10 deep things about life I learned from taking preschoolers really seriously

I once asked my 7-year old-cousin to define confidence. Her answer was, "Confidence is ... confidence!" And no one was ever more right.

Kids have all the confidence in the world — and are way more right than most people think. Preschool teacher Leslie McCollom agrees.

After hearing pearls of tiny human wisdom every day, she started Preschool Gems to share the unfiltered insights of her students with the world.



They're a little absurd, but they make so much sense!

I looked through these morsels of preschooler wisdom from Preschool Gems, and here are the wise lessons they taught me.

1. Germs are OK.

2. Brokenness is part of being human.

Is this kid Yoda?

3. Life's a parade.


This tweet has guru status in my life.

4. Listen to your body, even if its signals are a little hazy.


It helps you when you're deciding what to eat or how much farther to run or whether you're really gonna move that couch all by yourself. Listening to your body! Yes.

5. The term "moms" isn't necessarily biological.


Mom first. Biology: afterthought.

6. Boundaries are important in relationships!


Speaking your mind and standing in your truth will only make life simpler.

7. It's important to find physical activity that works for YOU.


8. We must deal with the inevitability of death as part of life.


Whoa. Deep.

9. Fruits and vegetables deserve a deeper analysis.




10. We can — and do — contain multitudes!


This kid will not be confined to norms of toughness. He owns his myriad feelings with panache.

I love these gems. They just go to show: Wisdom is all around us if we just listen.

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One day in 2019, Jackson felt a sudden sense of hope for a better living arrangement when she caught wind of the ongoing construction of Veteran's Village in Carson, California — a 51-unit affordable housing development with one, two and three-bedroom apartments and supportive services to residents through a partnership with U.S.VETS.

Her feelings of hope quickly blossomed into a vision for her future when she learned that Veteran's Village was taking applications for residents to move in later that year after construction was complete.

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