Hostingcore: The wholesome viral trend that's bringing back spontaneous hangs
"It’s about turning everyday moments into special occasions."

A wholesome new trend all about connection.
It’s a lonely world out there. According to the February 2025 issue of The Atlantic, “Americans are spending less time with other people than in any other period for which we have trustworthy data, going back to 1965.” Bleak. They also report that “a growing number of public-health officials seem to regard loneliness as the developed world’s next public-health issue,” citing Vivek Murthy’s (Joe Biden’s surgeon general) 81-page warning about America’s ‘epidemic of loneliness,’ and the fact that Japan and the United Kingdom both have ministers for loneliness now.
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However, there’s a new social media trend on the loose—a wholesome one that promises everything we seem to lack: connection with others, comfort, and immaculate vibes. Welcome to “Hostingcore,” the delightful movement that’s determined to bring people back together, one cozy gathering at a time. Design publication Veranda describes Hostingcore as “casual in nature,” but encourages you to see life through Nancy Meyers’ camera lens. Everything is romantic. You lay out place settings just because they’re pretty. Candles are lit for a sumptuous glow. There’s always a chilled bottle of wine in the fridge that’s a little nicer than it needs to be. “Hostingcore isn’t about being the perfect host,” they continue. “It’s about creating a thoughtful atmosphere and turning everyday moments into special occasions.
The loneliness problem is real
Did you know that 30% of all American adults—practically one third of us—feels lonely every single week? And that lacking social connection poses health risks as deadly as smoking up to 15 cigarettes per day? These scary statistics are perhaps why Hostingcore has gone so viral: by providing a template for having people over and entertaining friends, it makes the concept more accessible and less intimidating.
Also, there’s the financial aspect. For those looking to cut back on spending—but still want to see their friends—Hostingcore provides a space for genuine connection. This trend is all about celebrating simplicity, comfort, and good ol’ hospitality. Remember, your home is a place where memories have and will continue to be made, from an impromptu brunch or a late-night talk while making s'mores over the stove.
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There are even numbers to back up how much Hostingcore is transforming the way Americans connect. TaskRabbit’s 2024 report shows people aren’t just talking about this trend, they’re living it:
- Interior design requests skyrocketed by 17%
- Sleeper sofa installations doubled by 113%
- Mood lighting inspirations soared 42%
- Home bar set-ups surged 46%
- Even party cleaning (+20%) and decluttering (+8%) enjoyed a small bump, as people across the country carefully crafted their safe havens and spaces with inviting atmospheres that guests never want to leave.
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Let's connect
Ready to become a Hostingcore devotee? Start with these simple steps that will transform your home into a hygge oasis of your dreams:
- Stock up on essentials: Keep a lovely selection of snacks, beverages, and really quick meal options on hand. Think anything you’d want at a picnic: meats and cheeses for a charcuterie board, fresh vegetables and a nice dip (tzatziki, anyone?), fresh fruit, or finger sandwiches. For drinks, yes, a nice bottle of wine, spritzers, or beers are handy, but also consider non-alcoholic options like sparkling waters, tea, and mocktails.
- Create an inviting space: This is your home! You should enjoy being there, just as much as your guests do. Arrange furniture to encourage conversation and connection, like a breakfast nook or sitting area by the window. Have fun adding cozy touches, like an extra-soft throw blanket or ambient lighting.
- Let your personality shine: Make your space memorable with elements you truly love, like a playlist for a specific mood (YouTube’s always great for this. Try: “Calm songs for early mornings"). Maybe there’s an antique candle holder from a garage sale that can be put out, or a type of room spray you adore. Make your home uniquely yours.
- Don’t overthink it! It’s easy to fall into the trap of wanting to be the “perfect host.” Hostingcore isn’t about elaborate parties or constant hosting, it’s a simple toolkit for having people come over at the drop of a hat.
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The best advice from the Barefoot Contessa
If you don’t know where to start, remember this hosting advice from celebrity chef and cookbook author, Ina Garten: “I usually make two or three [things] and buy the rest.” Hostingcore isn’t about showing off or burning yourself out: it’s about connecting with each other and cherishing those moments. In a world filled with distractions, Hostingcore can feel like a revolution. A radical choice to move toward connection, comfort, and celebration. Let’s do it together.
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There's a reason why some people can perfectly copy accents, and others can't
Turns out, there's a neurodivergent link.
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Have you ever had that friend who goes on vacation for four days to London and comes back with a full-on Queen's English posh accent? "Oooh I left my brolly in the loo," they say, and you respond, "But you're from Colorado!" Well, there are reasons they (and many of us) do that, and usually it's on a pretty subconscious level.
It's called "accent mirroring," and it's actually quite common with people who are neurodivergent, particularly those with ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder). According Neurolaunch, the self-described "Free Mental Health Library," "Accent mirroring, also known as accent adaptation or phonetic convergence, is the tendency to unconsciously adopt the accent or speech patterns of those around us. This linguistic chameleon effect is not unique to individuals with ADHD, but it appears to be more pronounced and frequent in this population."
Essentially, when people have conversations, we're constantly "scanning" for information—not just the words we're absorbing, but the inflection and tone. "When we hear an accent, our brains automatically analyze and categorize the phonetic features, prosody, and intonation patterns," writes Neurolaunch. For most, this does result in copying the accent of the person with whom we're speaking. But those with ADHD might be more sensitive to auditory cues. This, "coupled with a reduced ability to filter out or inhibit the impulse to mimic…could potentially explain the increased tendency for accent mirroring."
While the article explains further research is needed, they distinctly state that, "Accent mirroring in individuals with ADHD often manifests as an unconscious mimicry of accents in social situations. This can range from subtle shifts in pronunciation to more noticeable changes in intonation and speech rhythm. For example, a person with ADHD might find themselves unconsciously adopting a Southern drawl when conversing with someone from Texas, even if they’ve never lived in the South themselves."
People are having their say online. On the subreddit r/ADHDWomen, a thread began: "Taking on accents is an ADHD thing?" The OP shares, "My whole life, I've picked up accents. I, myself, never noticed, but everyone around me would be like, 'Why are you talking like that??' It could be after I watched a show or movie with an accent or after I've traveled somewhere with a different accent than my 'normal.'
They continue, "Apparently, I pick it up fast, but it fades out slowly. Today... I'm scrolling Instagram, I watch a reel from a comedian couple (Darcy and Jeremy. IYKYK) about how Darcy (ADHD) picks up accents everywhere they go. It's called ADHD Mirroring??? And it's another way of masking."
(The OP is referring to Darcy Michaels and his husband Jeremy Baer, who are both touring comedians based in Canada.)
Hundreds of people on the Reddit thread alone seem to relate. One comments, "Omfg I've done this my whole life; I'll even pick up on the pauses/spaces when I'm talking to someone who is ESL—but English is my first language lol."
Sometimes, it can be a real issue for those around the chameleon. "I accidentally mimicked a waitress's weird laugh one time. As soon as she was out of earshot, my family started to reprimand me, but I was already like 'oh my god I don’t know why I did that, I feel so bad.'"
Many commenters on TikTok were shocked to find out this can be a sign of ADHD. One jokes, "Omg, yes, at a store the cashier was talking to me and she was French. She's like 'Oh are you French too? No, I'm not lol. I'm very east coast Canada."
And some people just embrace it and make it work for them. "I mirror their words or phrase! I’m 30. I realized I start calling everyone sweetie cause my manager does & I work at coffee shop."
This article originally appeared in May.