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This Video Would Have Made Even Neil Armstrong Cry
These pioneers are less about the Oregon Trail and more into finding new ways to speed across the intergalactic highway. The dubstep is a nice touch, too.
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Leading pet brand Nulo knows every cat and dog has the power to be incredible.
2024 was a year filled with heartwarming stories that reminded us of the incredible bond between humans and their furry companions. From acts of bravery to heartwarming gestures, these pets made a huge impact on the lives of their ownersโฆ and the lives of many, many more.
Itโs stories like these that continue to inspire leading pet nutrition brand Nulo, which is committed to helping pets live their best lives with functional, delicious and nutritious food. Through their innovative and intentional formulas, Nulo fuels incredible cats and dogs just like the ones below each and every day.
Enjoy some stories below of 2024โs goodest boys and girls โ courageous dogs, trauma-informed kitties and much, much more โthat really show the unwavering love and loyalty animals bring into our lives. Their inspiring actions fuel incredible.
When a 71-year-old man went unconscious and collapsed during a steep hike, his golden retriever and a black labrador instinctively broke up into a rescue team โ the smart and resourceful labrador going off to look for help, and the loyal goldie staying by its owner's side. Sometimes itโs smart to have two of โmanโs best friends.โ
Marley, a seven-year-old, black and white feline known for his "incredible gift of empathyโ won Cat Protection's National Cat of the Year 2024 for the way he comforts women who have been enslaved, exploited and trafficked and staying at the Caritas Bakhita Safe House in London. Heโs known to often leave a reassuring paw on guestsโ legs to โlet them know theyโre not alone,โ a gesture often called โthe first kindness theyโve experienced in years.โ
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In early 2024, Kobe, a four-year-old husky with an extraordinary sense of smell, began digging obsessively in the yard. At first the poochโs owner, Chanell Bell, thought this was just typical behavior, but soon discovered that Kobe had indeed detected a dangerously large cloud of natural gas that would have not only been seriously life-threatening to her, but the entire neighborhood. Itโs like they say, โthe nose knows.โ
Eight-year-old golden retriever Roger, may have failed his drug-sniffing training in Taiwan, but it turns out he has a knack for rescue operations during natural disasters. After a 7.4-magnitude earthquake struck, Roger dug through the rubble of a collapsed building to locate the body of one of the 13 people killed in the quake, offering closure to a grieving family. This earned him the nickname of โthe pride of Taiwanโ on social media.
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โ Animals Fucking Dying ๐ (@AnimalNmlfckng) January 27, 2024
Dogs donโt only save humans โ sometimes they rescue other animals as well.
When folks scrolling through the X account called โAnimals Dyingโ saw a video of a creature swimming through murky water with a deer fawn in its jaws, they probably assumed it was an alligator enjoying its latest meal. But to everyoneโs surprise and delight, it was actually a Labrador Retriever making sure the sweet little fawn didnโt drown.
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โ Cilla the Outwoods Cat - Priscilla Outwoods (@OutwoodsCat) September 28, 2024
Once a stray, 12-year-old Cilla found her home at Outwoods Primary School in Warwickshire, England, where she calms anxious students, inspires a community of cat lovers on X, and has even used her social media celebrity to help raise ยฃ5,000 to restock the school library โ a place she loves to lounge in.
In July, Bloodhound puppy and K-9 unit member Remi used his powerful nose to help an autistic and non-verbal boy who had gotten lost find his way back home. Deputy B. Belk, Remiโs partner, used a piece of sterile gauze to collect the scent from the boyโs forearms and the back of his neck and had Remi โreverseโ track backwards for about half a mile to locate the childโs home in a nearby neighborhood.
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When a beautiful pooch named Gita saw her 84-year-old owner fall and hurt his leg, she ran down to the main road, and refused to move until someone stopped to help. Eventually she was seen by a man named Deputy Wright, who tried to get Gita into his patrol car, but the dog wouldnโt budge. When Gita did finally bolt off, Wright followed her down to where the man had been stranded, and was able to help him. Without her protection, who knows if the man would have been found in time? โThe loyalty and heroism of our furry friends never cease to amaze us,โ Wright would end up writing on Facebook.
If thereโs an incredible furry friend in your own life, nothing says โthank youโ quite like a nourishing meal. Check out Nulo for a variety of recipes sure to be loved by your beloved pet.
This will ease social anxiety at your next party.
Many people, especially those who are introverted and shy, are uncomfortable making small talk with someone new, whether theyโre at a party, work event, or just standing in line at the grocery store. However, a Harvard study revealed a simple 3-step trick to make you more likable and conversations more comfortable.
The researchers found that when approaching someone you have never met, asking a question and then 2 follow-up questions dramatically increases your likeability. The study was conducted by Harvard researchers and published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology.
โWe identify a robust and consistent relationship between question-asking and liking,โ the study's authors write. โPeople who ask more questions, particularly follow-up questions, are better liked by their conversation partners.โ
The study should be a big relief to shy people and introverts who are not interested in trying to impress people by going on and on about themselves.
According to the research, when you meet someone new at a party, the important thing is to approach them like itโs an interview, and you are the journalist. You just need one strong opening question and then you can follow up 2 times by asking them to clarify what they meant or expand on something they said.
โThink to yourself, I need to ask at least five questions in this conversation, or I need to ask questions in this conversation, listen to the answers, and ask follow-up questions. Itโs easy to do, and โ even better โ requires almost no preparation,โ Alison Wood Brooks, assistant professor and Hellman Faculty Fellow at Harvard Business School and a co-author of the study, said, according to Forbes.
People like those who ask follow-up questions not only because they enjoy talking about themselves. It also shows that their conversation partner is actively listening. They are paying attention, not looking over your shoulder at someone else. โFollow-up questions are an easy and effective way to keep the conversation going and show that the asker has paid attention to what their partner has said,โ the researchers write.
The findings counter the strategy many use when meeting someone for the first time, whether on a blind date or at a networking event. For many, the first step is to try and impress the new person, but research shows thatโs not the case.
Two people talking at a party.via Antoni Shkraba/Pexels
โThe tendency to focus on the self when trying to impress others is misguided,โ the studyโs authors wrote, adding that โredirecting the topic of conversation to oneself, bragging, boasting or dominating the conversation, tend to decrease liking.โ
Itโs a pretty simple concept: people like talking about themselves and if you allow them, theyโll like you more. โCompared to those who do not ask many questions, people who do are better liked and learn more information from their conversation partners,โ Brooks said. โThis strategy does both. Itโs an easy-to-deploy strategy anyone can use to not only be perceived as more emotionally intelligent but to actually be more emotionally intelligent as well.โ
One of the studies cited by the authors focused on online dating and found that asking follow-up questions meant a greater chance of getting a second date. The researchers found that the top third of question-askers got the most second dates. When researchers looked at face-to-face speed daters, where they met 20 people at a time, they found that asking one more question on each date would help someone succeed in getting a โyes I want to see you againโ on one more date.
The 3-question rule has some caveats. You should make sure you're having a conversation, not an interrogation. โAsking a barrage of questions without disclosing information about yourself may come across as guarded, or worse, invasive,โ Brooks says.
Some folks having fun at a party.via Pavel Danilyuk/Pexels
While itโs important to ask questions when you meet someone new, you canโt let them do all the talking. Research shows that the perfect conversation ratio is 43:57. You do 43% of the talking and 57% of the listening. The goal is to make your conversation partner and new friend think, โWow, that person really gets meโ by the time the conversation ends.
The next time you find yourself in a social situation, you can feel a bit more relaxed knowing there is a scientifically proven way to ensure that people will find you likable and a good conversationalist. Remember the three-question rule: Open with a question and then ask 2 follow-ups.
This article originally appeared in September.
Who wouldnโt be excited?
Dogs of every breed tend to get excited over the littlest things, but Golden Retrievers are just a bit extra whether its with their favorite toys, snacks, or in this case, their beds.
One proud goldie named Winston is winning hearts online thanks to his adorable reaction to a dog bed upgrade. It's honestly understandableโthe bed is more of a mini couch. Who wouldnโt be excited?
Winstonโs mom, Ashley Jance, not only manages to capture the wholesome moment, but provides the perfect narration.
"This is my old bed... and THIS is my new bed!" Jance says as, indeed, we see Winston jump on one bed then bound to the other as though he were a kid on Christmas showing off his new toys.
And, just like a kid, Winston doesnโt love the idea of sharing as indicated by his playful growls when Dad tries to sit on his new plush throne.
โHeโs like, โget up!โโ Jance says through giggles.
Down in the comments, viewers seemed to catch Winstonโs enthusiasm.
โI love this for you Winston!โ one person exclaimed.
Another added, โthat is the cutest thing Iโve seen in a long time.โ
@wackowinston im very proud and excited
โฌ original sound - Winston The Golden
Of course, not all dogs might take to dog beds as happily as Winston did. A 2012 survey by the American Pet Products Association found that 62% of small dogs, 41% of medium-sized dogs, and 32% of large dogs sleep with their owners.
It's a trend not soon to break. In 2022, Psychology Today reported that 76% of American dog owners allows their dogs to sleep with them.
Still, even for pups who donโt take to their own bed immediately, there are certain steps to take to make their beds seem a bit more appealing. Mostly, it takes establishing routine and safety along with some patience as a pet owner.
Of course, if traditional training doesn't work, pet owners could just show their furry friends this video of Winston because boy is his energy contagious!
If you're interested in getting your own pup a bed like Winston's, they're available on Amazon.
This article originally appeared March.
"How your mind stays young while your body starts to slow down."
Many of us feel invincible when we are young, believing we can control the aging process so that weโll always stay forever young, as Bob Dylan once sang. But thereโs a moment when everyone realizes aging is an inevitable process and that, eventually, we will have to deal with a slow decline in our physical and, quite possibly, mental capabilities.
This realization and understanding that we wonโt be here forever can profoundly change oneโs perspective on life. Even though aging is inevitable, studies show how we think about the process can significantly impact our longevity. People with a positive view of aging live an average of 7.5 years longer than those without.
Things happen as we age that are impossible to describe to younger people. However, a group of Redditors did an excellent job of explaining the truths about aging that they were not โpreparedโ for in a recent thread that made a lot of people feel seen. A user named sofiagympixie asked the AskReddit forum, โWhatโs a truth about aging that no one prepared you for?โ and it received over 2,700 responses.
A big takeaway is that many people feel like they stop mentally aging at a certain point, usually in their late 20s. Still, the continued physical aging they experience makes them feel like they cannot relate to the person in the mirror.
Here are 17 of the most profound responses to the question: Whatโs a truth about aging that no one prepared you for?
1. There is an end
"You start to realize the older you get that the end is closer than the beginning and you still feel like you have so much more to do."
"That moment where you start to get a sense that there is an end."
2. It takes energy to keep everything afloat
"No one prepared me for how much energy and time it takes to maintain everythingโlike health, relationships, and just staying organized. Itโs way more work than I expected!"
3. Mind/body detachment
"How your mind stays young while your body starts to slow down. You still feel like the same person youโve always been, but suddenly you notice little things changing."
"This was such a surprise to me. I really expected to feel psychologically older as I aged. But physically, oh my body has betrayed me... Eyes... hair (gray, but at least I still have it)... back... knees... hips... prostate."
4. The past feels closer than it is
"When you get a flashback of a good memory and you realize that was over 10 years ago."
"When I told my daughter about something I did 24 years ago, I had to pause for a moment."
Time flies isn't just a saying. Psychologists agree that our minds lump time together based on novel experiences. When we are older, the days are a lot more similar than when we were young children. That's why when you're 80, time moves a lot faster than it did when you were 8.
5. Stuck in the wrong time
"Iโm 61, and sometimes I feel like this world is not for me anymore. I feel almost like an imposter. For example, I canโt find clothes I like that fit correctly, TV is abhorrent, only old music sounds pleasant, shoes are uncomfortable, I donโt recognize most celebrities or famous people in the news or tabloids, and I donโt understand the need for most new and supposedly exciting products. Iโm an educated person, I still work and have an active life. Iโm not a recluse. But a little at a time, I feel the world is moving on without me. I finally understand why, in her final years, my mother only watched movies from the 1950s and reminisced about the past more than she talked about the present. Her world was long gone."
6. You lose friends
"If you choose not to have kids, you may end up losing your friends. I turn 40 this year, and my partner and I don't see many folks these days. Parents like to hang out with other parents. And I don't have a grudge, I totally see the value for playdates, etc. But it can be a little lonely."
"To be fair, I have 2 kids and lost a lot of friends because we simply donโt have the time/energy to connect regularly enough to maintain a healthy friendship. It instead falls into an awkward acquaintance stage where enough time passes between communication, and youโre not sure if reaching out to connect comes across weird."
7. Your parents are aging, too
"It's not just you who is getting old. Your parents are getting even older."
"I feel this. Lost my mom 2 weeks before my 21st birthday. 40 now with 2 kids. I get angry/sad at a lot of milestones like my wedding and kids' stuff โcause my mom was robbed of them, and I was robbed of her."
8. Time wasted caring about other people's opinions
"Itโs so freeing when that old twinge of 'why donโt they like me' pops up, and then I remember that I can not be bothered by that anymore, and magically, I donโt care!"
"Just wasting time in general. No thanks. I want to do as many things as possible!"
9. Your friends die
"Your friends start to die. It's something I never thought about."
10. Time flies
"Man. I donโt even feel like the days are long anymore. I just keep blinking and the weeks go by."
"Yup, wake up, eat breakfast, do a couple things. Wait, itโs lunch already? Eat lunch, do a couple more things, time to prep dinner. Eat dinner, clean up, fix a few things, itโs 9 pm. I guess itโs almost time to get ready for bed? This times 10,000 for me."
11. The monotony sets in
"You will realize that you hate planning meals and making food every single day. It's boring, and it's too easy to fall into monotony. But you have to make lunch again and then plan for dinner again then make dinner again and what do you want to eat tomorrow so you plan for breakfast tomorrow and get up and make breakfast again and then plan for lunch again...."
12. You become invisible to much of society
"I wondered what felt off the last year. Gen Z is everywhere now, and I'm still asking myself when that happened."
13. Adults aren't real
"When you're a kid, you can't wait to 'grow up,' and then you do, and you're still you, just older. That voice inside your head doesn't change, but what you see in the mirror does. Only now you're just older and saddled with bills and stress and all of life's 'surprises.' On top of this, everyone is winging it. Absolutely everyone. Because the idea of order and a civilized society is an illusion. We're all playing by made up rules and making imaginary money and all the rest of it. A one-dollar bill costs just as much to print as a hundred-dollar bill."
14. Priorities change
"Things that seemed so important when you were younger, really are not important."
15. Younger people's reverence
"I'm middle-aged, and a funny thing is how younger people get self-conscious or apologize when there is no need. For example, they will apologize for swearing around me or mentioning something like (gasp) drinking, or drugs, or sleeping around. I think it's funny. Why would being on earth longer make me easier to scandalize? I've seen and done things that would shock them, lol, but to them I'm a very proper-looking classy older lady."
16. Ageism
"Doors start closing once you reach a certain age."
"Ageism is real. I just turned 50 and am in a young person's career (software development). I feel how hiring managers look at me when asked to turn my camera on, during an interview that was going very well and suddenly it's 'we'll get back to you.'"
17. It all catches up
"Things like drinking, eating unhealthily, smoking, spending ... they will catch up. When you're young you think you're different, or you think that when it does catch up you'll be old so who cares, I won't care when I'm old anyway. You will care, though. You'll still be you. Those things won't seem like an issue right up to the moment they are. And then it's too late to take them back."
Viral 'no-buy quarter' hacks show how to avoid spending money for months at a time
As we move into the middle of December and hopefully start winding down the annual holiday spend-a-palooza, many are already looking ahead to their 2025 savings goals. In the spirit of Movember or Dry January โ those feel-good challenges that mix self-improvement with a bit of group accountability โ TikTok has given us a viral phenomenon: the โno-buy quarter.โ
But, as the name implies, this time the challenge goes beyond a single month. Participants commit to three months of reduced spending, with some hardcore enthusiasts even extending it for a whole year! If you went a little too hard on spending during the holiday season, think of this as the perfect detox for your battered finances.
At its core, the no-buy quarter isn't about cutting out essential purchases. Groceries, medical expenses, and other necessities remain untouched. Instead, the goal is to reduce or eliminate non-essential spending. Think fewer splurges on coffee, takeout, home decor, or trendy gadgets.
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For TikTok creator @stephen_spann, a no-buy plan begins with making the most of what you already have. โUse up the food we already have before buying more,โ Spann advises, noting the often-forgotten freezer items many households accumulate. He also emphasizes tackling beauty and health products stockpiled in bathroom cabinets before succumbing to the allure of the latest trends.
"If I see something new in the store, I get sucked into that... I need to use up what I already have first."
โ @stephen_spann
For TikTok creator Mckenzie Mack, the no-buy quarter is a powerful tool for meeting ambitious financial goals. Mack plans to use the first three months of the year to frontload contributions to her 401(k).
@MckenzieMack
Her method? Increasing contributions to 26% during January through March to take advantage of a large bonus and reduce her contribution rate to 6-7% for the rest of the year.
โTo max out your 401(k) in 2025, you need to contribute $23,500,โ Mack explains. โBy committing to a no-buy quarter, Iโm ensuring a large chunk of my bonus goes directly toward my 401k.โ
"This is a use-it-or-lose-it situation... Iโm leaving a little extra in my fun money bucket, but once itโs gone, itโs gone."
โ @MckenzieMack
Both Mack and Spann point out the emotional and behavioral shifts that come with embracing a no-buy lifestyle. Mack recommends cutting down on streaming services and finding joy in low-cost hobbies like hiking or game nights.
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Spann, on the other hand, calls attention to the subtle temptations of shopping apps and notifications. โRemove shopping apps from your phone,โ he says. โTheyโre just tempting me.โ
"Just because I can get it on sale doesnโt mean I should buy it."
โ @stephen_spann
Both creators agree that breaking the consumerist cycle is about appreciating what you already own. By doing so, they say, you save money and cultivate contentment.
If the idea of a no-buy quarter appeals to you, here are some steps to get started:
From clearing out freezers and unsubscribing from services to making coffee at home, the no-buy quarter trend is more than a fleeting challenge. Itโs a chance to rethink your relationship with money and discover the joys of intentional living.
Whether you take it on for three months or use it as a launchpad for a year of mindful spending, it could be the reset you need to make 2025 your best financial year yet.
Most of us grow up hearing enough about menopause to understand the very basics of it. Periods stop. Hot flashes happen. Hormones are involved. For most of us, that's about the extent of what we ever learn about what happens during that transitional period of a woman's life. The details of what exactly menopause entails go largely unspoken and unacknowledged, leaving women in their 40s unprepared for years of wondering what the heck is happening to their bodies and minds as they careen toward their 50s.
Perimenopause, the period of time preceding actual menopause, is when all the fun starts. A random sprinkling of symptoms you had no idea were coming suddenly show up, throwing your whole world into disarrayโand the chaos lasts for years. Women going through it know that if you don't laugh about it, you'll cry. So, thankfully the chaos has been accurately and hilariously captured by Penn and Kim Holderness in a parody Christmas song medley.
With parodies of "Here Comes Santa Claus," "Sleigh Ride," "Santa Claus is Comin' To Town," "Little Drummer Boy," and "O Christmas Tree," the Holdernesses tackle the forgetfulness, sleeplessness, moodiness, hair thinning, doctor gaslighting and more that comes with perimenopause.
Merry Perimenopause ๐ ๐ผ
Oh HRT, oh HRT. Hormone replacement therapy ๐ถ
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@theholdernessfamily Oh HRT, oh HRT. Hormone replacement therapy ๐ถ #perimenopause #christmas
As they so often do, the Holdernesses hit the nail on the head with this parody, and it has Gen X women everywhere cheering.
"The new Gen X female anthem."
"As someone that works in an OBGYN office, I have officially requested this to be added to the waiting room playlist ๐"
"I nearly dropped my coffee-๐-heโs gaslighting you! Love it๐คฃ Iโm rolling!"
"Omg love this! One thing you didnโt mention, the weight gain that comes out of nowhere and will not come off!!!"
"Iโm impressed that no one was hurt in the recording of this video. ๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ"
"I have never felt more seen. ๐"
"This is an excellent contribution to society in all the ways ๐๐๐"
"I am so grateful to be going through this hell in a time where we are free to talk/sing about it!'
And there's the one upside to going through perimenopause in the 2020sโpeople are finally actually talking about it openly, honestly and publicly. Sure, women have always shared their experiences with one another in private conversations, but when you don't have a large enough sampling, it's hard to know what to expect. Doctors are often no help, either dismissing or diminishing your symptoms, telling you they are some version of "normal" or just giving an unhelpful, "Huh, that's weird" and leaving it at that.
To be fair, the symptoms that can come along with perimenopause are vast and varied. We expect the hot flashes and the moodiness, perhaps, but there are super off-the-wall things like dry eyes and ears, shoulder pain, itching all over that no one would logically associate with menopause. So it's understandable that doctors might not know what to do with all the perimenopausal possibilities. And since estrogen levels fluctuate unevenly during perimenopause, it's not always as simple as "get your hormones checked." Some women have a clear hormonal drop and find hormone replacement therapy a lifesaver. Some women experience all kinds of perimenopausal symptoms while never having an abnormal hormone test. A lot of perimenopausal management feels like shooting in the dark.
But hey, at least we have more information than our mothers and grandmothers did and a culture where we can make fun of our mid-life woes with parody videos like this one.
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