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She explains why so many women don't say 'Hello.' The reason is absolutely chilling.

After the hidden-camera street harassment video "10 Hours of Walking in NYC as a Woman" went viral, many asked, "Since when does 'hello' qualify as street harassment?" Author and activist Mikki Kendall created the hashtag #NotJustHello to explain how too often "hello" is just the opening line to lewd comments, threats, and even physical violence.

When it comes to street harassment and conversations surrounding #NotJustHello, here are a few of the responses I've seen and would like to put to rest:

"But this is just one woman's story!"

While there are thousands of women from around the world sharing their stories with the #NotJustHello hashtag on Twitter, out of respect I chose to feature Mikki's not only because she started the hashtag but because I had her permission. Unfortunately, the Internet has a tendency to attack women who are brave enough to talk about sexual violence online, and the last thing I want to do is encourage that by sharing anyone's story without their consent.


"Oh, so now I can't say hello to a woman without her thinking I'm a creep?"

No. Saying "hello" does not mean you're a creep or that you're automatically harassing someone. It's also important to remember that cultural norms are different in different places. In small towns, it's not uncommon to say hello to a stranger in passing, but in bigger cities like New York where everyone's on the go, hello from a stranger might seem kinda odd.

Generally speaking, there's nothing wrong with being polite and saying hello to a passing stranger. But it's important to understand that SOME women may not respond because of past experiences with street harassment that followed what appeared to be a polite "hello." Essentially, the creeps have ruined it for the nice guys. It sucks, but this is where we're at.



A breastfeeding mother's experience at Vienna's Schoenbrunn Zoo is touching people's hearts—but not without a fair amount of controversy.

Gemma Copeland shared her story on Facebook, which was then picked up by the Facebook page Boobie Babies. Photos show the mom breastfeeding her baby next to the window of the zoo's orangutan habitat, with a female orangutan sitting close to the glass, gazing at them.

"Today I got feeding support from the most unlikely of places, the most surreal moment of my life that had me in tears," Copeland wrote.

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RumorGuard by The News Literacy Project.

The 2016 election was a watershed moment when misinformation online became a serious problem and had enormous consequences. Even though social media sites have tried to slow the spread of misleading information, it doesn’t show any signs of letting up.

A NewsGuard report from 2020 found that engagement with unreliable sites between 2019 and 2020 doubled over that time period. But we don’t need studies to show that misinformation is a huge problem. The fact that COVID-19 misinformation was such a hindrance to stopping the virus and one-third of American voters believe that the 2020 election was stolen is proof enough.

What’s worse is that according to Pew Research, only 26% of American adults are able to distinguish between fact and opinion.

To help teach Americans how to discern real news from fake news, The News Literacy Project has created a new website called RumorGuard that debunks questionable news stories and teaches people how to become more news literate.

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A mom describes her tween son's brain. It's a must-read for all parents.

"Sometimes I just feel really angry and I don’t know why."

This story originally appeared on 1.05.19


It started with a simple, sincere question from a mother of an 11-year-old boy.

An anonymous mother posted a question to Quora, a website where people can ask questions and other people can answer them. This mother wrote:

How do I tell my wonderful 11 year old son, (in a way that won't tear him down), that the way he has started talking to me (disrespectfully) makes me not want to be around him (I've already told him the bad attitude is unacceptable)?

It's a familiar scenario for those of us who have raised kids into the teen years. Our sweet, snuggly little kids turn into moody middle schoolers seemingly overnight, and sometimes we're left reeling trying to figure out how to handle their sensitive-yet-insensitive selves.


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