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Boy writes soccer coach emotional letter.

Coaches can have a big impact on kids. Their role is meant to inspire hard work and work ethic, and to help develop skills to be a better athlete. Good coaches can influence immense transformation and growth, while bad coaches can cause destruction.

For one coach, his positive treatment and encouragement towards one of his young soccer players changed the little player forever. To show his appreciation, the young boy wrote a tear-jerking letter to Coach Scott, sharing how much he meant to him after previous coaches constantly put him down.

Coach Scott shared the emotional letter on social media, where he explained that he found the letter "amongst my old coaching gear." Hand-written on a sheet of lined paper, the short 11-sentence note sparked an overwhelming response among readers.

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The letter reads:

"Dear Coach Scott,
A coach once told me I was too little, but you didn't think so. A coach once told me I was too timid, but you didn't think so. A coach once told me I was too slow, but you didn't think so. A coach once told me I was too emotional, but you didn't think so. A coach once told me watching from the bench would make me better, but you didn't think so. A coach once told me I wasn't made for soccer, but you didn't think so. Another coach showed me I was good enough and all that mattered was that I loved to play. All the rest would come. Thank you Coach Scott!! You made me love soccer and gave me a chance when another coach wouldn't. I'll miss you very much."

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In the post's comments, Coach Scott added, "He is a highly intelligent young man who was wise way beyond his years. I was blown away by his writing skills the first time I read this."

Many people commended Coach Scott for his kindness to his player. "These are the real paychecks. That letter is priceless," one wrote, and Coach Scott replied, "Everyone needs someone to believe in themselves." Another wrote, "Coach Scott is a good, good man. Show the others the good, good always," and Coach Scott responded, "Thank you. Mr. Rogers said 'look for the helpers'. I became the helper for them to look for." Another touched reader wrote, "This letter says more than any trophy ever could," and Coach Scott replied, "Words are forever."

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It also spurred a discussion about the heavy and lasting impact coaches can have.

"Well done. And being that kid myself who had coaches who would pick me last in the name of min/maxing the game (or assign the varsity athletes team leaders so that they would pick last) it took a lifetime for me to reorient myself to the positive attributes of sports. So it’s refreshing when I hear stories like this from an educator who gets what’s actually important," one reader shared.

Another wrote, "I had a teacher like this. I would have dropped out of school if not for him. Incidentally, he was also a coach. Thank you for being a real one, Coach Scott!" Coach Scott replied, "Glad you never gave up. Keep fighting the good fight and thank you for your kind words."

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The Buffalo Bills just made history with its new coaching staff hire.

Kathryn Smith is their new special teams quality control coach.

On Jan. 20, 2016, the Buffalo Bills made history by naming Kathryn Smith its special teams quality control coach.

It's the very first time a woman has filled a full-time coaching position in the NFL.


Smith was an administrative assistant to the team's head coach, Rex Ryan, this season and worked by his side the past seven years (six of which were with the New York Jets).


In a statement from the Bills, Ryan said Smith has been "outstanding" and is certainly cut out for the new role.

"She has proven that she's ready for the next step," Ryan explained. "So I'm excited and proud for her with this opportunity."

The news marks another recent (and big!) step forward for women in sports.

Just this past September, Jen Welter set the bar higher when she became the first female coach in NFL history, helping to assist the linebackers for the Arizona Cardinals (it was a temporary intern position — not permanent and full-time, like Smith's).

And in July 2015, Becky Hammon cracked a glass ceiling in the NBA when she coached the San Antonio Spurs during summer league play. That's big!


But don't get too excited. Although this is all welcomed progress, we have a seriously long way to go.

Across all four major pro sports leagues in the U.S., there's still not a single female head coach (and I'd think twice before claiming it's because there aren't enough talented women to take advantage of the opportunity).

Looking at college-level athletics? Well ... the news might be even bleaker: In the NCAA, gender equality in coaching has been going in the wrong direction for years.

Former head coach of the Tennessee Lady Volunteers Pat Summitt is a true legend. In 2006, she became the first woman in NCAA basketball to win 900 career games. Photo by Doug Benc/Getty Images.

In 1972, about 90% of all college coaches in women's sports were women. That figure had fallen to just 40% in 2015. And across men's college sports teams, the percentage of coaches who are women — less than 2% — hardly registers a blip on the radar, as USA Today reported in February 2015.

"There are an absolute ton of heartbreaking stories that I hear day in and day out about females that are being forced out [of coaching positions]," Erika True, the head coach of women's soccer at Indiana State University, told the outlet last year. "There is a stigma that females are not as good as or as strong of coaches as their male counterparts."

It's a stigma people like Smith, Hammon, and Welter are helping to discredit each day they head into work.

Still, social progress rarely moves forward in a perfectly straight line. And this week, we have reason to celebrate a significant step in the right direction.

Recent years have seen women gaining ground in business, Congress, and at the box office, too. It's great to know Smith's new job with the Buffalo Bills marks yet another point on the scoreboard for gender equality in sports as well.

Photo by Tom Szczerbowski/Getty Images.