Singer honors trans fan by giving her a new name, and no one could contain their joy
“Now that’s a baptism."

This is how you change someone's life
What is queer joy? The absolute bliss of being truly seen. It’s the freedom of being able to express your unique identity, and not just being tolerated, but celebrated.
And that’s exactly what makes a recent concert video, which spontaneously became a beautiful new name ceremony for a young trans woman, such a must-watch.
The heartwarming moment happened between bisexual singer-songwriter Beth McCarthy—whose songs focus on advocating for queer identity—and an enthusiastic fan in the front row who sweetly asked McCarthy to help choose her new name, as her deadname, David, “didn’t fit anymore.”
Without missing a beat, McCarthy confidently said, “Take my hand,” and told her “I think the name Luna is really beautiful.”
Instantly the trans girl—and the entire crowd—went wild.
@bethmaymccarthy this might be the most magical “what do you call it?” i’ve ever done. luna you will forever be in my heart thank you for giving me the HONOUR to choose your new name, i hope it helps you to shine even brighter than you already do 💙🩷🤍 can’t wait to come to the UK to do this all again in november - ticket link in my bio! #queer #trans #transgender #hopecore #whatdoyoucallit ♬ original sound - Beth McCarthy
To make things even more touching, McCarthy then added, “I was gonna save it for me having a kid, but actually I think that you look beautiful, and you shine like the moon!”
Luna was, of course, elated.
“I think I’m your kid now, I think you’re adopting me,” she said through tears. McCarthy wholeheartedly agreed. “You are my kid now!”
The two then shared a loving hug before McCarthy officially “knighted” her as Luna forevermore. As icing on the cake, she even dedicated the next song to her. Talk about making a dream come true.
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But it wasn’t just Luna who was deeply impacted that night. McCarthy wrote on her video's caption: “Thank you luna for trusting me with the incredible honour to choose your new name, i hope it helps you to shine even brighter than you already do. you will forever be in my heart.”
Not only that, viewers on both TikTok and Instagram were equally moved.
“Now that’s a baptism girl,” one person joked
“The way her entire being lit up when she said Luna. This is literally the most precious thing ever” said another.
A third wrote, “This is how easy it is to make a MASSIVE difference in someone's life.”
As many noted, seeing transness recognized, honored even, felt especially nourishing in a time when things seem so bleak. As one person aptly put it, “Everything is awful right now, it’s so to see unadulterated love, acceptance, and *TRANS JOY.” This is so lovely and I hope Luna’s life stays magical.”
Indeed, for so many in the LGBTQ community, joy is hard earned. It takes time, effort, and sometimes even traveling miles away from home to find this kind of belonging. That goes especially for trans folks, who generally face far more discrimination and violence against them than others in this already marginalized group.
But that’s what makes moments of pure queer/trans joy like these all the more priceless, and all the more vital to share. It shows us how beautiful life can be, if only we prioritize humanity and compassion.
Aside from being a truly lovely person, McCarthy is also a bona fide rockstar. Give her stuff a listen on Spotify, Instagram, or TikTok.
And to Luna: keep shining.