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Chanel Miller's animated short shows exactly what sexual assault survivors go through

When Chanel Miller accused Brock Turner of sexual assault, she was Emily Doe. Now, she's boldly Chanel Miller, using her name and experience to let survivors of assault know they are not alone. Miller recently came out with a five-minute animated short entitled "I Am With You." The short packs a punch, reminding survivors that they're more than what happened to them. "Nobody wants to be defined by the worst thing that's happened to them," she says in the film. The short was shared on the Viking Books YouTube page.



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At 22, Miller was sexually assaulted by Turner behind a dumpster at Stanford University while she was unconscious. After Miller read her 12-page impact statement to Turner in court, she released it online and it went viral. "When I released the statement, something else happened. The world breathed life into my words," she says in the film. "I spent all this time absorbing, absorbing, listening to their voices until I understood. Chanel knows how you get in blackouts. But Chanel also knows how to write, how to draw."


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While writing her memoir, Know My Name, Miller took breaks to draw, then turned those drawings into this powerful film. We finally see side of Miller we didn't read about in the coverage of the trial. "When you are assaulted, an identity is given to you. It threatens to swallow up everything you plan to do and be. I became Emily Doe," Miller says in a voice-over as animations drawn by her appear on screen. "Assault teaches you to shrink, makes you afraid to exist. Shame, really, can kill you."



The film includes the message that survivors shouldn't have to be bound to their trauma. "Survivors will not be boxed in, oppressed. We've had enough — enough of the shame, the disbelief, the loneliness," she says.

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Miller ends the film with a simple, yet powerful sentiment. ""No one gets to define you. You do. You do. My name is Chanel and I am with you," she says, extending the support she received to others.

Miller wasn't alone while creating the short film, either. "The film crew that worked on this piece was almost all women. Feeling their support and creating together was immensely healing," Miller wrote in a statement. "We should all be creating space for survivors to speak their truths and express themselves freely. When society nourishes instead of blames, books are written, art is made, and the world is a little better for it."

It's inspiring to see Miller write her own story, instead of being defined by the one that was given to her. Nobody can truly take away who you are. It's important to hear reminders of that. You get to say who you are, not the person who harmed you.

Hold on, Frankie! Mama's coming!

How do you explain motherhood in a nutshell? Thanks to Cait Oakley, who stopped a preying bald eagle from capturing her pet goose as she breastfed her daughter, we have it summed up in one gloriously hilarious TikTok.

The now viral video shows the family’s pet goose, Frankie, frantically squawking as it gets dragged off the porch by a bald eagle—likely another mom taking care of her own kiddos.

Wearing nothing but her husband’s boxers while holding on to her newborn, Willow, Oakley dashes out of the house and successfully comes to Frankie's rescue while yelling “hey, hey hey!”

The video’s caption revealed that the Oakleys had already lost three chickens due to hungry birds of prey, so nothing was going to stop “Mama bear” from protecting “sweet Frankie.” Not even a breastfeeding session.

Oakley told TODAY Parents, “It was just a split second reaction ...There was nowhere to put Willow down at that point.” Sometimes being a mom means feeding your child and saving your pet all at the same time.

As for how she feels about running around topless in her underwear on camera, Oakley declared, “I could have been naked and I’m like, ‘whatever, I’m feeding my baby.’”

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Kevin Ford with his daughter Seryna.

Kevin Ford, the Las Vegas airport Burger King employee whose story went viral after he displayed the meager goodie bag he received after 27 years of never missing a day of work, might have started off feeling less than hopeful. But after his story reached the masses, his faith in humanity has been restored.

The original video showed the 54-year-old displaying the bag’s mediocre contents: a reusable Starbucks cup, one singular movie ticket, a couple of pens, a lanyard, some keychains and cheap candy (no offense Reese's and Life Savers).


@thekeep777 He's Worked for the Company for Almost 3 Decades and Has Never Called Out!!!😵💫🥺😱😭 #Grateful #Dads #FathersDay #Loyalty #Honor #WorkersUnite #Rewards #Thankful #NorrinRadd777 #theKeep777♬ Slide (feat. Frank Ocean & Migos) - Calvin Harris


Despite receiving a “gift” more equivalent to convention swag than a display of employee loyalty, Ford shared authentic gratitude.

“I’m happy about anything, I’m thankful for anything I get,” Ford told TMZ, “but, like most big corporations, they’ve kind of lost touch with their workers.” Ford added that before the start of the COVID-19 pandemic, employees would receive anniversary checks, sharing that he initially thought that’s what the movie ticket was.

TMZ later reported that after Ford’s video began circulating everywhere, he received a flood of new job opportunities from potential employers near and far—including one position restoring classic cars and another working at a beachside restaurant in South Carolina. However, as he was close to retirement at his current job, Ford passed.

That’s when Seryna, Ford’s daughter, created a GoFundMe campaign.
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Goodbye. Maureen. Your "favorite child" will miss you.

What makes a good obituary? First, it should probably reflect the essence of the recently deceased person in an authentic, honest light. Second, it should feel personal, showing how that person’s life affected the lives of others. Then, of course, the right dash of humor can certainly help spark joy in an otherwise solemn moment.

New York Times journalist Caity Weaver achieved all those things masterfully in a eulogy written for her mother—the coupon-clipping, chronically late, green-thumbed Dr. Maureen Brennan-Weaver.

Caity clearly put her knack with words to good use, because her hilarious tribute quickly went viral on Twitter, leaving people not only with a good giggle, but a very precise picture of her mom.
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