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It’s not often that the person who portrays a hero in movies, TV, or video games is an even greater hero in real life. A man on Reddit shared an experience of that rare exception when he posted a Cameo he purchased in 2020 from Kevin Conroy, a voice actor best known for his portrayal of Batman, saying that “It's saved me from suicide countless times.”

"I paid for a Cameo video from Mr. Conroy. In the introductory text I believe I simply explained how my name is pronounced, that I had schizophrenia and had been extremely moved and inspired to face my fears as Batman did in Arkham Knight. I ended with 'THANK YOU.'"

He only had enough money for 30 second Cameo, but Conroy instead gave him a heartfelt six minute long response.


In the video, Conroy not only did some classic Batman dialogue in the voice but shared about how his brother struggled with schizophrenia. He got personal and touched upon the struggles of life, and how the fan was not alone in his fight and in his treatment. Conroy ended his message with "I believe in you. Batman believes in you, and Batman is on your side."

The fan held onto his video, wanting to keep it private since Conroy was so vulnerable and personal in his response, but felt it was okay to share since Conroy touched upon his brother's schizophrenia in "Finding Batman", an autobiographical comic story in the DC Pride 2022 anthology. In "Finding Batman," Conroy discusses helping his brother with his treatment along with how his life as a young gay man in the 1950s through the 1990s required him to have a "public face" and a "private face" much like Batman and his secret identity of Bruce Wayne. Conroy would portray the character on and off in various animated shows, movies, and video games for over 30 years, with his last posthumous performance as Batman in 2024's Justice League: Crisis on Infinite Earths - Part Three.


"His reply, this video, is my most prized possession," said the fan. "It's saved me from suicide countless times. Batman telling me he believes in me is extremely powerful... but over time, it's become Kevin believing in me that is equally powerful."

Commenters shared their feelings about Conroy:

"This high key had me blinking back tears. Mr. Conroy was as important to me as the Batman character - something that became clear after his passing."

"Kevin is one of the people that I'd have loved to spend a day with. A true kind human."

"Bittersweet to know Kevin Conroy was exactly the hero we grew up watching. I miss him."

The commenters also threw in their thanks and support to the fan, too:

"You’ve got this, brother 👊🏽 You’re not alone."

"Your struggles don’t define you, it’s your perseverance against them that does, so fight. Fight tooth and nail."

"Giving this to the world made you a superhero."

Conroy understood that being the voice behind such a beloved character for an entire generation had some weight and responsibility to it, and used that bit of fame and power to grow a supportive community. Another such example is when he did the Batman voice for a bunch of 9/11 first responders as he helped cook meals for them between shifts of moving debris from the attack.

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Kevin used his position to encourage people, help people, and if nothing else made their lives a little brighter. That's something we can all learn from him. If he can be Batman in those ways, we can be Batman, too. Offer a hand to your family members. If someone needs help, help them. You don't need to be a millionaire playboy with an awesome dark costume to make a difference.

Also, if you're struggling with schizophrenia, you aren't alone, like Kevin said. If you could use some support, you can investigate Schizophrenia Alliance to find a support group near you, or a Zoom group if you prefer. Do your best to remember that we believe in you and Batman believes in you.

Emily Robinson's mom has had schizophrenia since before Emily was born.

"She went off her meds because she was pregnant with me," Emily told Upworthy. "One day, she got really sick and wandered off in the snow. They found her, and gave her medicine, and I was born the next day."

From there on out, nearly every day has been a struggle. 


But Emily wants the world to know there's so much more to her mother than her mental illness.

"She’s just a really good person. She’s a really good mom. She puts cards in the mail, and she calls and tells me she loves me and that she's proud of me," Emily says.

At the same time, she knows that schizophrenia is and always will be a part of her mother's life. 

Which is why Emily wanted to find a way to show the world both sides of her mom — a complex and wonderful woman — with honesty and dignity.

"We don’t talk about [mental illness]. That’s the point of putting this out there. I need people to see mental illness from a place of love."

She started a project called You Are in This World, where she documented her relationship with her mother: the ups and downs and everything in between. 

She kicked off the project with a raw and emotional video in which her mom talks about her immense love for her grandchildren (Emily's kids) while fighting through tremors (a side effect of her medication) and bouts of feeling confused and overwhelmed. 

So far, the response to the video has been enormous. Emily says her mom is glad her story is being shared and making such a positive impact.

"I’d say people don’t get it, but thousands of people do, millions of people do," Emily says. "But we don’t talk about [mental illness]. That’s the point of putting this out there. I need people to see mental illness from a place of love."

Watch Emily's incredible video and learn what living with schizophrenia is really like for millions of people worldwide:

When you think of a person with schizophrenia, who comes to mind first?

A. That one dude in the movies who’s always hacking people up.

B. Those people who live in some sorta group home, and I don't want to think about it.


C. Vincent van Gogh. Author Jack Kerouac. Peter Green from Fleetwood Mac. John Nash (whose life is the subject of the Oscar-winning movie, "A Beautiful Mind.")

If you answered C, then you’re on the right track. And, you see, that's part of the problem; there are very few positive role models in our society of schizophrenics, which feeds into misinformation and fear.

Lots of people have schizophrenia, but you don't often hear their stories.

An estimated 1.1% of the American population is schizophrenic. That’s a lot of people — about 2.5 million adults — but they often seem invisible.

Enter Christine Deneweth.

She’s a cartoonist and uses her medium to explain some of the things that life presents to those who are schizophrenics and how friends and others can help.

(And, by the way, I'm choosing to use "schizophrenic" here because the author of the below comic prefers it. Those who have schizophrenia can let you know how they wish to be referred to.)

Her hope is that schizophrenics come out to people in their lives so they're not perceived in such negative stereotypes.

That's a noble idea.

Take a journey through these insightful 29 panels to see where she's coming from:

When it comes to anybody having issues or struggles coping with life, those last few panels have some of the best advice.

Please be patient, don't judge, and just listen.