being lost.

    If you have the opportunity to sit down and talk to a Holocaust survivor, I highly recommend it. Many won’t have that opportunity, however, so the next best thing is bearing witness to these stories as they are shared on video. Not to discount the power of written accounts—those are vital, too—but there’s something to the human-to-human connection of hearing a person who lived through it speak about their experiences.

    Some Holocaust survivors have traveled to give talks to students in schools. But at least one woman who survived the Auschwitz-Birkenau death camp is using a more modern means of reaching young people with her story: TikTok.

    With the help of her great-grandson (one of her 34 great-grandchildren), 98-year-old Lily Ebert shares brief videos on her TikTok channel describing some of what she experienced during the Holocaust and answers questions viewers ask. She currently has 1.7 million followers.

    Ebert was 20 years old when her family was taken from their hometown in Hungary to Auschwitz-Birkenau, the largest of the Nazi death camps. Her mother, younger brother and younger sister were immediately taken to the gas chambers and killed. Ebert was sent to work in the camp where she spent four horrifying months.

    “People would say ‘four months isn’t so long,’” she said in one of her videos. “But let me tell you something. Even four minutes was too long.”

    Ebert bears the tattoo of the number she was given—A-10572—on her forearm. “We were not humans,” she said. “We were only a number.”

    Ebert’s story is shared in small pieces on TikTok, which can feel somewhat jarring. But TikTok is where the young folks are and reaching them with personal stories like this might be one of the most effective ways of reaching them.

    People ask Ebert lots of questions and she answers some of them in videos. For instance, someone asked if she was scared she was going to die. Her thoughtful pause is as telling as her answer.

    “In Auschwitz you were not afraid of death,” she said. “You were afraid to live.”

    Some people ask questions that we don’t see answered often—details that people might be curious about. In one video, Ebert talked about what it was like to use the bathroom. Toilets were rows of holes in the ground and they were told when they could use them—there was no privacy whatsoever.

    She even answered a question about what women did about their periods, explaining that most women didn’t have their periods because the physical trauma they endured prevented it.

    Someone else asked if there were Nazi women at Auschwitz. Ebert said there were—and that sometimes they were worse than the men.

    Another person asked if she encountered any Nazi guards who indicated that they didn’t want to be torturing and killing people. Her answer was blunt: A person who was kind would not work in Auschwitz.

    Some people might wonder how going through such a heinous experience impacts a person’s faith. Her great-grandson asked her if she still believes in God after everything she endured.

    “Yes, I do,” she said. “Because God didn’t do it. So-called humans did.”

    Ebert has been back to Auschwitz a few times since she was liberated. It’s hard enough for anyone to see the enormous piles of shoes from people who were murdered there. It’s harder to imagine what it would be like having seen and smelled the smoke coming from the crematorium there, knowing your loved ones were among those killed.

    Ebert’s “Ask me anything” posts have become a way for young people to interact with that harrowing chapter of human history in a rarely accessible way. She can choose which questions to answer and give some personal insight into what the Holocaust was like.

    “What was the first thing you did after liberation?” someone asked.

    Ebert said she lay down on the floor and fell asleep. Sleep was practically impossible at the camp and she was so tired. Another person asked why she thinks she survived the hell of Auschwitz-Birkenau.

    She said she didn’t know. “But maybe it was so that I could tell you and thousands of other people what happened there. To be a witness.”

    “I was really not sure that I would stay alive,” Ebert told CBS News in 2022. “It is a miracle that I am here. But I promised myself, however long I will be alive, and whatever I will do in life, one thing is sure, I will tell my story.”

    Ebert was also interviewed on Good Morning Britain in 2022, and was asked if she’s ever thought about having the tattoo of her number removed. She said she had never thought about it.

    “I want to show the world because to see something or to hear about it makes a big difference. And the world should know how deep they cut, how deep humans can go.”

    In 2023, Ebert celebrated her 100th birthday with her children, grandchildren, great-grandchildren, and of course, all her Internet friends and followers.

    Lily Ebert: 100 Years Young ?? Such a special day! ??❤️ #holocaustsurvivor #100 #greatgrandson #greatgrandma #goodmorningbritain #gmb #itv #richardmadley #ranvirsingh

    And it was truly beautiful.

    Happy birthday Lily ❤️? 100 years old!!! #happybirthday #holocaustsurvivor #100yearold

    In late 2024, Lily’s great-grandson shared a video on her TikTok alerting the world that the family matriarch had passed away on October 9th, just weeks before what would have been her 101st birthday. Though profoundly sad, many in the comments thanked the family for their honesty, vulnerability, and the joy they spread in the shadow of such dark history.


    Lily Ebert, 1923-2024 ? A light that shone so bright has gone dark.

    @lilyebert

    Lily Ebert, 1923-2024 💔 A light that shone so bright has gone dark.

    ♬ original sound – Lily Ebert & Dov Forman

    “She was a beautiful person. Thank you for sharing her with us,” one commenter said.

    “It has been nothing short of an honour to be a follower of this beautiful woman and her remarkable story. Thank you for your profound strength Lily. May her memory be a blessing?,” said another.

    Thank you, Lily Ebert, for being willing to answer questions to help educate younger generations on the realities of the Holocaust so we can strive to make sure humanity never allows such atrocities to happen again. Her memory most definitely is a blessing.


    This article originally appeared three years ago.

  • Shaquille O’Neal quietly paid for a random guy’s engagement ring while standing in line
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    An unsuspecting guy at a shopping mall Zales got the surprise of his life back in 2021 while trying to pay off part of his engagement ring.

    As the young man talked with the clerk at the jewelry store counter about how much he still owed for his ring and when he’d be able to pay it off, an extraordinarily large hand handed the clerk a credit card. Shaquille O’Neal, the 7′ 1” basketball legend known colloquially as “Shaq,” overheard their conversation and decided to take care of the bill himself. No big announcement. No fanfare. He just handed over his credit card, shook the stunned customer’s hand and patted him on the back, and that was that.

    Someone caught the moment on video and shared it, which prompted Shaq’s co-hosts on NBA on TNT to ask him about it the next day.

    One of the first questions was, “You went to the mall, and went to Zales?!?” Not exactly where one would expect a person with a $400 million net worth to be hanging out on a Monday, but Shaq pointed out that he has a jewelry line at Zales. He went in to get some hoop earrings. Alrighty.

    The young man at the checkout counter was so shy, Shaq said, and when he heard him talking about paying for his engagement ring, Shaq asked him how much it was and offered to pay for it.

    At first, the guy refused, but Shaq insisted. And apparently, he does these random acts of generosity all the time.

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    He said he was recently in a furniture store (seriously, do multi-millionaires not shop online?) and saw a mom with an autistic daughter buying furniture. He just took care of their bill, just because.

    “I’m into making people happy,” he said. “I didn’t mean for that to get out because I don’t do it for that…I’m just trying to make people smile, that’s all.”

    Shaq’s generosity is well-documented, despite his preference to keep much of it under wraps. In a 2015 interview with Graham Bessinger, he explained how his father’s charity—despite their family not having a lot of money—influenced him.

    After giving the family’s bag of hamburgers to a homeless veteran, his father got into the family car and told him, “If you ever make it big time, make sure you help those in need.”

    Shaq remembered those words and engages in charity in a range of ways, “because of what a man who made $30,000 a year taught me,” he said. “And a woman who was a secretary who probably made $20,000 a year—they taught me that.”

    His giving comes “from the heart,” he said. He’s not looking for attention or accolades—he just wants to make people happy.

    “I’m doing this because this is what I was taught,” he said. “I’m doing it because to walk in there and see a family, put a smile on their face for a day, that’s just awesome to me.”

    “That’s my thing. I just want to make you smile,” he said.

    Shaq once asked a restaurant server how much of a tip she wanted, and when she quipped “$4,000,” he gave it to her. When a 12-year-old was paralyzed by a stray bullet in a shooting, Shaq donated a whole house to his family. A fan who saw Shaq in a Best Buy offered condolences to the star for the untimely death of Shaq’s friend and former teammate Kobe Bryant, as well as Shaq’s sister Ayesha, who had recently passed away from cancer. He was treated to a new laptop—the best one in the store.

    Many of us like to daydream about what we’d do if we had more money than we know what to do with. And many of us like to picture ourselves being generous with our wealth, helping out random folks who could use some help.

    Charitable giving looks like a lot of different things, from funding organizations to distributing money through a foundation to handing over a bag of burgers to someone who’s hungry. It’s just delightful to see wealthy people who not only support official charitable organizations with money and time (Shaq serves as a national spokesperson for the Boys & Girls Clubs of America and is a member of the national Board of Directors for Communities in Schools in addition to raising and donating millions of dollars to various causes) but who also just help out random people everywhere they go.

    Kudos to Shaq’s parents for teaching him so well, and kudos to him for taking their lessons to heart.


    This article originally appeared four years ago.

  • High school teacher describes her day in viral video with a plea to give educators grace
    Katie Peters shared a day in the life of pandemic teaching and pleaded for teachers to be given grace. Photo credit: @kpintoledo/TikTok
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    High school teacher describes her day in viral video with a plea to give educators grace

    “Loving kids is the purest form of beauty that exists—and it’s always going to beat your ugly.”

    Teachers are heroes under normal circumstances. During a pandemic that has upended life as we know it, they are honest-to-goodness, bona fide superheroes.

    The juggling of school and COVID-19 has been incredibly challenging, creating friction between officials, administrators, teachers, unions, parents, and the public at large. Everyone has different opinions about what should and shouldn’t have been done, and those opinions sometimes conflict with what can and cannot, and is and is not, being done. In the end, the overwhelming result has bee that everyone is just…done.

    And as is usually the case with education-related controversies, teachers are taking the brunt of it. Their calls for safe school policies have been met with claims that kids aren’t at risk of severe COVID, as if teachers’ health and well-being are expendable. Parents’ frustrations with remote or hybrid learning are taken out on the teachers who are constantly scrambling to adjust to ever-changing circumstances that make everything about teaching more complicated.

    Superheroes, seriously.

    But as Toledo, Ohio high school teacher Katie Peters says, teachers aren’t looking for accolades. They’re doing the jobs they love, even though they’re incredibly difficult right now. What they do need is for people to understand what a teacher’s day looks like and to extend them some grace.

    Peters’ 2022 TikTok video describing a day in the life of a teacher teaching six classes has been viewed more than 2.5 million times.

    After sharing that she taught six periods and subbed during her planning period, she said, “I helped a young man find safe housing. I found a winter coat for a girl who didn’t have one. I located a student’s missing backpack and arranged for a Chromebook replacement for that student. I gave a student a little bit of cash for a haircut and made sure another student had enough food to last them through the weekend.”

    She also comforted a student who had cramps, supported a student who was going through his first heartbreak, saved a student’s art project with some super glue, walked a student to class so they wouldn’t feel alone, and wrote a card for a student who was struggling. That was just during the school day.

    After school she had a meeting, tutored a student, then wrote a college recommendation letter for a student who brought her the request the day before it was due.

    Then she spent four hours at home planning “fun, inviting, exciting lesson plans that could, at the drop of a hat, need to go virtual without any warning.”

    But Peters said she didn’t want a single accolade. “No teacher I know wants a pat on the back or gratitude,” she said. “What they do need is grace.” She pointed out that doing all of these things are what teachers love to do and what fulfills them. But it’s also why they’re tired. The pandemic has made everything harder.

    Peters said a piece of her was shattered when she read a comment in a community forum about her district going back to in-person learning, “Oh, it’s nice the teachers decided to work again.” As if teachers have not been working the hardest they ever have during all of the pandemic upheaval? Please.

    “Nobody, in the history of ever, has been motivated by ugly,” she said. “Loving kids is the purest form of beauty that exists—and it’s always going to beat your ugly.”

    Well said.

    Peters told TODAY that negative comments make teachers feel defeated, which impacts their job. “I’m not sure how much people realize that their words carry over into our ability to care for their children,” Peters said. “We need you to hold space for us and understand that we are doing our best given the circumstances.”

    People loved Peters’ honest and heartfelt account of what teachers are experiencing and what they really need from the rest of us: Grace. Patience. Understanding. Not ugliness or blame.

    If anyone who isn’t a teacher has something negative to say and thinks they could handle the job better, they are more than welcome to get their teacher training education and certification and try their hand at it. Otherwise, give teachers the respect they deserve and the grace they so desperately need as they try to keep their hole-filled lifeboats afloat with paperclips and a hot glue gun.

    Teachers, we see you. We’ve got your back. Hang in there.

    This article originally appeared three years ago.

  • Guy starts singing a Sam Cooke song at the barbershop and blows everyone away
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    Guy starts singing a Sam Cooke song at the barbershop and blows everyone away

    With 7 million views on TikTok alone, Shawn Louisiana’s incredible viral video is a must-see.

    Sometimes a person opens their mouth to sing, and magic happens. It’s hard to pinpoint exactly what qualities make a voice transcend the average and transfix an audience, but we know it when we hear it. Enter Shawn Louisiana.

    A video of him singing in a barbershop has gone viral and it’s definitely worth a watch. He wrote on YouTube, “The older guy didn’t think I could pull off a Sam Cooke song,” but when he started singing “A Change is Gonna Come,” he definitely proved that he could. Really well. Like, whoa.

    Watch:

    There’s a reason that video has gotten nearly 7 million views on TikTok alone.

    Louisiana frequently shares videos of himself just singing casually for the camera, and I don’t understand why this man’s talent is not more well known yet.

    I mean, just listen to this “Stand By Me” cover. Like butter. Sing me to sleep, sir.

    His Instagram account says he’s available to book for weddings. That’s nice, but someone please get this man a record deal so we can listen to him croon all day.

    For more from Shawn Louisiana, follow him on TikTok, Instagram, and YouTube.


    This article originally appeared four years ago.

  • A sea lion jumped on a woman’s boat to escape a group of orcas and the footage is wild
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    In the Pacific Northwest, orca sightings are a fairly common occurrence. Still, tourists and locals alike marvel when a pod of “sea pandas” swim by, whipping out their phones to capture some of nature’s most beautiful and intelligent creatures in their natural habitat. While orcas aren’t a threat to humans, there’s a reason they’re called “killer whales.” To their prey, which includes just about everything that swims except humans, they are terrifying apex predators who hunt in packs and will even coordinate to attack whales several times their own size.

    So if you’re a human alone on a little platform boat, and a sea lion that a group of orcas was eyeing for lunch jumps onto your boat, you might feel a little wary. Especially when those orcas don’t just swim on by, but surround you head-on.

    Watch exactly that scenario play out (language warning, if you’ve got wee ones you don’t want f-bombed):


    Ummm, yeah. An orca sighting is one thing, but this is a whole other story. Orcas have been known to knock large prey off of icebergs, so the whole “orcas don’t hurt humans” thing doesn’t feel super reassuring in this scenario.

    The footage came from TikTok user @nutabull, whose now-deleted account stated she was from Vancouver Island.

    The second video is even more intimidating.

    The viral video sparked a debate about whether the sea lion should be kicked off the boat or not. The woman kept telling the sea lion it “had to go” with a frank “Sorry, buddy, that’s life,” message, though she never actively tried to push it off. Many commenters joked about yeeting the sea lion off the boat to avoid a potentially disastrous encounter with the orcas. Others were on #teamsealion, saying they wouldn’t have the heart to boot the poor thing.

    The reality is orcas eat sea lions—the circle of life and whatnot. Most of us just don’t find ourselves in the middle of that circle, having to figure out whether the apex predators surrounding our boat are going to patiently wait for their lunch to come back or take it upon themselves to bump it back into the water.

    Thankfully for the woman, the sea lion seemed to decide on its own that its options were limited and dove back in to take its chances with the orcas. But phew, that encounter would be harrowing for just about anyone.

    Best of luck, sea lion. Hope you’re an exceptional swimmer.


    This article originally appeared four years ago.

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