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6 times Ariana Grande awesomely proved she isn’t here for casual sexism.

In recent days, the pop star’s made headlines for all the right reasons. Here are a few more examples.

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Parker Molloy

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Ariana Grande is perhaps best known for her pop vocal prowess, but she’s also a pretty badass feminist.

It’s OK if you hadn’t noticed (I wasn’t especially aware of this, either) as the media has a tendency to focus more on her behavior as it pertains to things like Donutgate (aka the time she said “I hate America“) as opposed to, say, the times she’s shut down body-shamers and music industry sexism.

Below are six times Ariana Grande showed off her feminist bona fides.

1. That time she made it clear that’s she’s not here for body-shamers.

After seeing someone tweet “Got asked if I’d prefer @arielwinter1 or @ArianaGrande lol, it wud DEFINITELY be @arielwinter1 curves are sexy sticks aren’t,” Grande typed up an epic response about body shaming and pitting women against themselves:

“We live in a day and age when people make it IMPOSSIBLE for women, men, anyone to embrace themselves exactly how they are. Diversity is sexy! Loving yourself is sexy! You know what is NOT sexy? Misogyny, objectifying, labeling, comparing and body shaming!!! Talking about people’s bodies as if they’re on display ASKING for your approval/opinion. THEY ARE NOT!!! CELEBRATE YOURSELF. CELEBRATE OTHERS. The things that make us different from one another make us BEAUTIFUL. BODY BOUNDARIES. LOVE LOVE LOVE ONLY.”

Winter, who stars on “Modern Family,” responded, and the patriarchy blew up like the Death Star (OK, not really, but it was a very cool moment).

2. That time she handled ridiculous questions during a recent radio interview by turning the tables on the DJs.

Grande recently appeared on Power 106 Los Angeles to discuss her new single, “Focus.” During the course of the 26-minute interview, there were a few moments worthy of eye-rolls.

The first was when she was given a strange hypothetical question about whether she’d rather go without makeup or her phone for the rest of her life.

The second was when one of the interviewers suggested that certain emojis were “girls’” and certain were “boys.’” She had some thoughts on that, as well.

3. That time she and her mom teamed up to tackle gender equality at the newsstand (or at least highlight it).

Just in case you’re wondering where Grande gets her feminist streak, you can thank her mom Joan.

And I could’ve ended this twitter conversation here, as it illustrates my point well enough, but the next two tweets are too beautiful to leave out:

4. That time back in June, when Grande went on an epic rant about sexism — both in the media and society as a whole.

“I am tired of living in a world where women are mostly referred to as a man’s past, present or future PROPERTY/POSSESSION,” she writes. For more highlights, check out this post over at Bustle.

5. All the times when she’s been all about voicing support for women, especially on International Women’s Day.

You won’t usually see Grande using her social platform (with its tens of millions of followers) to tear into other women. Mostly, you’ll find stuff like this, meant to lift and inspire other women to keep kicking ass. She’s far from perfect, but aren’t we all?

6. She’s not about to let other women bring her down either — even if they’re people she idolizes.

In an interview with The Telegraph, Middler shared her thoughts on the “pornification” of the music industry.

“It’s terrible! It’s always surprising to see someone like Ariana Grande with that silly high voice, a very wholesome voice, slithering around on a couch, looking so ridiculous. I mean, it’s silly beyond belief and I don’t know who’s telling her to do it. I wish they’d stop. But it’s not my business, I’m not her mother. Or her manager. Maybe they tell them that’s what you’ve got to do. Sex sells. Sex has always sold.”

Later, Middler added, “You don’t have to make a whore out of yourself to get ahead. You really don’t.”

Taken aback after getting slammed by one of her idols, Grande responded by tweeting a picture of Middler doing her mermaid routine, captioning it, “Bette was always a feminist who stood for women being able to do whatever the F they wanted without judgement! Not sure where that Bette went, but I want that sexy mermaid back!!! Always a fan no matter what my love.”

Maybe you don’t like her music or you still feel weird about that whole doughnut thing, but at least give her credit for this.

People aren’t perfect, and yes, your favorite will always be problematic. Even so, Ariana Grande deserves some major props for taking a stand on issues affecting her and all women. Way to go, Ariana!

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    ♬ original sound – Alexander Polinsky

    Polinsky was seven years old in 1982, when Henson’s dark fantasy film The Dark Crystal was in theaters. His mother worked at a gallery hosting an exhibition on the film. Henson was there when young Polinsky was visiting, and his mother pushed him to ask the creator a question:

    “She pushed me in front of him. I was the only kid, besides my two other friends, that were in the whole place that morning. And I said, ‘How did you make this stuff?’ And instead of saying ‘hot glue and learn to sew,’ he said, ‘First, gather a group of people around you that you love and that love you. And give them an idea that has enough empty space in it so that they can take it on and make it their own. And when you get it back, it’s more beautiful than you ever thought possible.’”

    Polinsky ended his video by saying, “So make art with the people that you love.”

    Jim Henson and George Lucas. Photo credit: AP Wirephoto/Wikimedia Commons

    Henson loved to collaborate with people who thought differently

    Steve Whitmire, a Muppet performer who eventually took over as Kermit (Henson’s signature character) after his death, told D23.com that Henson believed in the power of the ensemble. A great example was when The Muppet Show won an Emmy for Outstanding Comedy–Variety or Music Series in 1978.

    “I remember Jim’s Emmy acceptance speech very well because he made eye contact with me,” Whitmire, who was newly hired at the time, said. “I was in the third row, and he was looking at me. He was kind of uncomfortable onstage as himself to some degree, but he said, ‘I just want to let everybody know that this is not about me, it’s about our group and our group dynamic.’”

    “‘Appreciate each other for your differences and not for your similarities’ was a theme that went through all of his work,” the creator’s son, Brian Henson, added. “Clearly, this was a wonderful message that got picked up all around the world. Everyone got it, everywhere.”

    Henson’s belief in providing space for his creative partners shows that he had an astonishing lack of ego—rare in the world of entertainment—and an incredible amount of faith in his collaborators. But it must have been a lot easier for him to keep his faith in those around him because their relationship was based on a power even greater than artistic integrity: love.

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  • A linguist from Alabama explains the surprising origin story of the Southern word ‘y’all’
    The history of the word "y'all." – Photo credit: Wikimedia Commons
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    A linguist from Alabama explains the surprising origin story of the Southern word ‘y’all’

    It’s coming for y’all.

    Emily Shiffer

    Head anywhere in the Southern United States, and you are likely to hear one distinct word: “y’all.” “Y’all,” which combines the words “you” and “all,” may be predominantly used in the South—but not for long.

    Paul E. Reed, a linguist at the University of Alabama who studies Southern American English and Appalachian English, told NPR in 2025 that “it’s expanded much more outside of the South” thanks to Americans under 40. (Add it to the list of Gen Z slang.)

    How “y’all” entered the English vernacular is a fascinating tale. Linguist Danny Hieber, PhD, explained the origin story of “y’all” to his TikTok followers—and it stems from a surprising language.

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    ♬ original sound – Linguistic Discovery – Danny Hieber, PhD

    A linguist explains the ‘y’all’ backstory

    According to Hieber, present-day English doesn’t have a plural form of the word “you” like other languages. In Old English, there were three forms of “you”:

    • Thou (subject)
    • Thee (object)
    • Thine (possessive)

    Hieber goes on to explain that “you” became singular thanks to French. In French, “you” translated to:

    • Tu (singular)
    • Vous (plural + polite)

    “After the Norman Conquest of England in 1066, French had a huge influence on English,” he said. “So English speakers started borrowing that pattern into English and used ‘you’ to politely address one person.”

    He added that over time, this became the default way to address a single person. Along those same lines, the word “be” also followed suit.

    “It used to be that the verb ‘be’ was conjugated like this,” explained Hieber, with the plural use becoming “are.” “That singular verb got pulled along into the singular too, and now the conjugation of ‘be’ looks like this:”

    • I am / we are
    • Thou art / you are
    • He, she, it is / they are

    However, it created a “gap,” and “English speakers have been trying to settle on a ‘you [plural]’ ever since,” said Hieber. Enter: y’all.

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    Where and how did the word “Y’all” begin in the southern United States? #genteelandbard #savannah #storytime #historytok #southerncharm

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    The history of ‘y’all’ in the South

    There are many theories as to how y’all infiltrated American English in the 1700s, per NPR. One theory states that it has British origins, where the words “ye” and “aw” were combined and used in the British Isles. From there, Scots-Irish immigrants brought it to Appalachia in the U.S.

    The other theory is that it originated in West Africa, and when enslaved people were brought from there to the South, it began to spread. After the Great Migration, Black Americans brought the term north with them, expanding its use.

    However, the term “you guys” is still commonly used in most Northern states. There are also many regional variations throughout the country, including “yinz” (used in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania) and “youse” (used in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania).

    Americans respond

    Viewers had lots of opinions on Hieber’s video, including how different regions have termed the plural form of “you”—and their thoughts on y’all:

    “Sorry… y’all is singular all y’all is plural.”

    “In the upper Ohio Valley, we also say things like, ‘All yinz guys,’ a sort of amalgamation of Pittsburgh’s ‘yinz’ (we’re an hour away), and the Midwest ‘you guys.’”

    “From CA but living in the south..I just cannot bring myself to say y’all..feels so unnatural.”

    “Washington born and y’all made it into my vocab.”

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  • 7-year-old boy obsessed with UPS asks for a themed birthday party, and his mom delivers big time
    A 7-year-old boy obsessed with UPS gets the birthday party of his dreams. – Photo credit: @jenchilla156/TikTok
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    7-year-old boy obsessed with UPS asks for a themed birthday party, and his mom delivers big time

    Even UPS wanted to get in on the fun.

    Heather Wake

    Autistic special interests are intense, deeply focused passions or hobbies that provide joy, structure, and anxiety regulation, often serving as a key part of an autistic person’s identity. 

    For Jenny Grant, her seven-year-old son Sebastian had a special interest in UPS. This naturally meant having a UPS-themed birthday party. 

    Technically, Sebastian only asked his mom for “a chocolate UPS cake,” along with “a million people” for his birthday, as she shared with People. But his mom made up for that latter request by going all out on the decor.

    In a now-viral (and very adorable) TikTok video, we see an array of brown and gold balloons, banners, and other favors with a UPS sticker placed on top, as well as actual UPS packages and a tiny cardboard cutout of a UPS center. Plus the pièce de résistance: a UPS cake. 

    @jenchilla156

    SO to the @UPS store for contributing to their future delivery driver’s birthday party 🙏 #autismacceptance #autismawareness #ups #birthdayparty #autism

    ♬ Chopin Nocturne No. 2 Piano Mono – moshimo sound design

    In her video’s caption, Grant wrote, “Having a ‘normal’ birthday party theme with an autistic son. Level: impossible.” 

    As Grant told People, her local UPS was a major help with her plan. Her own mother went there while procuring decorations, mentioned the themed party they were throwing, and the store gave logos, packaging materials, and even some pens as party favors—all to give the shindig some extra authenticity, free of charge.

    Wild birthday party themes

    The super-cute clip inspired viewers to share how their own kids’ ultra-niche passions led to some pretty wild birthday party themes:

    “My son is obsessed with 20th Century Fox.”

    “My son is obsessed with Home Depot.”

    UPS, UPS near me, autism, autistic special interest, autistic kids
    Home Depot-themed birthday party. Photo credit: @jenchilla156/TikTok

    “My son’s hyperfixation is pool filters. He had a pool filter cake for his birthday.”

    “Mine wanted a broccoli-themed party. Undiagnosed, but we are pretty sure.” 

    “My brother had a coleslaw-themed party a few years ago.”

    “My sister had a Circle K theme for her 10th birthday…the local Circle K gas station sponsored everything for free.”

    How did Sebastian like his UPS party?

    Judging by this video, we’d say he liked it very much.

    @jenchilla156

    Replying to @UPS excuse the weird editing! Trying to respect everyone’s privacy 😅 #ups #birthdayboy #reaction #autismacceptance #birthdayparty

    ♬ Stuff We Did (from ‘Up’) – Piano Version – your movie soundtrack

    How stinking cute was that? His little “ohhhhh my goodness” shoots straight to the heart. And, as Grant pointed out, the way Sebastian’s party blew up online did sort of fulfill his initial request.

    “In a crazy way, his celebration ended up being shared with well over the million people he asked for!” said Grant. 

    One more wholesome chapter

    UPS apparently reached out and offered to arrange a visit with a UPS driver so Sebastian can “see the truck up close.”

    “I haven’t told him yet, but I have my fingers crossed,” Grant told People. “It would absolutely make his year!”

    Sebastian’s UPS party may not have been “normal” by traditional standards, but it was perfect for him. That’s what truly makes a birthday unforgettable.

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