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Dreamt by kids, built by parents, this furniture is the perfect mix of imagination and craftsmanship

Max & Lily's family approach to furniture is revolutionizing kids’ spaces

Max and Lily

In every home, the laughter and dreams of children echo the loudest, filling spaces with joy and imagination. In this spirit, Max & Lily, a vibrant family-run company, was founded. For over two decades, this husband and wife team has been crafting kids' furniture that is not only sturdy and safe but also brimming with fun and creativity. It's not just a business; it's a journey of crafting love and safety into every piece of furniture, making bedtime an adventurous story rather than a routine.

Imagine a household where the children are the creators, sketching dreams with their vibrant imaginations, and parents are the skilled craftsmen, bringing those vivid dreams to life with an artisan's touch. This is the everyday reality at Max & Lily. With input from their children, this dynamic duo has brought forth furniture designs that are both incredibly fun and functional, crafting a loving balance where every piece of furniture celebrates the magical outcomes of dreaming and creating together as a family.

At the heart of Max & Lily lies a splendid mixture of craft and imagination, where intricate designs meet playful elements. Think of bunk beds with easy slides for a joyous morning descent or ones with built-in staircases that double as storage cubbies, adding an element of surprise and functionality. This delightful mix of whimsy and expert craftsmanship goes beyond your everyday furniture, blossoming into a wonderland where kids can embark on daily adventures and parents can bask in the warm glow of safety and quality that Max & Lily promises with each creation.

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Beds by Max & Lily invite joy, comfort, and style into your child’s room. They transform an ordinary bedroom into a dreamland crafted by the perfect blend of imagination and craftsmanship, a venture where family values meet excellence. And here are just a few of the pieces the company has to offer.

Twin Over Twin-Size Low Bunk Bed


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Kid's Twin Over Twin-Size Low Bunk Bed
$449 at Max & Lily


Imagine walking into a room where a twin-over-twin low bunk bed sits, crafted with the most splendid knot-free, solid wood. A space saver and a safe haven for young kiddos, it nestles perfectly under low ceilings, giving it a cozy and welcoming aura. When it comes to styling, think soft rugs and twinkling fairy lights to make this the cozy nook every child dreams of.

Twin Over Twin-Size Low Bunk Bed With Staircase


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Kid's Twin Over Twin-Size Low Bunk Bed with Staircase
$699 at Max & Lily


Next up, we have this wonder with a built-in staircase, a design that brings the ease of climb combined with savvy storage solutions. This low bunk bed is not just a place to crash; it's an adventure waiting to happen with steps leading up to sweet dreams. Those little cubbies? Perfect for your kiddos to arrange their favorite books and toys, encouraging them to keep their space neat and tidy, fostering a sense of responsibility and organization from a tender age.

Twin Over Twin-Size Low Bunk Bed With Easy Slide


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Twin over Twin Low Bunk Bed with Easy Slide
$529 at Max & Lily


Now let's ramp up the fun a notch! Slide into delightful mornings with the twin-over-twin low bunk bed equipped with an easy slide. This fabulous piece is more than a sleeping area—it's a playground right in the comfort of their room. And don't you worry a tad about safety because the gentle curve ensures a soft landing, encouraging safe play while nurturing their imaginative minds.

Mid-Century Modern Twin Over Twin Low Bunk Bed


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Mid-Century Modern Twin over Twin Low Bunk Bed
$579 at Max & Lily


Stepping into a room graced with the mid-century modern twin-over-twin low bunk bed is like taking a delightful journey back in time, with a fresh twist. This piece, dressed in retro-chic pecan and walnut finishes, adds a vintage sparkle to modern spaces. Picture this bed paired with funky geometric prints or classic neutral tones, creating a sanctuary of style and comfort that stands the test of time.

Scandinavian Twin Over Twin Low Bunk Bed


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Scandinavian Twin over Twin Low Bunk Bed
$499 at Max & Lily


Lastly, for the lovers of clean lines and understated elegance, the Scandinavian twin-over-twin low bunk bed is your go-to. It embodies the essence of minimalism, offering a serene and clutter-free environment that helps foster concentration and tranquility in young minds. When styling this beauty, think airy spaces adorned with simple, nature-inspired elements that bring a touch of calm and sophistication to your little one’s sanctuary.

The Max & Lily Story

Once upon a time, in a delightful family home, two young minds, Max (at the wise age of 8) and Lily (a bright 6-year-old), embarked on a marvelous journey with their parents to revolutionize kids' furniture. Through countless brainstorming sessions and animated discussions around the dining table, the energetic siblings sprinkled their youthful ideas generously. This combination of child-like wonder and safety-first features created a furniture line that checked all the boxes for kids and their parents.

Nestled in the traditions of German precision and Danish aesthetic elegance, Max & Lily holds onto a rich legacy of fine craftsmanship. From their beginnings in Germany and Denmark, they've made their home in sunny Charleston, SC, embodying hard work, integrity, and a keen eye for detail. Every piece of furniture crafted here tells a story of sustainability, a pledge to the future. With the use of knot-free, solid pine wood, they've embraced an eco-friendly approach, ensuring their creations are a beacon of hope for generations to come.

The Max & Lily Difference

Max & Lily crafts furniture with solid wood that stands sturdy and looks timeless, promising years of memories and laughter. It's the kind of quality that lets you sit back, relax, and know that you've brought nothing but the best into your home.

Max & Lily puts safety first, ensuring their furniture flaunts low VOC, non-toxic finishes, creating a healthier environment for your family. It's the peace of mind every parent cherishes, knowing their child is safe, even when they are lost in the world of dreams.

But the dedication doesn't stop there. Max & Lily steps is constantly testing their products to not only meet but exceed the safety standards set by the US and EU. They go the extra mile to ensure each piece passes stringent tests, offering an added layer of assurance to families.

Each piece of furniture carries with it a 1-year warranty, a bold statement of its durability and the trust Max & Lily has in their products. It's not just furniture; it's a promise of longevity and quality, a testament to a brand that values your peace of mind above all.

And the Max & Lily shopping experience is just as delightful as the products themselves. No more nail-biting waits or puzzling setups. They've smoothed out the wrinkles in furniture shopping, offering easy-peasy deliveries in compact boxes and straightforward setups. So, when a Max & Lily package arrives at your doorstep, know that joyous comfort is just a few moments away, without any fuss or hassle. It's not just a delivery; it's the beginning of countless happy dreams and joyful mornings.

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Remember those magical childhood dreams filled with adventures and fairy tales? Max & Lily are making those dreams tangible with every piece of furniture they craft. It's a beautiful journey from a spark of imagination to a masterpiece of craftsmanship, with a sprinkle of childlike wonder and parental love in each design.

Are you ready to step into this dreamland? The world of Max & Lily is wide open for you to explore. Dive in, discover the joy, the safety, and the imagination that waits in every corner. It's more than just furniture; it's an invitation to build dreams, create joy, and witness little smiles that light up rooms. So click here to embark on this magical journey with Max & Lily, and discover a world where furniture that's built to last and designed to enchant.

A woman is shocked to learn that her name means something totally different in Australia.

Devyn Hales, 22, from California, recently moved to Sydney, Australia, on a one-year working visa and quickly learned that her name wouldn’t work Down Under. It all started when a group of men made fun of her on St. Patrick’s Day.

After she introduced herself as Devyn, the men laughed at her. "They burst out laughing, and when I asked them why, they told me devon is processed lunch meat,” she told The Daily Mail. It's similar to baloney, so I introduce myself as Dev now,” she said in a viral TikTok video with over 1.7 million views.

For those who have never been to Australia, Devon is a processed meat product usually cut into slices and served on sandwiches. It is usually made up of pork, basic spices and a binder. Devon is affordable because people buy it in bulk and it’s often fed to children. Australians also enjoy eating it fried, like spam. It is also known by other names such as fritz, circle meat, Berlina and polony, depending on where one lives on the continent. It's like in America, where people refer to cola as pop, soda, or Coke, depending on where they live in the country.


So, one can easily see why a young woman wouldn’t want to refer to herself as a processed meat product that can be likened to boloney or spam. "Wow, love that for us," another woman named Devyn wrote in the comments. “Tell me the name thing isn't true,” a woman called Devon added.

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#fypシ #australia #americaninaustralia #sydney #aussie

Besides changing her name, Dev shared some other differences between living in Australia and her home country.

“So everyone wears slides. I feel like I'm the only one with 'thongs'—flip-flops—that have the little thing in the middle of your big toe. Everyone wears slides,” she said. Everyone wears shorts that go down to your knees and that's a big thing here.”

Dev also noted that there are a lot of guys in Australia named Lachlan, Felix and Jack.

She was also thrown off by the sound of the plentiful magpies in Australia. According to Dev, they sound a lot like crying children with throat infections. “The birds threw me off,” she said before making an impression that many people in the comments thought was close to perfect. "The birds is so spot on," Jess wrote. "The birds, I will truly never get used to it," Marissa added.

One issue that many Americans face when moving to Australia is that it is more expensive than the United States. However, many Americans who move to Australia love the work-life balance. Brooke Laven, a brand strategist in the fitness industry who moved there from the U.S., says that Aussies have the “perfect work-life balance” and that they are “hard-working” but “know where to draw the line.”

Despite the initial cultural shocks, Devyn is embracing her new life in Australia with a positive outlook. “The coffee is a lot better in Australia, too,” she added with a smile, inspiring others to see the bright side of cultural differences.

Image created from @maymaybarclay Twitter page.

The courage to speak up to join in the fun.

Meet Mason Brian Barclay, a teen and self-described "very homosexual male." He recently wanted to attend a sleepover at his "new best friend" Houston's house, because teens are gonna teen. But he's a boy, and everyone knows boys aren't allowed to attend girls' sleepovers, because of cooties/patriarchal norms.

So he behaved more maturely than most adults, and crafted a long text message to Houston's mom, Mrs. Shelton, in which he politely asked for permission to attend Houston's sleepover.


"I think the common meaning behind only allowing the same sex to share sleepovers is due to the typical interest in the opposite sex, when, in this case, I do not like the opposite sex," he explained in the text.


Mrs. Shelton's response was so good that Mason tweeted it out and it went viral:

"Hmm. Well my husband is hot. Should I worry?" she responded.

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Evidently Mason found Mrs. Shelton's text hilarious. So does Twitter.

And others are just wondering if the sleepover is on, or not??

Others need to know if Houston's dad lives up to the hype:

This article originally appeared on 11.26.18

Pop Culture

SNL sketch about George Washington's dream for America hailed an 'instant classic'

"People will be referencing it as one of the all time best SNL skits for years.”

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Seriously, what were our forefathers thinking with our measuring system?

Ever stop to think how bizarre it is that the United States is one of the only countries to not use the metric system? Or how it uses the word “football” to describe a sport that, unlike fútbol, barely uses the feet at all?

What must our forefathers have been thinking as they were creating this brave new world?

Wonder no further. All this and more is explored in a recent Saturday Night Live sketch that folks are hailing as an “instant classic.”

The hilarious clip takes place during the American Revolution, where George Washington rallies his troops with an impassioned speech about his future hopes for their fledgling country…all the while poking fun at America’s nonsensical measurements and language rules.

Like seriously, liters and milliliters for soda, wine and alcohol but gallons, pints, and quarters for milk and paint? And no “u” after “o” in words like “armor” and “color” but “glamour” is okay?

The inherent humor in the scene is only amplified by comedian and host Nate Bargatze’s understated, deadpan delivery of Washington. Bargatze had quite a few hits during his hosting stint—including an opening monologue that acted as a mini comedy set—but this performance takes the cake.

Watch:

All in all, people have been applauding the sketch, noting that it harkened back to what “SNL” does best, having fun with the simple things.

Here’s what folks are saying:

“This skit is an instant classic. I think people will be referencing it as one of the all time best SNL skits for years.”

“Dear SNL, whoever wrote this sketch, PLEASE let them write many many MANY more!”

“Instantly one of my favorite SNL sketches of all time!!!”

“I’m not lying when I say I have watched this sketch about 10 times and laughed just as hard every time.”

“This may be my favorite sketch ever. This is absolutely brilliant.”


There’s more where that came from. Catch even more of Bargatze’s “SNL” episode here.


This article originally appeared on 10.30.23

Family

What to do when you're the child of an alcoholic

My dad was an addict, and growing up with him taught me a lot.

Photo with permission from writer Ashley Tieperman.

Ashley Tieperman and her father.


There was never just one moment in my family when we “found out" that my dad was an addict.

I think I always knew, but I never saw him actually drinking. Usually, he downed a fifth of vodka before he came home from work or hid tiny bottles in the garage and bathroom cabinets.


My name is Ashley, and I am the child of an addict. As a kid, I cried when our family dinner reservation shrunk from four to three after a man with glassy eyes stumbled through the door. I didn't guzzle the vodka, but I felt the heartbreak of missed birthdays. I feel like I should weigh 500 pounds from all the “I'm sorry" chocolate donuts. I had to grow up quicker, but it made me into the person I am today.

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Me and my dad.

Photo with permission from writer Ashley Tieperman.

I spent many years shouting into journals about why this was happening to me. But this is the thing that no one will tell you about loving someone who has an addiction: it will force you to see the world through different eyes.

Here are some things I've learned:

1. When your family's yelling about burnt toast, they're probably also yelling about something else.

My family yelled about everything — and nothing — to avoid the messy stuff. We all handled my dad's addiction differently. My brother devoured sports. My mom took bubble baths. I slammed doors and slammed boyfriends for not understanding my family's secrets.

Regardless of the preferred coping mechanism, everyone feels pain differently.

2. Your "knight in shining armor" can't fix this.

Boyfriends became my great escape when I was young. But when I expected them to rescue me from the pain I grew up with, it never worked out. No matter how strapping they looked galloping in on those white horses, they couldn't save me or fix anything.

In the end, I realized that I had to find healing on my own before I could build a strong relationship.

3. “Don't tell anyone" is a normal phase.

When my dad punched holes in the wall, my mom covered them up with artwork. I wanted to rip the artwork down to expose all the holes, especially as a bratty teenager. But eventually I realized that it wasn't my choice. My parents had bills to pay and jobs to keep. I've learned it's common to cover up for dysfunction in your family, especially when it feels like the world expects perfection.

4. Friends probably won't get it, but you'll need them anyway.

Bulldozed by broken promises, I remember collapsing on a friend's couch from the crippling pain of unmet expectations. I hyperventilated. Things felt uncontrollable and hopeless. My friend rubbed my back and just listened.

These are the kinds of friends I will keep forever, the ones who crawled down into the dark places with me and didn't make me get back up until I was ready.

5. You can't fix addiction, but you can help.

When I was a teenager, I called a family meeting. I started by playing a Switchfoot song: “This is your life. Are you who you want to be?"

Let's skip to the punchline: It didn't work.

It wasn't just me. Nothing anyone did worked. My dad had to lose a lot — mostly himself — before he hit that place they call “rock bottom." And, in all honesty, I hate that label because “rock bottom" isn't just a one-and-done kind of place.

What can you do while you wait for someone to actually want to get help? Sometimes, you just wait. And you hope. And you pray. And you love. And you mostly just wait.

6. Recovery is awkward.

When a counselor gave me scripted lines to follow if my dad relapsed, I wanted to shred those “1-2-3 easy steps" into a million pieces.

For me, there was nothing easy about my dad's recovery. My whole family had to learn steps to a new dance when my dad went into recovery. The healing dance felt like shuffling and awkwardly stepping on toes. It was uncomfortable; new words, like trust and respect, take time to sink in. And that awkwardness is also OK.

7. I still can't talk about addiction in the past tense.

Nothing about an addict's life happens linearly. I learned that early on. My dad cycled through 12-step programs again and again, to the point where I just wanted to hurl whenever anyone tried to talk about it. And then we finally reached a point where it felt like recovery stuck.

But even now, I'll never say, “My dad used to deal with addiction." My whole family continues to wrestle with the highs and lows of life with an addict every single day.

8. Happy hours and wedding receptions aren't easy to attend.

My family will also probably never clink glasses of red wine or stock the fridge full of beer. I'm convinced happy hours and wedding receptions will get easier, but they might not. People get offended when my dad orders a Diet Coke instead of their fine whisky.

Plus, there's the paranoia factor. Surrounded by flowing liquor, I hate watching my dad crawl out of his skin, tempted to look “normal" and tackle small talk with people we barely know. I've learned that this fear will probably last for a while, and it's because I care.

9. If you close your eyes, the world doesn't just “get prettier."

With constant fear of the unknown, sometimes our world is not a pretty place. I remember watching the breaking news on 9/11 and feeling the terror of the planes crashing into the Twin Towers as if I was there.

My dad numbed the anxiety of these dark days with vodka, but this didn't paint a prettier world for him when he woke up the next day. I've dealt with the fear of the unknown with the help of boys, booze, and bad dancing on pool tables. Life hurts for everyone, and I think we all have to decide how we're going to handle the darkness.

10. Rip off the sign on your back that reads: “KICK ME. MY LIFE SUCKS."

Sometimes I look in the mirror and I see only my broken journey. In some twisted way, I'm comforted by the dysfunction because it's kept me company for so long. It's easy to let the shadow of my family's past follow me around and choose to drown in the darkness.

But every day, I'm learning to turn on the light. I have to write the next chapter in my recovery story, but I can't climb that mountain with all this crap weighing me down.

11. It's OK to forgive, too.

Some people have given me sucky advice about how I should write an anthem on daddy bashing, or how to hit the delete button on the things that shaped my story.

Instead, my dad and I are both learning to celebrate the little things, like the day that he could change my flat tire. On that day, I didn't have to wonder if he was too drunk to come help me.

I can't forget all the dark nights of my childhood.

But I've learned that for my own well-being, I can't harbor bitterness until I explode.

Instead, I can love my dad, day by day, and learn to trust in the New Dad — the one with clearer eyes and a full heart. The one who rescues me when I call.


This article was written by Ashley Tieperman and originally appeared on 04.27.16


Recent polls suggest that Republicans and Democrats have slightly different tastes that have nothing to do with politics.

If you like cats, The Beatles, and Starbucks, you tend to vote Democrat. If you're into Toby Keith, Budweiser, and Dunkin' Donuts, you tend to vote Republican.

But an interesting new quiz claims to be 98 percent effective at determining people's political affiliations by asking questions that have zero to do with politics.



Click here to take the quiz.

So how does it work? (Don't read the answer if you haven't taken the quiz yet.)

According to ChartsMe, recent studies have found that people who were more prone to disgust are more conservative. This leads them to more closely align with the Republican Party.

Some scientists believe it's ancestral and that the adverse reactions to conditions we'd label “disgusting" were used to protect primitive ancestors from contamination and disease. This way a person wouldn't confuse drinking water with dirty pond scum. But if the test told you that you're a Republican, you probably won't accept that explanation because studies show you probably don't believe in evolution.

Click here to take the quiz.


This article originally appeared on 08.09.18