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Her boyfriend asked her to draw a comic about their relationship. Hilarity ensued.

The series combines humor and playful drawings with spot-on depictions of the intense familiarity that long-standing coupledom often brings.

All images by Catana Chetwynd

The sweetest illustrations


"It was all his idea."

An offhand suggestion from her boyfriend of two years coupled with her own lifelong love of comic strips like Calvin and Hobbes and Get Fuzzy gave 22-year-old Catana Chetwynd the push she needed to start drawing an illustrated series about long-term relationships.

Specifically, her own relationship.

Chetwynd says her goal is to explore the peculiar aspects of relationships at different stages, using her own as the master template.

The drawings are refreshingly touching, honest, and instantly recognizable to anyone who's ever had to learn to live with, for, and around a long-term partner.

The series combines humor and playful drawings with spot-on depictions of the intense familiarity that long-standing coupledom often brings.

The comics are almost too real—and really, really funny.

If the following comics capture your relationship to a T, you're most definitely not alone.

(All images by Catana Chetwynd.)

comic of a couple negotiating sides of the bed

There are no sides, actually.

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comic of couple sharing food

The answer is always yes

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comic of woman feeling special

Kind words always hold a big impact

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comic of couple out for the night

Beauty is pain, after all.

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comic of couple playing with a roomba

Important business

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comic of a couple

She'd forget her head if it wasn't attached, probably

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comic of a couple

Happy Holidays!

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comic of couple

Growing closer all the time

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comic of couple

They're OUR clothes now.

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comic of couple

No boundaries!

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comic of couple

Do-nothing days are the best.

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comic of couple

He can take a hint.

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comic of couple

Time is split into the Before Time and the Now.

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comic of couple

Long days don't feel so long.

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"When I started doing the comic, we hadn't lived together or anything yet, and now we've done the whole thing of moving in together and meeting the parents and everything." 


The evolution of their relationship provides the creative fuel for the comic strip. Thankfully her boyfriend, John Freed, is fully on board with being depicted in (digital) ink—despite having to occasionally awkwardly explain things that appear in the strip to their family and friends.

The connection she has built with Freed, Chetwynd says she wouldn't trade for anything—especially now that it inspires her art.

"The end goal for me was always to have somebody that I could be comfortable with in this way, and I think I got that."

You can follow Catana Comics on Facebook, X (formerly Twitter), and Instagram where she still posts comics every week.


This article originally appeared eight years ago.