If you really want to #SaveTheChildren, stop sharing QAnon conspiracy theories

Apparently, I’m being paid off by pedophiles. This payoff is news to me, but it’s what Some Random People on the Internet are saying, so it must be true, right? That’s how this works? What other reason would I have for sharing factual information about the very real issue of child sex trafficking and calling…

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Apparently, I’m being paid off by pedophiles.

This payoff is news to me, but it’s what Some Random People on the Internet are saying, so it must be true, right? That’s how this works? What other reason would I have for sharing factual information about the very real issue of child sex trafficking and calling out false stories of Satanic pedophile rings in which famous evil overlords like Tom Hanks, Oprah, and Hillary Clinton torture and sacrifice children to increase their own power? I simply must be “in on it” somehow.

That seems to be more plausible in some people’s minds than the idea that the wild “Pizzagate” child sex ring theory, which has already been thoroughly and repeatedly debunked, could be fabricated by online trolls and perpetuated by politically-motivated players. People believe Pizzagate is real because they’ve been convinced that the entire media industry is in cahoots and because fringe “sources” with no oversight and no accountability—who insist they’re the only ones telling the truth—said so.


Here’s the thing about such conspiracy theories. (Yes, I know. Some of you think the term “conspiracy theory” was coined by the CIA—read this and stay out of my inbox, please.) Some conspiracy theories are goofy, but harmless. The “flat earth” thing, for example, or the idea that we faked the moon landing. Those beliefs are easily disproven and obviously ridiculous, but no one is being hurt by them. We can all laugh, shake our heads, and move on.

But these outrageous child sex trafficking conspiracy theories like those pushed by QAnon are harmful. Child sex trafficking is a very real, very serious, and very lucrative industry that organizations and governments have been battling for a long time. But QAnon isn’t just saying “child sex trafficking is real and important and we need to shed a light on it.” They’re saying “There is a secret, global cabal of Satan-worshiping pedophiles who control everything—including politicians, the media, and Hollywood—and who engage in child sex trafficking and ritual sacrifice to harvest adenochrome from children, and Trump is here to save us all from their evil and it’s only a matter of time before they all go down.”

Those are two very different things—the issue of child sex trafficking (which is real) and the idea that Hillary Clinton literally sucking the lifeblood out of children in a pizza parlor basement (which doesn’t even exist). The fact that we’re nearly four years into Trump’s presidency and none of these supposed Satanic pedophiles have actually been arrested—despite Trump supposedly knowing all about their dastardly deeds, according to Q—is more than a little weird. But that isn’t stopping people from believing this stuff.

It’s also not stopping people from hijacking perfectly good hashtags associated with perfectly good organizations and using them to “raise awareness” about this evil. This is why the #SaveTheChildren hashtag is suddenly showing up everywhere. As Kevin Roose wrote in the New York Times:

“The idea, in a nutshell, is to create a groundswell of concern by flooding social media with posts about human trafficking, joining parenting Facebook groups and glomming on to hashtag campaigns like #SaveTheChildren, which began as a legitimate fund-raising campaign for the Save the Children charity. Then followers can shift the conversation to baseless theories about who they believe is doing the trafficking: a cabal of nefarious elites that includes Tom Hanks, Oprah Winfrey and Pope Francis.”

Some unsuspecting people are using this hashtag to talk about child sex trafficking in general, but many posts refer to the evil Hollywood elite and include various QAnon hashtags along with it. And by evil Hollywood elite, they don’t mean the legitimate issue of Jeffrey Epstein and investigations into his sleazy, slimy, sick habits. They mean “The Cabal.”

Some #SaveTheChildren posters are surely unaware that they’ve been sucked into a conspiracy theory web of disinformation, but those of us who have been following the QAnon phenomenon recognize the virtual fingerprints of a QAnon push. Some of it is obvious, like seeing the #WWG1WGA (a QAnon acronym—”Where we go one, we go all”) accompanying many of these posts. But it’s also the fact that #SaveTheChildren was soon changed to #SaveOurChildren. Why? Because QAnon followers got wind that Bill and Melinda Gates financially support the actual Save the Children organization that the hashtag originally was used for. And Bill Gates, of course, is one of those “evil global elites” who, according to QAnon, created the coronavirus on purpose in order to push his vaccine agenda and depopulate the planet.

So yeah. The #SaveTheChildren thing is a big effing mess.

What’s the big deal, though? Isn’t it just important that we raise awareness about child sex trafficking in general? Of course it is. But unfounded conspiracy theories are not only unhelpful to that cause, but actively harmful.

The Polaris Project is an organization that provides social services to victims of sex trafficking, works with law enforcement to perform crisis interventions for possible victims of trafficking, and runs the U.S. National Human Trafficking Hotline. In a blog post, the organization explained how these unfounded conspiracy theories actually do harm to the child sex trafficking cause.

“A barrage of conspiracy-related reports from people with no direct knowledge of trafficking situations can overwhelm services meant for victims,” the site states, pointing out that the recent Wayfair child sex trafficking conspiracy theory flooded their hotline with more calls than they could handle, with zero real leads to real victims, clogging the line so that real victims couldn’t get through. They also point out that such theories can lead to loss of privacy or safety for victims or innocent bystanders. (Check out the threats and violence the owner of Comet Ping Pong pizza parlor in Washington D.C. has had to deal with over “Pizzagate.”)

In addition, and perhaps most importantly, “Conspiracies distract from the more disturbing but simple realities of how sex trafficking actually works, and how we can prevent it.” In other words, all this Pizzagate and Wayfair and adenochrome-sucking nonsense actually pulls people away from the reality of child sex trafficking and interferes with the work people could actually be doing to help prevent it. Most children aren’t kidnapped out of the blue to be sold and abused, but are trafficked or abused by people they know. (See this article written by a woman who was trafficked by her father throughout her childhood.) Polaris encourages people to learn more about what trafficking actual is, what it looks like, and how it generally happens, rather than circulating misinformation.

The bottom line: While #SaveTheChildren might seem like a righteous thing to share, we have to recognize that there’s a boatload of misinformation that is being shared along with it, and such misinformation can do more harm than good.

What should we do then to actually fight for children who are wrapped up in sex trafficking? Follow legitimate organizations that have been doing this work for years. Pay attention to what they say, as well as what they don’t. (You won’t find any of them endorsing QAnon conspiracies. If there were truth to them, these are the folks who would be first in line to shed light on it and do something about it.) Here are some to check out:

Polaris Project

Love146

The Exodus Road

ECPAT-USA

Thorn

Operation Underground Railroad

International Justice Mission

You can also learn more about child sex trafficking on the United States Department of Justice website.

Child sex trafficking is worthy cause to get behind. Just makes sure you’re getting behind the real issue, supporting real organizations with the expertise to help, and avoiding conspiracy theories that only serve to distract from the real work being done to actually #SaveTheChildren.

  • Elementary teacher steps in when the audio suddenly cuts out during school talent show
    Emberly Lau dances to "Girl on Fire" by Alicia Keys with help from her former teacher.Photo credit: @dpkymeg/Instagram (used with permission)

    A teacher in Northern Michigan became the living embodiment of “the show must go on” during a school talent show. 

    On March 24, eight-year-old Emberly Lau took to the stage to perform a dance set to Alicia Keys’ “Girl on Fire.”

    Like many young performers, she had spent weeks preparing for her big moment, carefully practicing each move and building up the courage to step into the spotlight.

    Only, midway through the routine, the audio suddenly cut out, leaving Emberly dancing in silence.

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    For a brief second, it could have spelled disaster. A missing soundtrack can throw even seasoned performers off their game, and for a child, it can feel overwhelming.

    Teacher comes to the rescue

    But without missing a beat, Emberly’s former first-grade teacher, Kurstin Frank, began singing the lyrics from the audience.

    Even when she did not know every word, she carried the rhythm and melody forward, giving Emberly exactly what she needed to continue. It helped that Frank had a lovely voice, but more importantly, she had the instinct to support her student without hesitation.

    Thanks to that spontaneous act, Emberly never stopped dancing. Instead of freezing or running offstage, she pushed through, finishing her routine with confidence. What could have been an awkward interruption turned into something unexpectedly beautiful. Other audience members began to join in, clapping and singing along, transforming the would-be catastrophe into a shared experience filled with encouragement and joy.

    Emberly’s mother, Meg, who caught the whole thing on camera, shared in a sweet Facebook post that Emberly had been working on her routine since Christmas. Understandably, Meg felt “mom panic” set in when the music glitch set out to ruin Emberly’s hard work, but those fears were quickly set at ease by Frank. 

    In the post, Meg hailed Frank as a “true hero,” thanking her for creating a “magical, special, and memorable” moment completely on the spot, all with a student on her lap.

    Other folks were equally quick to praise the teacher as the video began making the rounds online. 

    “Teachers can really change a person’s life”

    Check out some of these lovely comments from Instagram

    “Anyone else get CHILLS? I can only imagine how she felt once the music cut off. Go teach. 🙌”

    “This is probably gonna be a formative memory for this young girl who was vulnerable and went onstage for perhaps the first time.”

    “Teachers can really change a person’s life.”

    “The way she lit up at ‘burn baby burn baby’ that confidence came right back! 💐🥹 There are truly teachers who stay with you 😭”

    ​​”Best teacher EVER 👏🙌❤️”

    Moments like this remind us that sometimes it isn’t perfection that makes an experience unforgettable, but the people who show up when things don’t go as planned. It’s also a testament to the teachers who go out of their way to make sure their students can succeed—whether in the classroom, onstage, or in adulthood. All in all, it’s a truly feel-good story.

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  • Gen Z’s ‘Western Revival’: Why line dancing, rodeos, and honky-tonks are exploding in cities like NYC and Atlanta
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    Gen Z’s ‘Western Revival’: Why line dancing, rodeos, and honky-tonks are exploding in cities like NYC and Atlanta

    Rodeos sold out Madison Square Garden in 2026, and line dancing events are up 165 percent.

    Picture this: It’s a Tuesday night in Queens, New York—the kind most young people spend doomscrolling on their couches or making out at a local bar to Ariana Grande songs. But at a packed honky-tonk, a room full of twenty-somethings in cowboy boots is learning to two-step. By the end of the night, they don’t want to leave.

    This isn’t a one-off or a dream scenario. It’s a reality happening all over the country. In Atlanta and Boston, in San Francisco and Washington, D.C., young people who grew up glued to their phones are lacing up boots, heading out to line dancing classes, trail rides, and rodeos, and finding something they didn’t know they were missing: each other.

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    Young people all over the country are participating in "Western" socializing events like never before.

    Welcome to the “Western Revival.” It’s a lot bigger than you think.

    The numbers will stop you in your tracks

    Let’s drop some statistics that’ll make you do a double take. According to Eventbrite data comparing 2024 to 2025, line-dancing events grew by 165%, and attendance jumped by a staggering 254%.

    Trail rides? Attendance is up 374%. Professional Bull Riders sold out Madison Square Garden and TD Garden in Boston. The Houston Livestock Show and Rodeo drew 2.7 million people in a single year—a new all-time record.

    And here’s the part that really says something big: the fastest growth isn’t happening in country-friendly places like Texas or Nashville. It’s happening in New York, Atlanta, Boston, and San Francisco—cities where, until recently, the closest thing to a cowboy was a Halloween costume.

    Nearly half of all young adults—49%—say they’re actively seeking experiences that feel less curated and more real. Another 79% say it’s important that events feel spontaneous or unpredictable, and 44% say they’re willing to spend more if a venue feels genuinely unique. So what about a ranch bathed in golden-hour light? Or a neon-lit honky-tonk with a live fiddle player? Yup, that’ll do it.

    No, it’s not really about the boots

    Sure, the cowboy boots are cute. Okay, make that really cute. But this isn’t a fashion story…or at least, it’s not only a fashion story.

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    The amazing thing about Western Revival events is that they’re inherently participatory. You can’t passively attend a line dancing class. You have to show up, plant your feet, and be a little bit goofy while you learn the steps. There’s something deeply human about that. And for a generation that spent its formative years staring at screens during a pandemic, it turns out that “a little bit goofy in a room full of people” is exactly what the doctor ordered.

    Of course, Beyoncé helped start the fire

    You can’t tell this story without talking about Cowboy Carter. When Beyoncé released her country album in 2024, she didn’t just make great music; she rewrote the rules about who gets to claim Western culture. More than a third of Gen Z music fans say they first explored country music because of that album. She took a genre that had long felt exclusive and made it feel like it belonged to everyone.

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    Cowboy culture didn’t start in Hollywood. The original cowboys were Mexican vaqueros: Indigenous, Afro-Mexican, and mestizo horsemen who developed the techniques, tools, and clothing we now associate with the American West. After the U.S. took over northern Mexico, including what is now Texas, that culture was appropriated, repackaged, and whitewashed. Beyoncé’s Cowboy Carter era isn’t just about country music or fashion. It’s a powerful act of reclamation. As a Black woman from Texas, she’s tapping into a legacy that’s been erased: the deep, intertwined roots of Mexican and Black communities in shaping cowboy life. From the sombrero to the rodeo, from Black cowboys post-emancipation to Afro-Mexican vaqueros before the U.S. even existed, this is the real story behind the cowboy hat. #beyonce #cowboy #vaquero #cowboycarter

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    And she wasn’t alone. Post Malone, Chappell Roan, Jelly Roll, and Shaboozey represent a wave of artists who have been cheerfully demolishing the walls between country, hip-hop, and pop. Today, two out of three Gen Z listeners say they’re now tuning into country more than ever. When the music changes, the culture follows.

    A lonely generation is finding its people

    Here’s the part of this story that matters most: Eight out of ten Gen Z respondents in a recent survey said they’d felt lonely in the past year. Eight out of ten. Think about that: This is a generation that has more ways to “connect” than any in history, and yet so many of them feel profoundly alone.

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    Photo from an Eventbrite line dancing event.Photo credit: Eventbrite

    Freeman survey of 2,000 adults found that 91% of Gen Z respondents want more in-person events in their lives. They want real friendships. This is such a vulnerable truth: these young people want to show up somewhere and matter to the people around them.

    Funnily enough, honky-tonks and dance halls are becoming exactly that: a new kind of communal third space, somewhere between home and work where you don’t have to perform for an algorithm. You just have to know how to count to eight.

    As one line dance instructor put it: “It’s pretty low risk, high reward. Come out, have fun, learn something, and enjoy time with your friends.” There’s a beautiful simplicity to that. In an era of infinite options and zero commitment, sometimes the most radical thing you can do is just show up.

    Is this bigger than a trend?

    Short answer: yes. Trends come and go, but what’s happening here feels different—it’s more like a generation quietly course-correcting. Young people are choosing presence over passive scrolling. They’re putting their phones in their pockets and their boots on the floor. It’s just like Nancy Sinatra sang in 1966: “These boots were made for walkin’, and that’s just what they’ll do.”

    It’s refreshing to know that, sixty years later, there’s still a kernel of truth in that line.

    And what Gen Z is finding there, in the middle of a line dance or on the back of a horse at sunset, is something the Internet can never replicate: the feeling of belonging somewhere real.

    You don’t have to be a country music fan to understand that. You just have to be human.

    So if you’ve been curious, maybe grab a pair of boots and find a class near you. The strangers waiting on that dance floor might just become your people.

  • A pageant winner boldly calls out her abuser in the audience during her final interview
    Alexis Smith being crowned crowned Miss Kansas in June 2024.Photo credit: Miss Kansas/Facebook
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    A pageant winner boldly calls out her abuser in the audience during her final interview

    “I took back my power—not just for myself, but for my dreams and everyone watching and listening.”

    Domestic violence survivors cheered on the winner of the 2024 Miss Kansas competition after she stood on stage and called out her abuser who showed up to the pageant. Before Alexis Smith was chosen from 26 participants in the state competition on June 8, 2024 to represent Kansas in the 2025 Miss America contest, she was asked to speak on stage about her Reclaimed Respect initiative.

    “My vision as the next Miss Kansas is to eliminate unhealthy and abusive relationships,” Smith said. “Matter of fact, some of you out in this audience saw me very emotional because my abuser is here today. But that’s not going to stop me from being on this Miss Kansas stage and from representing as the next Miss Kansas. Because I, and my community, deserve healthy relationships. We deserve a domestic [violence] free life.”

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    Respect Reclaimed is about reclaiming your power and standing firmly in it. On the night of Miss Kansas, my journey took an unexpected turn when someone I have been healing from tried to disrupt my peace. Instead of falling into silence, I chose to live out my vision for a better world. I took back my power—not just for myself, but for my dreams and everyone watching and listening. This isn’t about shunning others; it’s about turning our pain into purpose and channeling it in a way that unifies and uplifts. I’m ready to use my story, tools, and resources to end unhealthy relationships in all forms. My voice and advocacy will empower everyone to reclaim their own power in their own unique way. I might be small in stature, but I stand tall in strength, purpose, and power with hopes of inspiring others to do the same. #fyp #abuse #miss #misskansas #missamerica #pageant #awareness #me #relationship #respect #tiktok

    ♬ original sound – Alexis Smith

    In the video shared on TikTok, the freshly-crowned Miss Kansas wrote, “Respect Reclaimed is about reclaiming your power and standing firmly in it. On the night of Miss Kansas, my journey took an unexpected turn when someone I have been healing from tried to disrupt my peace. Instead of falling into silence, I chose to live out my vision for a better world. I took back my power—not just for myself, but for my dreams and everyone watching and listening.”

    She wrote that it wasn’t about shunning anyone, but about “turning our pain into purpose and channeling it in a way that unifies and uplifts.”

    “I’m ready to use my story, tools, and resources to end unhealthy relationships in all forms,” she wrote. “My voice and advocacy will empower everyone to reclaim their own power in their own unique way.

    I might be small in stature, but I stand tall in strength, purpose, and power with hopes of inspiring others to do the same.”

    People who have experienced abuse themselves applauded her advocacy.

    “As a victim of domestic violence I applaud you for speaking out!! I watched this 10 times!! I’m still getting bullied by his parents even with a no contact order. I plan on helping women like us as well.”

    “WHAT A WOMAN. This is absolutely incredible. From one survivor to another, I am SO SO proud of you for reclaiming this moment for yourself. You will do amazing things “

    “Incredibly brave of you. You just made a statement for all women. I appreciate you so much.”

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    “As an old survivor…I’m so damn PROUD OF YOU!! Love, A Stranger “

    “We got to see you ACTIVELY showcasing your platform LIVE IN PERSON! My utmost respect to you Miss Alexis. This is beyond any crown, I cannot wait to watch your journey. As someone who grew up around domestic violence, I have chills watching you. You will always have a supporter in me. You absolutely ate that. “

    “YAS GIRL! As a fellow survivor, you are an inspiration and I’m so proud of you for using your voice and showing your strength.”

    “”I experienced emotional and psychological abuse for a very long time,” Smith shared with KMUW, “and it was recognizing that I was losing control over my own personal emotions, trying to save the emotions of someone else, and so to be able to save myself. I recognize that we don’t want to both go down together. I need to be able to leave this relationship. That way, I’m able to pursue a future, because you just never know what can happen to your partner or happen to yourself when you’re in those relationships.”

    According to The Wichita Eagle, Smith uses her 19 years of experience as a ventriloquist to teach kids about healthy relationships with puppets as part of her Reclaimed Respect initiative. She also works full-time as a cardiothoracic ICU nurse. And she went on to compete at Miss America 2025 in Orlando in January, where Miss Alabama Abbie Stockard was crowned.

    This article originally appeared two years ago. It has been updated.

  • She reached out to her husband after a ‘rough week.’ His loving response was everything.
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    She reached out to her husband after a ‘rough week.’ His loving response was everything.

    “Marry him. I don’t care if you’re already married, marry him again.”

    An ideal partner isn’t just someone you can celebrate with. They’re the person who makes the bad times feel just a bit better. One husband is getting a lot of praise online for doing just that. 

    In a Reddit post titled “My Husband’s Response to My Really Bad Week Made Everything Just a Bit Better,” a wife explained how she had really been having a “rough week” on multiple levels. Not only had she faced a setback at work, but she also “accidentally ripped off a fingernail.” Talk about adding injury to insult.

    Needing to vent, she texted her husband, saying, “I think I’m having a bad day 😕 like, I’ll be fine. I just wish I could curl up on the couch and feel all the feelings and also nap for three days 😅.”

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    What followed was a text that had viewers saying she should “marry” her husband all over again. 

    From the start, her husband both validated her emotional state and reminded her that it was temporary.

    “My sweetheart,” his message began. “I know you’re going through a lot, both emotionally and physically with how draining the last week has been. I also know you’re resilient as heck and you’ll be fine, but that doesn’t make those feelings right now any less real.”

    That alone earned him major brownie points, but then he sweetened the deal—literally, with ice cream. 

    “But we’ve got a pint of Ben and Jerry’s at home…and a lot of Critical Role to catch up on,” he wrote, referencing one of their beloved television shows. “I’m all for the curling up part of your plan.” 

    Then he asked, “In the meantime, want to meet up for lunch today?”

    It’s easy to see why this response won over so many. It was emotionally aware, attentive, and generous, leaving many to call him a “certified keeper.”

    “The ‘curling up’ part of the plan is elite support honestly.”

    “Man, when someone is happily willing to just slow down with you for a bit and not find more and more reasons to be busy or not available, that’s someone that really sees you and wants to be there for you and with you. It makes it feel like it’s ok to take care of you instead of feeling guilty and like you’re just lazy.”

    Marry him. I don’t care if you’re already married, marry him again.”

    “This is what love should look like.”

    “Having a love like that is truly a blessing!” 

    On a wholesome note, it also inspired many others to share some love for their equally attentive and supportive partners. 

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    “I have one like this and it’s nearly impossible to describe to other people how very much I love and appreciate him without looking like I’m a boasting a*****. I’m just so glad you have one too.”

    “Same. I wish I could clone mine and give him out as gifts to friends I love, because I wish everyone could experience this kind of amazing love and support. It is sadly so so rare.”

    “Legends like this are one in a million!! I’m lucky enough to have one too.”

    This is what everyday romance looks like: rough weeks turned into cozy date nights, solitary struggles made more manageable by knowing someone is in your corner, and challenges transformed into opportunities for connection. It’s not necessarily the kind of romance we see in the movies, but it’s magical nonetheless.

  • She worked as a janitor at Yale hospital for 10 years. Now, she’s returning as a doctor.
    Shay Taylor-Allen worked as a janitor at Yale New Haven Hospital before becoming a doctor there.Photo credit: Shay Taylor-Allen/GoFundMe

    Shay Taylor-Allen’s dreams came true on March 20. The Howard University College of Medicine student was matched into the anesthesiology residency program at Yale New Haven Hospital—the same hospital where she was born and later worked as a janitor for 10 years.

    In an emotional clip on TikTok, Taylor-Allen shared the moment she found out she had been matched at Yale. “#1 match and so happy to come back not as a janitor this time but as a doctor!” she captioned the video.

    She told ABC News, “I was jumping up and down to the point I [thought] the concrete was going to break!”

    Taylor-Allen’s mom inspires her journey

    Back when she was just 18, Taylor-Allen took a job as a janitor at Yale New Haven Hospital to earn extra money. At the time, she didn’t know she would later pursue a career as a doctor.

    “I was working full-time as a janitor because around that time also my mom got sick, and she was in and out of hospital,” Taylor-Allen told People. “They couldn’t figure out what was going on with her.”

    @shaytaylorallen

    #1 match and so happy to come back not as a janitor this time but as a doctor! #matchday #medstudent #doctorsoftiktok

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    After years on the job, Taylor-Allen leveraged a connection she had made with the hospital’s CEO—whose trash she once emptied—according to ABC News. She reached out directly to ask for help with her mother’s care and finding a diagnosis.

    “She got back to me literally within that same day because she knew me from cleaning her room,” Taylor-Allen said. “She was like, ‘We’re going to do whatever we can to help your mom. Let me figure out what’s going on with the team.’ And within the next week, they figured out that she had a vocal cord dysfunction and everything completely changed. It was just night and day.”

    She decides to become a doctor herself

    The experience led her to pursue a career as a doctor and future patient advocate. “I started Googling how to become a doctor and I just went on from there,” she added.

    Taylor-Allen was accepted into Howard University College of Medicine in 2021 and is set to graduate in May 2026.

    “I could have never imagined that I would be going back to the same hospital that I was not only born at, but a janitor at, to be a doctor,” she told ABC News.

    To support Taylor-Allen in her journey, check out her GoFundMe.

  • Watch the tense moment Lucille Ball tells a host to take his hands off female audience members
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    Watch the tense moment Lucille Ball tells a host to take his hands off female audience members

    People laughed every time she told him ‘hands off,’ but she was stone cold serious.

    According to her daughter, Lucille Ball never considered herself a feminist, but there’s no question she blazed many a trail for women. A working mother in real life, she depicted issues facing housewives with her brilliant television comedy and became the first female studio head in Hollywood. She broke glass ceilings but wasn’t particularly outspoken about women’s rights. In fact, in a 1980 interview with People she said, “They can use my name for equal rights, but I don’t get out there and raise hell because I’ve been so liberated, I have nothing to squawk about.”

    Ball empowered women by example—and by speaking her mind. Carol Burnett shared a story on PBS about how Ball was unhappy with a script for her new show, but women at that time didn’t raise concerns about such things. Men could express criticism and demand changes, but women simply didn’t. Ball did—and firmly—despite being non-confrontational by nature. Later she told Burnett, “Kid, that’s when they put the ‘s’ at the end of my name.”

    Lucille Ball shuts down TV host 

    A video has been circulating on social media showing Ball’s no-nonsense way of speaking up when she felt the need to, and people are gushing over it.

     

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    In 1978, Ball participated in a Q & A session with UCLA theater arts students on the television program “America Alive!” The viral clip shows Ball repeatedly telling one of the hosts, David Sheehan, to take his hands off of female audience members when they were asking a question.

    “Will you take your hands off, David?” she says as he introduces one young woman. “Take your hands off of her,” she says again as he places his hand on the shoulder of another. “David, would you take your hands away?” she says as he places his hands on another woman in a sparkly gold dress.

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    People laughed every time, but Ball didn’t so much as crack a smile during her clear, simple, repeated “hands off” admonitions.

    For 1978 especially, her advocacy for the women in the audience was extraordinary. Sheehan wasn’t touching these women in a lewd or sexual manner, but he was touching them in a way that he wouldn’t have touched a man who was asking a question. Most people wouldn’t have thought much of it at the time, but Lucille Ball immediately noted it and didn’t let it stand.

    Here are some of the best comments

    “I love that she didn’t even laugh when the room was. She was not joking.”

    “‘Take your hands off her, David,’ should be a sound AND a t-shirt.”

    “He kept trying. She kept telling him. Love her.”

    “Lucille Ball always reminds me of my grandma. She hated to be seen as delicate, and she hated men that would touch her even more. She would say, stone-faced, ‘Get your paws off.’”

    “The audience laughed and she said ‘ain’t nothing funny.’ Love her”

    .”This happened to me so much growing up and I noticed from very young the boys weren’t treated this way.”

    “Even then she knew how the industry was. I LOVE IT AND LOOOOVE LUCY SO MUCH.”

    A commenter on Reddit noted that Ball started her career as a chorus girl and dancer. “She knows every creepy man trick in the book”

    The wider culture of handsy TV hosts

    Television and game shows from the 70s and 80s are an incredible time capsule of the culture and norms of the era. Sheehan wasn’t the only one who tended to get a little handsy.

    It was common for male hosts to kiss female contestants. Richard Dawson, host of The Family Feud, was famous for it. Even our beloved Bob Barker of The Price Is Right often had women suggestively reach into his jacket to fish out their $100 bill.

    Richard Dawson kissing all the women in the family. YouTube

    There’s a casual lecherous-ness that famous men seemed to get away with easily at the time. For anyone to publicly challenge them on their behavior was absolutely shocking.

    Even if Sheehan was casually touching those women out of habit and not ill intent, it’s laudable that Ball made a point of making him aware of it. Unfortunately, women are still having to deal with men touching them without being invited to, but seeing Lucille Ball’s serious face while calling it out is a good reminder that women have been fighting this battle for a long time. Good for her for using her microphone and the respect afforded her to speak up for the young women in her audience.

    This article originally appeared last year.

     

  • Singer stuns Boy George with bold take on ‘Do You Really Want to Hurt Me’
    Boy George listens to "Do You Really Want to Hurt Me" on "The Voice Australia."Photo credit: Talent Snacks/YouTube
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    Singer stuns Boy George with bold take on ‘Do You Really Want to Hurt Me’

    Sheldon Riley delivered a haunting rendition of the Culture Club hit to the pop star.

    Culture Club’s “Do You Really Want to Hurt Me” is a pop song that has stood the test of time. The hit was written by the band’s lead singer, Boy George, and topped the Billboard charts in 1982.

    It continues to resonate with younger generations. During a 2018 blind audition on Season 7 of The Voice Australia, singer Sheldon Riley performed an evocative version of the song for judge Boy George himself.

    Riley’s personal touches on the hit made a deep impact on Boy George.

    Singing to Boy George

    In the viral clip, Riley takes a few deep breaths before beginning to sing, accompanied only by a piano. “Give me time to realize my crime,” he croons, as judge Joe Jonas immediately recognizes the tune, along with Boy George.

    “I know that song,” Boy George says.

    With their ears perked, Riley continues to sing, and Boy George quickly presses the button to turn his chair. Riley immediately becomes emotional as the three remaining judges—Jonas, Delta Goodrem, and Kelly Rowland—also press their buttons.

    “I love it!” Boy George continues, as Riley keeps singing a hauntingly sad version of his major pop hit. Riley bursts into tears at the end of his performance, and Boy George sings his praises.

    “Great song!” he quips. “Obviously that song is so personal to me—it’s my own personal love story in a way. And it’s almost impossible to imagine anyone else singing it. You just added so much kind of sadness to it.”

    @cultureclubofficial

    Learn the story behind “Do You Really Want to Hurt Me” on an all new episode of #BehindTheMusic streaming now exclusively on @Paramount Plus #cultureclub #boygeorge #doyoureallywanttohurtme

    ♬ original sound – Culture Club

    Boy George quickly compliments Riley on his outfit—a purple top with large faux-fur sleeves and white ripped jeans—with Riley sharing that his look isn’t “normally accepted” by others.

    Boy George says to him, “Honey, can I just say…never, ever look for acceptance. Take me as I am—that should be your motto.”

    Later in the clip when Riley is choosing his coach, he tells Boy George, “I just want to say thank you so much. You let people like me wear what I want to wear, and put these lashes on that take thousands of years. You just inspire me so much…I’m going to go Team George!”

    The history of “Do You Really Want to Hurt Me”

    In a 2015 interview with The Guardian, Boy George said he wrote the song about his former partner, Kirk Brandon.

    “I did play the victim. That was the role I took on: ‘Oh, why are you doing this to me?’ Back in the day, I spent so much time trying to change the people I was in love with–and not trying to change myself,” he said.

    And he didn’t think it would be a hit.

    “I thought the song was too personal to be a hit and I didn’t want it to be a single. I went to Virgin and stomped my feet and sat on the stairs saying: ‘You’re going to ruin our career before we’ve even started!’, he said. “Our audience needed something to dance to, and ‘Do You Really Want to Hurt Me’ was too slow, too personal, too long. Everything about it was wrong. So its success was a big education for me: I learned that being personal was the key to touching people.”

    The song peaked at No. 2 on the Billboard charts in March 1983 and spent 25 weeks on the chart.

  • Woman says photos prove that office air changes her appearance
    Noa Donlan shows before-and-after photos.Photo credit: @noadonlan/TikTok (used with permission)
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    Woman says photos prove that office air changes her appearance

    Fluorescent lights really do a number, don’t they?

    Office workers, has this happened to you? 

    It’s 9 a.m. You arrive at your desk feeling fresh, but by noon, when you catch a glimpse of yourself in the bathroom, you barely recognize yourself. And by the end of the workday…yeesh.

    That was the case for Noa Donlan, a flag-waving “corporate girly” who couldn’t help but notice the visible difference between how she looked when clocking in and even just hours later. So she decided to document it.

    In a series of now-viral videos posted to TikTok and Instagram, we see her face transform from glowing and vibrant to puffy-eyed, with dry, gray-toned skin and hair weighed down by oil.

    @noadonlan

    I leave the house feeling fine and by 12pm my skin is dry, my eyes look tired, and my hair is oily?? tell me I’m not the only one follow for realistic 9–5 POVs 💻✨ #creatorsearchinsights

    ♬ original sound – That Office Show
    @noadonlan

    There’s something in the OFFICE air💻 Follow if this is you by 1pm in the office🤍 someone mentioned this song in the comments and I can’t remember who it was so if this was you THANK YOU for the song idea 😉 #corporategirl #officelife #workhumor #9to5 #corporategirly

    ♬ original sound – Z

    Perhaps you could blame it on unforgiving bathroom lights, but Donlan has a different theory: office air.

    And apparently, she isn’t the only one who thinks it might be to blame. Her video drew a ton of comments from people sharing similar experiences.

    ​​“I look like a sick Victorian child by lunch,” lamented one viewer. 

    Plus, there are millions of videos on TikTok from others documenting the same phenomenon, many of whom film themselves in the exact same location for before-and-after shots. The most common complaints are dry skin, a shiny forehead, oily hair, and cracked lips.

    @bypresleemae

    10 hours later and my makeup is gone, my hair is frizzy, my skin is so dry, and I’m missing nails #corporategirlies #corporategirl

    ♬ Get It Sexyy (Instrumental) – Sexyy Red
    @lifewithmorgan_m

    What are we doing to rid this?? TIPS please!! #officelife #corporate #corporategirlies #officeoutfit #officeootd Credit: @Caroline Mackenzie 💝

    ♬ original sound – CLIPSTORM

    “Office air is the most fatal of them all,” another office worker said in a video with 1.2 million views.

    “No matter how good I try to make myself look in the morning, I’m going to leave the office looking like I just ran a marathon and washed my face with grease,” they said.  

    Now, is this a Severance-level work conspiracy? Probably not. (The odds are low, but never zero.)

    However, there are some potential explanations, one of which is the air in the office, which tends to be stripped of humidity thanks to the A/C blasting nonstop.

    Plus, offices without openable windows mean the skin may get less oxygen throughout the day. This, combined with dehydration, “leaves skin looking dull and fatigued,” said skin expert Fiona Brackenbury in an interview with Refinery29.

    There’s also something to be said about the effects that reduced circulation from being stationary, stress, and squinting at screens can have on our appearance, according to the Skin Elite blog.

    Prevent “office air” from damaging skin

    Thankfully, there are expert-approved ways to combat the effects of “office air,” particularly dryness.

    Dr. Catherine Chang, a plastic surgeon, recommends using a small portable humidifier at your desk, as well as a good moisturizer or hyaluronic acid that you can reapply as needed.

    @catchangmd

    If you work in an office 9-5, this is for you. “Office air” aka “work air” might be the reason your skin gets dry and make up patchy while at work. 👀 #skincare #skincaretips #beautytok #beautytips

    ♬ original sound – Dr. Catherine Chang

    She also suggests spraying hypochlorous acid, which can help with inflammation and free radical damage. She noted that it might not actually help with dryness, but can at least leave you feeling “refreshed.”

    In addition, experts recommend serums containing niacinamide, vitamin E, and/or resveratrol, which help protect against environmental damage, support collagen production, and soothe the skin.

    As for the stress portion? That’s a harder nut to crack, but it goes to show, once again, that stress management affects us in more ways than one. Short of packing it all up to live on a cruise ship, don’t forget that some form of relaxation—whether it’s taking a few deep breaths or going for a walk during your lunch break—is vital.

    So, while “office air” might not be fully researched or proven, it serves as a reminder that our work environments shape how we feel—and even how we look—throughout the day. Hopefully, it only takes a few small adjustments to help you leave the office matching the person who walked in that morning, inside and out.

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