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Here are the ways your body changes when you’re pregnant that nobody talks about
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Having a baby is like entering a fight club. The first rule of having a kid is don't talk about having a kid. New moms end up with weird marks on their bodies, but they don't talk about how they got there or why. They just smile as they tell other women motherhood is such a joy.

There are so many other things we don't talk about when it comes to pregnancy. Hearing about the veritable war zone your body turns into is enough to snap anyone out of the highest of baby fevers, which is why so many women probably keep the truth to themselves. But it's important to talk about the changes because it normalizes them. Here are some of the ways your body changes that your health textbook isn't going to cover.


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Your feet grow

Your breasts and belly aren't the only body parts that grow during pregnancy. Your feet grow as well. Your arch height might decrease, making your feet get just a little bit bigger. It is believed that the extra weight of the baby, plus an increase in hormones that loosen ligaments are responsible for the changes in your feet.

You'll feel fatigued

Most people expect to feel fatigued when they're expecting. It's one of the pregnancy symptoms that hasn't been kept a secret. But pregnancy fatigue isn't always consistent. You're more likely to feel fatigued in the first and third trimesters, which means that you'll have enough energy to deal with all the other symptoms that occur during the second trimester.

You'll get oily skin

Other people might know you're pregnant because you have a "glow." They won't know, however, that the glow is caused by face oil. Even your skin isn't safe from your hormones, and your glands will start producing more oil. Although, that's probably one of the plus points of pregnancy – being referred to as "glowing" instead of "greasy."

You'll be at a higher risk of injury

In order to prepare your body to give birth, your body will start producing a hormone with the breezy-sounding name of relaxin. It loosens up the ligaments in your body, making it easier to pop out your kid. But it also has the unfortunate side effect of making your body more unstable, which in turn makes you more likely to get injured, which is not relaxing.

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Pregnancy brain is a thing

In the early stages of pregnancy, your body will produce more progesterone, which is a calming hormone, but it can also make you feel foggy and forgetful. Don't worry if you find yourself forgetting what you came in for every. single. time. you walk into a room. There's nothing wrong with you, you're just pregnant.

Having a kid can get ugly, but it's still a beautiful thing. The old saying "no pain, no gain" holds true for motherhood as well. As uncomfortable as pregnancy sounds, it's still worth it, because babies are friggin' cute.

Joy

1991 blooper clip of Robin Williams and Elmo is a wholesome nugget of comedic genius

Robin Williams is still bringing smiles to faces after all these years.

Robin Williams and Elmo (Kevin Clash) bloopers.

The late Robin Williams could make picking out socks funny, so pairing him with the fuzzy red monster Elmo was bound to be pure wholesome gold. Honestly, how the puppeteer, Kevin Clash, didn’t completely break character and bust out laughing is a miracle. In this short outtake clip, you get to see Williams crack a few jokes in his signature style while Elmo tries desperately to keep it together.

Williams has been a household name since what seems like the beginning of time, and before his death in 2014, he would make frequent appearances on "Sesame Street." The late actor played so many roles that if you were ask 10 different people what their favorite was, you’d likely get 10 different answers. But for the kids who spent their childhoods watching PBS, they got to see him being silly with his favorite monsters and a giant yellow canary. At least I think Big Bird is a canary.

When he stopped by "Sesame Street" for the special “Big Bird's Birthday or Let Me Eat Cake” in 1991, he was there to show Elmo all of the wonderful things you could do with a stick. Williams turns the stick into a hockey stick and a baton before losing his composure and walking off camera. The entire time, Elmo looks enthralled … if puppets can look enthralled. He’s definitely paying attention before slumping over at the realization that Williams goofed a line. But the actor comes back to continue the scene before Elmo slinks down inside his box after getting Williams’ name wrong, which causes his human co-star to take his stick and leave.

The little blooper reel is so cute and pure that it makes you feel good for a few minutes. For an additional boost of serotonin, check out this other (perfectly executed) clip about conflict that Williams did with the two-headed monster. He certainly had a way of engaging his audience, so it makes sense that even after all of these years, he's still greatly missed.

This article originally appeared on 08.21.18


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